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re: How to deal with a bossy wife?

Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:38 pm to
Posted by SantaFe
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:38 pm to
Does she drive a Jeep?
Is she a Cajun woman ?
Posted by ddbnsb
Raised in New Orleans
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:39 pm to
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16766 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:29 pm to
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you have to stand your ground when something is truly bothering you. You have to be willing to deal with the argument to get to what you need for both of y’all to be happy. Just sucking it up doesn’t help anyone



I can vouch for this. I’m pretty laid back, but I’ve let her know that if she pushes certain buttons, there will be problems. Almost as importantly, her mother knows the same, and that’s where a lot of this type stuff comes from. Her mother dominates her father. I told her straight early on, I’m not like your father and I’m not going to live that way. Soon after we got married her mother tried to dominate me and we had it out. I haven’t had a problem with her since.

It’s important to be introspective and not dismissive or defensive when she has a legit gripe, only when she is exhibiting disrespectful or otherwise bad behavior. I didn’t know about the emotional argument stuff, but I tend to believe it. Luckily, I’m very light on emotions, so I’ve skated by without ever getting sucked into this.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
80855 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:33 pm to
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PIIHB


OT is slipping when this isn't the first answer.
Posted by RT1941
Member since May 2007
32068 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:34 pm to
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Smoke weed. It will make her more tolerable.

BOTH need to smoke weed, it makes everyone more tolerable.
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
55979 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:43 pm to
PIIHB
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33303 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:44 pm to
You have to start every sentence you speak to her with the word, "listen". As you speak you should poke your right index finger into a spot about three inches below her suprasternal notch every other word. This will show her who's boss.

Good luck.
This post was edited on 6/29/21 at 4:46 pm
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
61832 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:46 pm to
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Damn wife is bossy lately. She wasn’t like this before we got married. Anyone else have the same problem? Hopefully the sex doesn’t go away or I will lose it


It’s a cry for help. What she really wants is for you to man up and take control. She needs a bull.

Posted by cable
Member since Oct 2018
9735 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:49 pm to
frick her mom
Posted by BarCo49
Alabama
Member since Apr 2021
306 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 4:55 pm to
Hit her in the mouth with a leg of lamb.
Posted by SaintsTiger
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 5:13 pm to
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I can vouch for this. I’m pretty laid back, but I’ve let her know that if she pushes certain buttons, there will be problems. Almost as importantly, her mother knows the same, and that’s where a lot of this type stuff comes from. Her mother dominates her father. I told her straight early on, I’m not like your father and I’m not going to live that way. Soon after we got married her mother tried to dominate me and we had it out. I haven’t had a problem with her since.


This and what King said. How do men live any other way? Also why do some posters say they’d put up with more bs simply if she is hott? I mean maybe if it’s just a physical attraction based type dynamic, but for an actual long term type relationship, hell no.

How did dudes get so insecure and passive?
This post was edited on 6/29/21 at 5:14 pm
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
7942 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 5:15 pm to
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
4981 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 5:21 pm to
I remind her that woman have smaller feet so that they fit in front of the kitchen sink better than me. And that she needs to make me a sammich, now.
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
4981 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 5:24 pm to
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Chock


Damn, so big you have to chock block her arse in bed so she doesn't fall out?
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10733 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 5:49 pm to
As a woman, I will never understand women or anyone who tries to tell another adult what to do or how to live. Tell her you’re a grown arse man and can make your own decisions. Honesty is the way to go.
Posted by texn
Pronouns: Y'All/Y'All's
Member since Nov 2019
4101 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 5:55 pm to
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Hopefully the sex doesn’t go away


It won't if you don't tell her where you are getting it from
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
26052 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 6:25 pm to
You need to take charge. Be in command.

Tell her how it is going to be.

Tell her how the cow ate cabbage.

Posted by animalcracker
Member since Oct 2010
2410 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 6:42 pm to
1 if she was like that before you married her, it's your fault for marrying her.
2 if she got like that since you've been married, it's your fault you let her get like that.
3 either way man up if you want your marriage, and not be a cuck.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134631 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 6:50 pm to
A submissive mistress
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5484 posts
Posted on 6/29/21 at 6:51 pm to
How I dealt with it? Divorce
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