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re: How to deal with a bossy wife?
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:37 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:37 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
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Anyone else have the same problem?
lol
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Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:38 pm to kingbob
quote:Bill Burr - How Women Argue
She will likely explode with rage and start calling you all kinds of names and bring up all kinds of non-sequiters in order to bait you into an emotional fight. Don’t bite, remain calm, and stay on task.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:38 pm to Theblairs02
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Pics and I will let you know
This is actually legit. If she looks good with a nice bod, she might be eligible for a free pass
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:39 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
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73191 posts
Probably spending too much time on here and not enough time talking with her.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:41 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
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Hopefully the sex doesn’t go away
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:41 pm to NYCAuburn
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Buy her tits
That usually turns into a parting gift.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:42 pm to kingbob
Thanks king I’m gonna try that
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:43 pm to Rex Feral
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Probably spending too much time on here and not enough time talking with her.
I think you are onto something.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:43 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
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Damn wife is bossy lately. She wasn’t like this before we got married. Anyone else have the same problem? Hopefully the sex doesn’t go away or I will lose it
Im convinced they all end up like this one way or another. Just do the opposite of what she says till she stops trying to boss you around.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:46 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
You aren’t doing it right anymore.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:50 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
Make sure you don’t come at her with an aggressive or accusatory tone. Stay calm, maybe a little sad. Talk to her serious, but gently with respect. Frame it first in asking her about what is going on in her life before you ever bring up how you’re feeling. See if you can find clues before you ask directly. Those clues will be used as follow up questions later.
Women have to share their feelings. They tend to communicate intimacy by telling you every little thought that flies through their heads every day. They’re throwing a massive volume of information out at you that you’re going to need to learn how to filter in order to figure out a lot of things. The sooner you learn to figure out what to keep and what to do with it, the happier the two of you will be.
Through her word vomit, you should be able to suss out what’s bothering her, what she likely wants to eat, what she wants as a gift for upcoming special occasions, what chores she would appreciate a break from, where she’d like to go on vacation, what little thing you should buy from the store to surprise her with, the new place you should take her this weekend, etc
It’s all about learning how to cut through the extreme volumes of bullshite about that woman at work she hates, and the line at the bank, and how the waitress at the restaurant looked at her when she handed her the check, and find the information that’s really relevant for knowing what her needs and wants are and how to provide then without her asking.
Women have to share their feelings. They tend to communicate intimacy by telling you every little thought that flies through their heads every day. They’re throwing a massive volume of information out at you that you’re going to need to learn how to filter in order to figure out a lot of things. The sooner you learn to figure out what to keep and what to do with it, the happier the two of you will be.
Through her word vomit, you should be able to suss out what’s bothering her, what she likely wants to eat, what she wants as a gift for upcoming special occasions, what chores she would appreciate a break from, where she’d like to go on vacation, what little thing you should buy from the store to surprise her with, the new place you should take her this weekend, etc
It’s all about learning how to cut through the extreme volumes of bullshite about that woman at work she hates, and the line at the bank, and how the waitress at the restaurant looked at her when she handed her the check, and find the information that’s really relevant for knowing what her needs and wants are and how to provide then without her asking.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:57 pm to kingbob
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if your wife suddenly changes behavior or tactics, there could be any number of reasons why:
Jesus why do you care why? Listen to her actions, not her words. Nothing else matters. She either becomes congruent to your life and needs, or she is cut out.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:58 pm to StringedInstruments
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harpy nag.
naming my next horse this. called it
Posted on 6/29/21 at 2:58 pm to kingbob
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It’s all about learning how to cut through the extreme volumes of bullshite...and find the information that’s really relevant for knowing what her needs and wants are and how to provide then without her asking.
OP - ignore everything Kingbob is saying.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:00 pm to StringedInstruments
The reason is she may not know why, and learning why may change the behavior. OP has identified a change in his wife’s behavior. This change likely has a cause. The behavior upsets him, and he’d like to see it changed. In order to change the behavior, the cause must be rooted out and dealt with or it will continue.
The key is to approach it as you trying to help her. It’s how you win the emotional battle and maintain the high ground. If you come in aggressive and emotional, you’ve lost the argument before you’ve even started. She’s not going to apologize and change if you start from the low road. Start from the high road and punch down until she rises to meet you.
The key is to approach it as you trying to help her. It’s how you win the emotional battle and maintain the high ground. If you come in aggressive and emotional, you’ve lost the argument before you’ve even started. She’s not going to apologize and change if you start from the low road. Start from the high road and punch down until she rises to meet you.
This post was edited on 6/29/21 at 3:03 pm
Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:03 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
You know the rules.....
Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:07 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
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How to deal with a bossy wife?
A semi-firm hand to her backside, a set her straight session in the bedroom and then tell her to make you a sandwich and step lively doing so.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:26 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
You got to put your wife in her place and establish dominance. She has the ring and she is now testing to see how far she can go ,and if you are too nice to her than she will walk all over you. Next time she gets an attitude and is bossy use your big boy voice, be assertive, and tell her how it will be. Then you must finish the act by PIIHB, it is the only way.
Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:29 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
Tell her she’s acting lik her mom they love that
Posted on 6/29/21 at 3:30 pm to NorthshoreTiger76
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Hopefully the sex doesn’t go away
It will never go away
for her.
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