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Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:29 am to mikeytig
Sadly, no.
Good advice fr33
Good advice fr33
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:32 am to mach316
With split custody it's pretty simple. When I have the kids, it's their night. We cook and play and watch movies and have fun.
When they are with their mom, I can have date nights.
We cook and play and watch movies and have fun.
When they are with their mom, I can have date nights.
We cook and play and watch movies and have fun.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:35 am to mach316
From personal experience and years of observation, you probably ought to wait about 2 years to get rid of all those ghosts and cobwebs clouding your brain.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:35 am to fr33manator
I've noticed that the time spent with the kids has been more focused on them. Going out to eat, movies and even the mall. 
This post was edited on 3/3/16 at 9:36 am
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:37 am to mach316
Year is what I advise. Also, if you have kids.... Don't introduce kids to anyone until you've been dating 4 months
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:37 am to 2geaux
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From personal experience and years of observation, you probably ought to wait about 2 years to get rid of all those ghosts and cobwebs clouding your brain.
Copious amounts of casual boot knocking helps some. At least you won't feel so fricking awkward. Just keep it light and easy.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:39 am to 2geaux
From personal experience, date whenever you'd like but keep it separate from your kids. I'd agree that near the two year mark is when your head starts to clear, your routines stat to be engrained, and life settles.
Intro to kids - once you know it's serious/long lasting. I've set the bar at 6 months (kids 13&11) and haven't crossed it yet so they've met no one.
Intro to kids - once you know it's serious/long lasting. I've set the bar at 6 months (kids 13&11) and haven't crossed it yet so they've met no one.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 9:51 am to Tiger in Gatorland
Date whenever you want. But, having them sleep at your house when your kids are home is a legal issue that's decided by a judge and your EX, if they so desire.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 10:06 am to mach316
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70 miles away
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Time on the road just took its toll
Ah so she found some dick closer to home
Posted on 3/3/16 at 10:54 am to mach316
When you are feeling your old self again. Whether that is a week, month, year, whatever
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:01 am to mach316
After the last separation, I went out with CC that night. Then a few others. And a few more.
It was the only way I could get over my crushing sadness.
Divorce was final a bit later...
It was the only way I could get over my crushing sadness.
Divorce was final a bit later...
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:05 am to mach316
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mach316
start easy. keep an eye out on the obituary section. find some nice looking widows looking to take their minds off of things for a few minutes. There's mutual benefits in that relationship unlike most fricking marriages.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:06 am to N2cars
I started going out a few weeks after I got the papers. The Lithettes are older (20 and up) so them meeting someone is no big deal though Lithette #2 doesn't like it when I date a 20something.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:13 am to mach316
Start dating when you feel like you want to. As far as your children, you should really wait on that. Be sure the person you're dating is a long term partner before you bring them into your kids' lives.
Best of luck, bud.
Best of luck, bud.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:20 am to mach316
I saw a chart that showed amount of time to grieve loss after a break up.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:27 am to mach316
It all depends on the kids and you. I am going through a divorce right now (still). I have zero interest in dating anyone, and may never. Plus, unless we get an annulment dating is pointless.
I have really started looking forward to being on my own except when I have the kids. I like to go hunt or fish whenever I want. I am not sure I want to have to run my plans by anyone else ever again..
I have really started looking forward to being on my own except when I have the kids. I like to go hunt or fish whenever I want. I am not sure I want to have to run my plans by anyone else ever again..
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:31 am to el Gaucho
Have the EX tell them you deserve love in your life too.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 11:45 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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I have zero interest in dating anyone, and may never
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I have really started looking forward to being on my own except when I have the kids. I like to go hunt or fish whenever I want. I am not sure I want to have to run my plans by anyone else ever again..
I'm going through the same right now, and am thinking this exact thing. OP- make sure you don't impregnate any of those one night stands before the divorce.
Posted on 3/3/16 at 12:20 pm to mach316
I started dating before my divorce was final. I waited about a month after I told my ex-wife I was divorcing her to start dating. It was about a week after she moved out.
Felt pretty good fricking another woman on what had been our marital bed one week after my ex moved out. Especially since she was 23, which was 8 years younger than my ex.
edit: and for the love of god keep things casual for a while. A long while.
Felt pretty good fricking another woman on what had been our marital bed one week after my ex moved out. Especially since she was 23, which was 8 years younger than my ex.
edit: and for the love of god keep things casual for a while. A long while.
This post was edited on 3/3/16 at 12:24 pm
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