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re: How should I proceed?

Posted on 12/21/15 at 10:23 pm to
Posted by Bonck1987
Houma, LA
Member since Jan 2015
655 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 10:23 pm to
This is a fair observation too.
Posted by jlu03
San Diego
Member since Jul 2012
3342 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 10:24 pm to
quote:

stay away from Kaye.... i think she's in Thibodaux now, but just take my word for it....


Well now I'm curious. She got the herp?
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
285225 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 10:25 pm to
quote:

She is moving to Nola from the Northshore on Saturday. Maybe I'll offer to help her move.


dont do that.

the asking for help with a gift thing was a really good idea though
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
25705 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 10:54 pm to
quote:

Well now I'm curious. She got the herp?

not when i was with her.... don't know about now...

but she was a beautiful girl... really was/is... but needy and crazy at the same time.... now, this was a little while back, like 10 years ago, maybe she's matured...
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
105823 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 10:57 pm to
I remember my first Facebook friend...











Actually no I don't because I've never been on that stupid Facebook shite.
Posted by sullivanct19a
Florida
Member since Oct 2015
5239 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 11:02 pm to
Message her on fb and ask her how she feels about Miss Puerto Rico's comments. You need to find this stuff out immediately.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
54981 posts
Posted on 12/21/15 at 11:03 pm to
She approached you.

Be a damn man and not a friggin metro emo.
Posted by atchafalaya
Bayou Chene, Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
1530 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 1:24 am to
What kind of kinky shite is this?
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 1:57 am to
You are to fricking timid.

Saying shite like "I am afraid I might have missed my opportunity." You are talking yourself into accepting defeat and just giving yourself an excuse.

At least attempt to take what you want. If you don't get it .....so what.

You need to message her back tomorrow and write this:

Hey. I am glad you messaged me because I really wanted to get your # before we parted ways last night. I enjoyed talking to you and want to see you again, sooner rather than later. Let's go do something fun together. Are you good with that?"

Be the boss man. Get straight to the point. It is not a request as much as it is a command. You lead and she will follow. Or....play the timid pussy game like college freshman and be in the friend zone forever with her. Women respond better to a man who goes after what he wants than a man who skirts around the issue like a schoolboy. You lose nothing if she declines and only gain valuable time back that you would have lost slow playing it.
Posted by TutHillTiger
Mississippi Alabama
Member since Sep 2010
46275 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:01 am to
Dude, Bro before hoes....

You can add, say something very innocent and let it go. If she hits you backs and is interested wants to go out with you then ok.
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
24386 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:04 am to
quote:

Well yeah, but I have a bad history of moving in on girl's my friends are interested in. I was gonna let this play its course than make a move.


Yeah this is a lie, or else your dumbass wouldn't be here like a high school bitch asking for advice.

Edit: Did none of you google his user name?





This post was edited on 12/22/15 at 2:22 am
Posted by Arkapigdiesel
Faulkner County
Member since Jun 2009
14833 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:13 am to
quote:

He's leaning all over her chair next to her, and she doesn't look interested at all. She talks to me a little bit and I casually chat with her. Well everyone splits up and I don't ask for her number, because I was trying to be respectful of my friend. She adds me on Facebook the next morning. Should I message her and see if she wants to meet up?

Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:17 am to
WTF!

Do not do that shite man! She will know exactly what you doing and will not be impressed. You might as well say " I am to unsure or myself to just tell you I am attracted to everything about you and want to get to know you better so I will try to entice you into liking me by offering up my moving service."

Dude, don't insult her intelligence. She will see right through that approach and will think you are some weak and insecure guy. Get to the point! You don't have to be a rude jerk to do that. She knows why you are calling her and it's not because you are interested in having a friendship with a woman.
Posted by ALWho
Earth
Member since Oct 2014
612 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:23 pm to
quote:

I have a bad history of moving in on girl's my friends are interested in


Bonck1987 has a reputation, but

quote:

I told him ok I won't pursu it.


But then

quote:

She adds me to Facebook.


That must mean she's all in

You don't have "friends". You're that guy that the love of his life just happened to be with another man. It's destiny in your eyes, but you are really just a jackass, especially to your "friends".
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19459 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:37 pm to
Posted by Chucktown_Badger
The banks of the Ashley River
Member since May 2013
34146 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:48 pm to
quote:

Be the boss man. Get straight to the point. It is not a request as much as it is a command. You lead and she will follow. Or....play the timid pussy game like college freshman and be in the friend zone forever with her. Women respond better to a man who goes after what he wants than a man who skirts around the issue like a schoolboy. You lose nothing if she declines and only gain valuable time back that you would have lost slow playing it.


Exactly. Heed the words of the immortal Jefe.

LINK
Posted by Chris Farley
Regulating
Member since Sep 2009
4188 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:49 pm to
quote:

 Maybe I'll offer to help her move. 


FRIEND ZONE
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:52 pm to
quote:

Should I message her and see if she wants to meet up?


Why? You obviously have no balls, so what are you going to do when she ready to frick?
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19459 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 2:59 pm to
Don't ask her on a date. Think about it, what if you do, and then you end up getting a cold sore and you have to cancel/reschedule. She'll be wondering WTF is with this guy. Best to just leave her alone.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130571 posts
Posted on 12/22/15 at 4:06 pm to
Roses are red,
Daffodils yellow,
No one can hear your screams,
I've soundproofed the basement
This post was edited on 12/22/15 at 4:07 pm
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