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re: How old were you when you had your first kid?
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:39 am to tigafan4life
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:39 am to tigafan4life
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Gross. But I figured some fool would say something.
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tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:43 am to Large Farva
I was 34 when my first was born, 41 when my second was born.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:45 am to Large Farva
28 - 1st
30 - 2nd
36 - 3rd
30 - 2nd
36 - 3rd
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:49 am to Large Farva
36. My parents had 4 kids by the age of 25. They highly encouraged me to take my time.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:50 am to Large Farva
I was 31 wife was 28. Going through the certification process to adopt our 2nd so hopefully we can have our 2nd when I'm 35-36.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:50 am to Kracka
quote:I'm 41 now. I can't even imagine dealing with an infant again.
41 when my second was born.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:50 am to Penrod
quote:Damn man, y'all came out the gate swinging!
First kid was when we were both 25. The fourth and final was when we were 29.
27, 39, 42...I had a gap decade
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:51 am to northshorebamaman
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Same. I'm about to have them all out of the house by 43.
Got mine out of the house at 44. The last several years have been the best I've ever spent with my wife. We are financially stable and now have free time to go where we want, when we want. Having kids in your 20's is hard. We weren't poor, but it was a struggle raising young kids and trying to start careers at the same time.
Now that I'm here, and our friends still have kids in elementary school, I can't help but feel like we made the right decision in having kids early. No way I could still be going to parent/teacher conferences at the elementary school.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:53 am to Large Farva
29 a few years after we married and bought the house
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:56 am to Aubie Spr96
quote:That's the way I looked at it. I was too broke to do all the things childless couples claim they do all the time anyways. Now I'm relatively young and stable and can actually do cool shite. And with a little luck I'll be able to see my grandkids graduate and maybe have kids of their own.
Got mine out of the house at 44. The last several years have been the best I've ever spent with my wife. We are financially stable and now have free time to go where we want, when we want. Having kids in your 20's is hard. We weren't poor, but it was a struggle raising young kids and trying to start careers at the same time.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:56 am to Aubie Spr96
quote:I am 50 with an 8 year old.
No way I could still be going to parent/teacher conferences at the elementary school.
I thought I would be this wise, patient parent versus how I parented my first in my 20s. I was wrong. And the more nonsense I see the worse it gets.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 9:59 am to Large Farva
I was 31.
I knew that I wanted to have stuff (house, marriage, bills, etc) pretty much figured out before I had my first child which I pretty much did. I was easily handling all that stuff before we had our daughter. That allowed her to be a real joy in our lives and she still is today at almost 8 yrs old.
I knew I didn't want to be a person that had a kid and all that kid brought was stress.....I wanted me and my wife to enjoy our life with our child and I wanted our child to enjoy her like with us. It has worked out pretty well.
I knew that I wanted to have stuff (house, marriage, bills, etc) pretty much figured out before I had my first child which I pretty much did. I was easily handling all that stuff before we had our daughter. That allowed her to be a real joy in our lives and she still is today at almost 8 yrs old.
I knew I didn't want to be a person that had a kid and all that kid brought was stress.....I wanted me and my wife to enjoy our life with our child and I wanted our child to enjoy her like with us. It has worked out pretty well.
Posted on 6/19/20 at 10:02 am to Large Farva
29 years old:
12 years after dating
4 years after being married
1.5 after buying a house
I'm glad we waited until we got our feet on the ground, wish we wouldve hit twins out the gate though and been done with it
12 years after dating
4 years after being married
1.5 after buying a house
I'm glad we waited until we got our feet on the ground, wish we wouldve hit twins out the gate though and been done with it
Posted on 6/19/20 at 10:02 am to Displaced
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bookmarked for October 20th.
Chris Delia has entered the chat.
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