re: How much time is appropriate to wait to start dating again after a spouse dies?

If she's feels it's appropriate right after you die, she never loved you

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My opinion is you have to wait at least a year.

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If they’re old, let them do whatever whenever. The other one is dead and won’t know the better.

Some of it depends on “dating” also. I would suggest 2 weeks is too short to create a tinder profile.

If you meet someone randomly at the grocery store, at the pickle ball tournament, etc. is that really wrong if it’s been a couple weeks only?

I know an elderly gentlemen that shipped out to the military and lost touch with his HS sweet heart. He was married almost 50 years to someone else, she passed from cancer. At her funeral, the HS sweetheart stopped by and one thing led to another. I don’t know details or timelines. But I’m going to assume it wasn’t a year.

Seems kinda fricked up, idk. But is that really that wrong?

When one of my cousins was around 12, his grandfather died. Not my grandfather, other side of the family. After a while, an older gentleman asked my cousin's grandmother out. My cousin found out about it, pitched an absolute fit and his grandmother called it off. I thought that was really sad.

That’s how many spouses die in first place - spouse was already dating while dead spouse was alive.

Saw this on Jerry Springer.

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my opinion is

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like assholes and everyone has one

And without being in their shoes.... I hope you kept your trap shut.

Maybe their marriage was all wine and roses and maybe it was a living hell she's ready to put well behind her. Because it night have been her most tragic day ever or the one's she's been waiting on for years. And without you knowing she may have already had enough grieve to last a lifetime.

You just never know....

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The woman is likely 60+ years old. And doesn’t want to be alone.

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I was thinking the same thing. Likely had nothing to do with sex. She has had a partner and not been alone for 30 years and now she is. Probably just very scary for her being alone and just seeking companionship.
I have been married for 32 years and have come home to my wife virtually every day of those years barring a few business trips. I don’t know how I would be able to handle coming home to an empty house every afternoon. I sure hope I go first. And if my wife is getting dicked down a month later because she is lonely and that’s what she need to keep her mental health then good for her.

Geez
It’s no ones business

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Nothing shows you love someone at an advanced age by watching them take it up the arse, on your bed and in your house, from heaven.

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Retard logic works both ways...

Yall all took the hook? None of this ever happened.