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How long after the death of a spouse is it normal to start dating again?

Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:06 pm
Posted by FlagLake
"Da Ship"
Member since Feb 2006
2339 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:06 pm
A cousin of mine passed away not long ago and her widower was literally dating someone else within 5 weeks. Plenty of pics on Facebook of the new couple doing things that just don’t seem normal for someone who just lost their spouse. Pictures of them going on vacation, going to concerts, and of him cooking her breakfast all within less than three months of her death.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
47609 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:07 pm to
A week to ten days
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:07 pm to
This is a weird thread. Maybe the man just needs some companionship.
Posted by DrSteveBrule
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
12008 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
Who cares what society thinks, take care of yourself
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
If you’re gonna do it that damn early at least be discreet about it.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39011 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
He poison her?
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21423 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
That may be a little early but not an OMG early.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
No magic number. Different for everyone but 5 weeks seems short. I’d guess the marriage has been “over” but dam.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32495 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
I’m sure it’s different for everyone.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11229 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
How did she die? If it was unexpected, yeah. That’s fast. If it was long and lingering, I don’t begrudge anybody finding happiness after going through something that horrible.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
I think I have no idea what it is like to lose a spouse. Someone you had to confide in and talk to every day. I have no idea what that void is like.

And it sounds like you don't either.

Until you do, I wouldn't judge.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124251 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:08 pm to
Less time than divorcees take
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99045 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:09 pm to
People grieve in different ways. Some people can move on like that, some people can’t. Some people just can’t stand to be alone.

It also depends on the quality of the relationship when their significant other passed.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119180 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:09 pm to
Tough call. Do you want them to sit around and dwell?
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:09 pm to
Some people are really lonely and need someone in their life. In the old days it was expected that widowed people would remarry asap if they could.

I had a friend in college whose mother died unexpectedly. Her father remarried within a year. It did cause quite a bit of friction at the time, but they all get along now.
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:10 pm to
My trashbag dad was married again within 2 montha after step mother died.
Posted by SDTiger15
lost in Cali
Member since Jan 2005
11374 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:10 pm to
Be Like George Constanza...he asked out Marissa Tomey the night after the funeral
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:11 pm to
Shooters shoot.
Posted by JoePepitone
Waffle House #1494
Member since Feb 2014
10580 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:11 pm to
Surviving spouse should be on the prowl at the wake.
Posted by Slim Chance
Member since Oct 2012
1576 posts
Posted on 8/1/19 at 5:12 pm to
5 years before they die or when she stops giving bj's, whichever comes first.
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