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How important is it for the father to be present for his child's birth?

Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:36 pm
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
17328 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:36 pm
It is expected. Pro athletes skip major events to be there for their children's birth. I would submit to you it is not nearly as important as our society makes it out to be. First the kid will not remember it. Second, if you miss a historic opportunity you never get that back. You can see your kids any time.

I am watching the Masters and a golfer was going to miss the Masters if his wife hadn't given birth last week. That may be his only chance to play in much less win at Augusta.

Also our troops have to miss their children being born all the time. A man's job takes precedence on occasion

ETA
Danny Willett is on the verge of winning a tournament that he was going to skip if his wife hadn't delivered last week. The baby was due today. Jordan Spieth collapsed to give it to him.
This post was edited on 4/10/16 at 5:29 pm
Posted by PocketAces
Member since Apr 2015
2207 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:36 pm to
Very
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:37 pm to
Women in my family refuse to allow a man in the delivery room. Some weird female thing from way back.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
111639 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:38 pm to
It's interesting that it just really became a thing over the past 40 or so years.

That said, I'm glad I was there for mine.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61784 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:38 pm to
I wouldn't have missed it for anything
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:45 pm to
Probably because they don't want their men seeing ripped apart vaginas full of blood, terds, and baby fluids.

I plan on being at the food court
Posted by papasmurf1269
Hells Pass
Member since Apr 2005
21468 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:48 pm to
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I wouldn't have missed it for anything
Me neither.
Posted by 7thWardTiger
Richmond, Texas
Member since Nov 2009
24670 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:49 pm to
I missed my daughters birth. I was installing halo lights in a customers vehicle when my gf called and said she was having contractions but thought they were false contractions and was gonna go sit in the bath tub to relieve them. 15 mins later, she calls me and says she has had the baby, right there in the tub. O_o

I actually beat the ambulance to the hospital and my shop is an hour away from my house and an hour and a half away from her OBGYN. Out ran 2 sheriff dept cars and swerved past a road block to get there.
Posted by wal marks
bee arrah
Member since Mar 2013
1176 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:51 pm to
I was there. All three times. Truly blessed for this. Could have been a pos soldier trying to get free shite
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
216679 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:54 pm to
I was there in delivery room for my daughters birth. It was amazing. But to each his own.
Posted by Nodust
Member since Aug 2010
22808 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:54 pm to
Plenty of dead beat dads show up on day 1. It's the rest of the days that count.

Being there for delivery is not very important.
Posted by Ric Flair
Charlotte
Member since Oct 2005
13879 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:55 pm to
Not important for the child, but very inportant for the wife (mother of the child).

Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
139226 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:55 pm to
I saw a birth in sex ed class. Don't really care to see another.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198020 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:55 pm to
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7thWardTiger
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40333 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:57 pm to
You're weak if you tolerate that.

How you gonna cut the cord from out in the hallway?


Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
7268 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:57 pm to
If you miss this on your own accord, you're a shitty person.
Posted by Rust Cohle
Baton rouge
Member since Mar 2014
2167 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:57 pm to
Yea the kid will never know. But I couldn't imagine being such a POS to my wife.
Posted by jacquespene8
Nashville, TN
Member since Sep 2007
4440 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:58 pm to
Was there for both my daughters. I think the only acceptable time to miss it is if you are deployed in the military, or if you have an emergency duty to fulfill.

Of course, each to his own.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12759 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 8:59 pm to
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Rebeloke

Your old man probably wishes you were never born, if that tells you much.
Posted by Nodust
Member since Aug 2010
22808 posts
Posted on 4/7/16 at 9:01 pm to
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Yea the kid will never know. But I couldn't imagine being such a POS to my wife.


I wouldn't miss it either. But emphasis should be in being a real dad. Not just bragging to friends about how you cut the cord.
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