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re: How do you handle paternity leave in performance rankings
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:13 am to JohnnyKilroy
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:13 am to JohnnyKilroy
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That’s awesome. We need more productive people pumping out kids!
That’s kinda what I was thinking. Good for her and her husband.

I mean, that’s the alternative? Only women who don’t work have kids? That would leave parenthood to a dwindling number of single-earner households and a lot of single moms running households with no income.
This post was edited on 1/6/25 at 11:14 am
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:15 am to Indefatigable
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Correct. And we've been doing the opposite for decades, then wonder why birth rates are where they are in the middle and upper-middle class
There are a dozen ways we could change direction on this - but moving to a more European style family leave policy would accomplish two things - it would help encourage more of America's productive citizens to have children (and earlier in life) and help keep productive members of society in the workforce.
IIRC, Trump's daughter tried to push this policy change back in 2018/2019 or so, but it didn't go anywhere because congress was more focused on impeaching her dad.
This needs to bubble back up to the surface. More paid family leave is needed in this country. We are encouraging the least productive members of society to reproduce and wonder why our culture and our society keep declining.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:21 am to i am dan
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Every somewhat "successful" middle class couple I know has had just one child.
I know a lot of economically solid middle class couples with one child - and they delay that first child until they are in their mid 30s. Both parents are busy working their asses off and are trying not to bring more mouths to feed until they are ready.
They don't have adequate paid family leave, and their support network (grandparents) isn't nearby or maybe aren't healthy enough to help with child care if needed.
Family leave is one side of the coin.
More access to affordable, high quality day cares is another.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:29 am to Indefatigable
This thread is revealing and troublesome
a. there is an impact on the moral and productivity on the co-workers that folks do not want to discuss. that is not management.
b. Too little regard for impacting profitability of the corporation. that is socialism
The one thing I learned from LSU rotc in 1967 was that typical effective org design based on centuries of experience was one leader for every 11-12 personnel. Squad, platoon, company, battalion etc were built up on that general approach. So each leader would have 11-12 people to force rank.
Ranking percentages I used were 10% 1 performers, 20 % 2 performers 65%3 performers, and 5 % that need improvement. In that grouping there are only 3 positions that are paid above average. When one of the three is out of pocket for three months, who picks up the load and gets recognized? Who picks up the load and doesn't get recognized? Point is, the direct supervisor is boxed in by policy and the need to keep the 12 person team motivated.
lastly, in a rating/ranking system all individuals should start out average and your sup/employee metrics drive performance accomplishment up and down the scale
a. there is an impact on the moral and productivity on the co-workers that folks do not want to discuss. that is not management.
b. Too little regard for impacting profitability of the corporation. that is socialism
The one thing I learned from LSU rotc in 1967 was that typical effective org design based on centuries of experience was one leader for every 11-12 personnel. Squad, platoon, company, battalion etc were built up on that general approach. So each leader would have 11-12 people to force rank.
Ranking percentages I used were 10% 1 performers, 20 % 2 performers 65%3 performers, and 5 % that need improvement. In that grouping there are only 3 positions that are paid above average. When one of the three is out of pocket for three months, who picks up the load and gets recognized? Who picks up the load and doesn't get recognized? Point is, the direct supervisor is boxed in by policy and the need to keep the 12 person team motivated.
lastly, in a rating/ranking system all individuals should start out average and your sup/employee metrics drive performance accomplishment up and down the scale
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:32 am to Trevaylin
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Too little regard for impacting profitability of the corporation. that is socialism
Yep. Corporate communism. It is a ridiculous policy and I say that as someone who has taken paid paternity leave.
It is the policy of the company who employs both of you that this leave be granted and penalizing the person in any way for taking it will and should get HR shoved up your arse.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:32 am to jizzle6609
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Work isnt the reason birth rates are going down so please spare us.
Both parents have to work because having children is practically unaffordable for a middle class lifestyle otherwise. Not work itself. Inflation, stagnant wages, and yes, boomer "arse in seats" work culture all contribute to varying degrees. Toss in the absolute failure of public schools as well. Private school is expensive, and basically mandatory for a lot of people.
This post was edited on 1/6/25 at 11:40 am
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:36 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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I can’t imagine working in an environment where a person can take 3 solid months off and not have it impact their pay or at least their variable pay portion.
Things I learned today are that many on the OT seem to think all businesses should operate like the govt. Have plenty of people to do one job, and then most of them can take off.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:38 am to kywildcatfanone
you a very smart guy
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:45 am to Trevaylin
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Real issue for metric driven organizations. Your 1 rated performer has a child and takes off for 3 months of the yearly evaluation period . Zero work out put for that three months. Do you drop they/them to average, giving a coworker who was in place the entire time a shot at the 1 rating. A coworker that probably had to pick up the slack.
I would give a bit of credit to the person that took increased workload, but in a million years I wouldn't hold maternity leave against an employee.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:49 am to Jcorye1
where you gonna get the credit from? you only get dealt 11 cards.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:55 am to Trevaylin
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Real issue for metric driven organizations. Your 1 rated performer has a child and takes off for 3 months of the yearly evaluation period . Zero work out put for that three months. Do you drop they/them to average, giving a coworker who was in place the entire time a shot at the 1 rating. A coworker that probably had to pick up the slack.
Be very carful with this as it could be construed as retaliation for a person using a company provided benefit. If you really want HR up your arse, try and tell an employee that they are being dinged for using vacation time or other provided benefits. Do you want to ding them for contributing to their 401k as well? After all, a match costs a "metric driven organization" money.
Besides, if they are one of your top performers, do you really want to rehire, retrain and replace them when they inevitably walk on you for shitting on them because they used a benefit?
If have an issue with the policy, take it up with the leadership in your organization that crafted the policy.
This post was edited on 1/6/25 at 12:02 pm
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:55 am to Trevaylin
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Do you drop they/them to average, giving a coworker who was in place the entire time a shot at the 1 rating. A coworker that probably had to pick up the slack.
No, you don't punish your "top performer" for using the parental leave provided by you, "the employer".
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:57 am to Trevaylin
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Do you drop they/them to average, giving a coworker who was in place the entire time a shot at the 1 rating.
If you do you sure as shite better not put the reason why in writing.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 11:58 am to Trevaylin
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where you gonna get the credit from? you only get dealt 11 cards.
This shouldn't be a zero sum game, if you have two employees that are rockstars, they should both be treated as rock stars. If it is a zero sum game, than it's asinine and I'd fight for the employee that took on additional duties and at least get a small end of year bonus to show appreciation.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:02 pm to TheDeathValley
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Do you drop they/them to average, giving a coworker who was in place the entire time a shot at the 1 rating.
If you do you sure as shite better not put the reason why in writing.
If they are this much of a dipshit, I would highly encourage them to put it in writing.
This post was edited on 1/6/25 at 12:04 pm
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:05 pm to turnpiketiger
quote:Only in this bullshite country that hates its workers, yeah
Had this conversation with many men over the years and very rarely do people find it acceptable to take 3 consecutive months off.
Look at any other developed nation and how they handle paternity leave.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:10 pm to Trevaylin
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This thread is revealing and troublesome
a. there is an impact on the moral and productivity on the co-workers that folks do not want to discuss. that is not management.
b. Too little regard for impacting profitability of the corporation. that is socialism
Virtually every bit of research that is out there shows if you have good family policies at a company (such as paternity leave) that your employees tend to be better producers because you're not treating them like shite.
In the long term, the company benefits from having good benefits and policies that support workers.
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The one thing I learned from LSU rotc in 1967 was that typical effective org design based on centuries of experience was one leader for every 11-12 personnel. Squad, platoon, company, battalion etc were built up on that general approach. So each leader would have 11-12 people to force rank.
Ranking percentages I used were 10% 1 performers, 20 % 2 performers 65%3 performers, and 5 % that need improvement. In that grouping there are only 3 positions that are paid above average. When one of the three is out of pocket for three months, who picks up the load and gets recognized? Who picks up the load and doesn't get recognized? Point is, the direct supervisor is boxed in by policy and the need to keep the 12 person team motivated.
lastly, in a rating/ranking system all individuals should start out average and your sup/employee metrics drive performance accomplishment up and down the scale
Welcome to being an adult working an adult job. People have to pick up coworkers slack sometimes. That's what happens in the real world.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:11 pm to jizzle6609
quote:Sorry gramps, this generation of MEN actually cares about their kids, and realize life is a shitload more than our employers' bottom lines.
This is where disagreement will come in.
A MAN should have no more than a week, no more.
Im ok with women having a long time with a newborn.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 12:20 pm to Trevaylin
Downrating someone for taking leave per company policy could be considered retaliation.
Posted on 1/6/25 at 1:01 pm to Gravitiger
nuances ..In the rating system, all personnel start out as average and your travel up and down the ladder depends only on your supervisor/employee agreed to metrics. Having a child should not be a metric, thus down rating is not appropriate per se.
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