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How do you approach a subject of divorce with new dates?
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:40 pm
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:40 pm
Just curious if anyone else went through this. 30yo clean divorce no kids etc but when do you bring this up?
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Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:40 pm to fareplay
After the wedding
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:41 pm to castorinho
Serious q can they even find out?
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:42 pm to fareplay
The same day as the state of the union? Pics
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:43 pm to fareplay
As soon as the drinks arrive. I usually start crying for extra sympathy.
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:44 pm to fareplay
After I touch guts
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:44 pm to fareplay
When things begin to progress.
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:45 pm to NIH
I have her sign a pre-nup first date. Before a drink is ordered. Bite me once shame on you. Bite me twice shame on me.
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:46 pm to fareplay
If no kids, I wouldn’t bring it up on the first date. If after the second or third date and a relationship looks promising, I’d find a way to mention it.
Unless it’s happened in the recent past, most won’t care. If anything they will see you as someone committal and like you more.
If it’s happened recently (Within the last year or two) then it may freak them out and it should.
Unless it’s happened in the recent past, most won’t care. If anything they will see you as someone committal and like you more.
If it’s happened recently (Within the last year or two) then it may freak them out and it should.
This post was edited on 2/28/21 at 1:47 pm
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:47 pm to fareplay
quote:you should list it on your Grinder profile
How do you approach a subject of divorce with new dates?
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:48 pm to fareplay
2 months in. if you bring it up on the first date you shouldn't be dating yet
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:49 pm to fareplay
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f divorce with new dates
Usually during the first date the topic of past relationships comes up. Both of the women I dated after my divorce knew I had been divorced during the first date.
When you are talking about yourself, I would casually mention that you had been married, but it didn't work out, and share whatever reasons you feel pertinent.
This post was edited on 2/28/21 at 1:50 pm
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:51 pm to BabyTac
quote:This.
If no kids, I wouldn’t bring it up on the first date. If after the second or third date and a relationship looks promising, I’d find a way to mention it.
It would be silly to mention it unsolicited on a first date. If things are great down the road there shouldn’t be any reason why mentioning it would mess things up.
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:54 pm to fareplay
I think it is probably assumed if you are over 30 that you have been married before....wouldn’t you assume that about a woman that you meet? I have never been married and am older than that and people are often surprised when they find out.
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:55 pm to fareplay
Unless this is a blind date you should have probably already talked about that or at least mention it during the “tell me about yourself” part of the first date
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:56 pm to fareplay
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How do you approach a subject of divorce with new dates?
why on earth would you "approach the subject of divorce" on a date?...
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:57 pm to fareplay
Right before you PIIHB.
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:58 pm to fareplay
It's tough explaining divorce at such a young age. I'd think depending on your looks/ money or kids most women would be willing to overlook a lot.
I know I'd see it as a red flag if a woman was divorced that young. Getting married is a huge decision and having it blow up so early might indicate their decision making abilities, i.e. do they have horrible taste in men, or are they really bad judges of character.
With all that being said, just tell the truth and I doubt you'll have much issue especially if you don't have kids.
I know I'd see it as a red flag if a woman was divorced that young. Getting married is a huge decision and having it blow up so early might indicate their decision making abilities, i.e. do they have horrible taste in men, or are they really bad judges of character.
With all that being said, just tell the truth and I doubt you'll have much issue especially if you don't have kids.
This post was edited on 2/28/21 at 1:59 pm
Posted on 2/28/21 at 1:59 pm to farad
Because it can be a common dealbreaker and you may just waste each others time
Posted on 2/28/21 at 2:00 pm to Spankum
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I think it is probably assumed if you are over 30 that you have been married before
Really? Are people really that shite with marriage?
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