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re: How difficult is being an engineer major and a pledge?

Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:05 pm to
Posted by thesoccerfanjax
Member since Nov 2013
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Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:05 pm to
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What's the point of pledging anyway?


To get into the fraternity.
Posted by The Sad Banana
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Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:05 pm to
Just be prepared for your son to major in beer and chicks his first two years until he realizes he needs two more years of loans because TOPS only goes 4 years.
Posted by THRILLHO
Metry, LA
Member since Apr 2006
49540 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:06 pm to
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Civil Engineering



Practically a liberal arts major. Should have plenty of free time.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52188 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:07 pm to
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Just be prepared for your son to major in beer and chicks his first two years until he realizes he needs two more years of loans because TOPS only goes 4 years.
Mine only lasted 2 semesters
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23395 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:07 pm to
Don't listen to these guys. People who weren't in fraternities like to destroy any thread that mentions them.

Modern pledging is like 6 weeks. I pledged for an entire semester and 12 weeks into the next semester. He'll be fine and will be proud of his choice for his entire life.
Posted by LoveThatMoney
Who knows where?
Member since Jan 2008
12268 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:08 pm to
His difficulty will be finding a fraternity that wants to accept a sophomore pledge.

I know several guys who were engineers and pledged and did fine. It's a ton of work and takes discipline, but that's the case with pretty much anything.
Posted by PRK
Member since Sep 2009
9142 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:08 pm to
Delta Chi or die
Posted by philly444
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Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:09 pm to
Yeah he's a good kid. He really seems to buy into the whole frat thing though. I actually tried to talk him out of it, but he really wants to do it.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52188 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:10 pm to
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Yeah he's a good kid.
was
Posted by PhiTiger1764
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Member since Oct 2009
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Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:11 pm to
No let him do it. I don't regret a thing.
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43480 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:11 pm to
I never had a problem studying and rushing. If he really wants to do it, he should be able to manage.
Posted by WhoDats10
Member since Dec 2012
1580 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:12 pm to
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ended up with like a .04 GPA . Failed everything but a hour credit lab. Taught me how to buck up and study though.


that's worse then me
Posted by LoveThatMoney
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Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:15 pm to
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Yeah he's a good kid. He really seems to buy into the whole frat thing though.


There are plenty of "good kids" who are members of fraternities. You may need to trust him to choose the place where he fits in. If he is a good kid, he'll go to a fraternity with other guys who are trying to make something of themselves and aren't out to recreate Animal House.

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I actually tried to talk him out of it


Not to question your parenting, but being in a fraternity is far from a bad thing. I would encourage most people to do it and to actually get involved with it. You can actually accomplish things while in college as a fraternity member and you can, if nothing else, use it to build a resume. Believe it or not, a lot of people look at a guy who was in a fraternity and think, "Okay, at least he's not socially inept."
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
22999 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:15 pm to
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I actually tried to talk him out of it, but he really wants to do it.


I say let him try it out, I doubt he will regret it, and you can meet some very valuable contacts during your years in the fraternity. Not that you can't if you don't join, but it's not too shabby keeping those contacts of guys who come from families with the money to spend on fraternity dues. They definitely are beneficial.
Posted by LStU
Member since Jan 2012
404 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:17 pm to
CE grad here.

Sophomore year is the toughest year IMO. PHYSICS and STATICS are the indicator classes. If he gets through those then he'll make it.

And college students will have distractions regardless. Rushing sophomore year would have been 2x more difficult time wise for me considering the school work load. Hopefully his year of college and the resulting maturity will help him out.

*not a frat guy but I had a gf in a sorority and had plenty of friends in my classes that were in frats
Posted by Civildawg
Member since May 2012
8644 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:18 pm to
I'm a civil engineer and I pledged while in college. It's honestly not that hard, all he needs to do is be organized and not wait to do homework at the last minute. I was an engineering major, pledged, and had a job and i made it through. The frat was a nice way on the weekend to get rid of alot of stress and party with friends. People will give frats a bad rap but all my groomsmen in my upcoming wedding are guys from my fraternity.


ETA: I would highly recommend him joining a fraternity. I interviewed for my job and it was between me and someone else and the guy that interviewed me picked me because I was in the same frat as he was when he was in college.
This post was edited on 1/30/14 at 1:21 pm
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:19 pm to
It was bad. I won't lie about that. I actually had a really good GPA in my core engineering classes after that. I just didn't put much effort into it because I was to busy sleeping in . I had tons of pledge brothers with 4.0's. You just have to go into it with the realization that studying comes first. You still have plenty of time for fun. I probably went out more my last few years at LSU, but I knew how to handle my business before going get drunk.
Posted by philly444
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Member since Nov 2008
11403 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:23 pm to
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His difficulty will be finding a fraternity that wants to accept a sophomore pledge.


I also threw that at him. He said he wasn't worried about that.
Posted by philly444
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Member since Nov 2008
11403 posts
Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:25 pm to
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Delta Chi or die


I believe the one he liked is either Sigma Chi, Lambda Chi, or Delta Chi. Can't remember exactly I just remember the "Chi"
Posted by StealthCalais11
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Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/30/14 at 1:27 pm to
Two of my fraternity brothers were computer engineering majors, both were the hardest partiers I've ever met, & both somehow managed to make good grades. It can be done, but your son better be ready to go days without sleep.
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