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re: Hey Divorced People.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:01 am to Mingo Was His NameO
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:01 am to Mingo Was His NameO
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Has nothing to do with the husbands (ex?) on this board that gain 50 pounds, are alcoholics, obsessed with politics, and general assholes
I cover three of four. I guess that's why she hasn't left just yet.
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Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:20 am to TigersHuskers
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This post was edited on 5/4/25 at 3:18 pm
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:40 am to Jim Thorpe
1. 14 years
2. I did
3. Married young. We lost all emotional and physical connection.
Five years of marriage counseling uncovered that she’d had an…um…intimate relationship with her brother, who’d warned me not to marry her, and she sank into self loathing after he died a year later. I bailed, not because of her lack of judgment, but because she had become a bottomless pit of emotional need who would not help herself as long as I was around.
Waited 9 years before my second marriage and got it right this time.
2. I did
3. Married young. We lost all emotional and physical connection.
Five years of marriage counseling uncovered that she’d had an…um…intimate relationship with her brother, who’d warned me not to marry her, and she sank into self loathing after he died a year later. I bailed, not because of her lack of judgment, but because she had become a bottomless pit of emotional need who would not help herself as long as I was around.
Waited 9 years before my second marriage and got it right this time.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:47 am to Fiddler crab
7 pages and not one “she decided she was a lesbian “ story. That’s surprising to me in 2025.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:48 am to Fiddler crab
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Five years of marriage counseling uncovered that she’d had an…um…intimate relationship with her brother,
What part of Alabama were you living in?
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:55 am to wackatimesthree
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3. Feminism
4. EDIT: Post-Modernism
Those are effectively the same thing.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 6:57 am to TexasTiger08
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Wife dropped it on me about 5 minutes after she told me she was pregnant
Woah. That's heartbreaking.
Idk your situation and I'm not going to pass judgement on it. Just sad for all involved, but I'm glad you have your parents' support.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:05 am to thegambler
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Cheating whore instead of a mother/wife
Best GD decision ever.
Fark a biatch trying to hold you down because your a decent dude and good dad.
10 years later and the kids know the score.
This pretty much my story. She thought the grass was greener and I didn't stop her. Never looked back but let's just say watching her shitshow from afar was very satisfying especially after child support was over. Lol. Everything now is good but we don't really talk but we do have 3 great adult children from it
Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:05 am to StormTiger
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we met in college, had two kids, never fought, but both lost romantic interest in each other, so we were just coparenting, and decided that was not healthy for either of us
As a parent this is wild to me. It’s “not healthy” for us bc we don’t want to frick like we used to, might as well ruin our kids lives forever and give up half our time with them bc maybe I can find someone I’d rather frick.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:11 am to Limitlesstigers
quote:Link?
90% of welfare is used by single mothers.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:17 am to Jim Thorpe
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So she was 50ish?
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Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:17 am to Fiddler crab
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intimate relationship with her brother, who’d warned me not to marry her
Now that's a story I'd like to hear.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:47 am to Mid Iowa Tiger
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she screwed a priest
With credentials like that, that guy's a lock for Monsignor.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 7:53 am to questionable
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As a parent this is wild to me. It’s “not healthy” for us bc we don’t want to frick like we used to, might as well ruin our kids lives forever and give up half our time with them bc maybe I can find someone I’d rather frick.
wasn't even about the sex, the kids never saw their parents touch...now they are both seeing their parents in healthier relationships, which is a much better model for what they should be looking for as they get older.
They've also seen both their parents remain supportive to each other and them, so they are fine. Life doesn't always have to tick some black and white box for everyone.
This post was edited on 2/1/25 at 7:55 am
Posted on 2/1/25 at 8:02 am to Jim Thorpe
Ask your husband
Posted on 2/1/25 at 8:13 am to Jim Thorpe
9 years.
She filed.
She was raised by a single mother. Her Dad divorced her mother when she was a toddler to start a new life/family with another woman. She never came to terms with that abandonment and filed for divorce when our daughter was a toddler so she can follow the playbook she learned from her own mother.
Young baws of the OT, learn from my mistake. Pay attention to her relationship with her own father. If it isn’t good, move on. It will manifest it self down the road.
ETA: I am typing this as I sit at a resort in Jamaica with my girlfriend of a few years. Life is too short to stay married to the wrong woman.
Life goes on, and on.
She filed.
She was raised by a single mother. Her Dad divorced her mother when she was a toddler to start a new life/family with another woman. She never came to terms with that abandonment and filed for divorce when our daughter was a toddler so she can follow the playbook she learned from her own mother.
Young baws of the OT, learn from my mistake. Pay attention to her relationship with her own father. If it isn’t good, move on. It will manifest it self down the road.
ETA: I am typing this as I sit at a resort in Jamaica with my girlfriend of a few years. Life is too short to stay married to the wrong woman.
Life goes on, and on.
This post was edited on 2/1/25 at 8:16 am
Posted on 2/1/25 at 8:17 am to questionable
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As a parent this is wild to me. It’s “not healthy” for us bc we don’t want to frick like we used to, might as well ruin our kids lives forever and give up half our time with them bc maybe I can find someone I’d rather frick.
I’ll be married 25 yrs next month and one thing I’ve learned over the years is not to judge what happens in relationships unless it’s just egregious cheating. Nobody except the two individuals knows what’s really going on inside of their home and you almost always hear one side of the story. Also, people change a LOT over time…especially when midlife kicks in, caring for children becomes a priority and hormones get wonky.
This post was edited on 2/1/25 at 8:19 am
Posted on 2/1/25 at 8:19 am to Jim Thorpe
Blame social media
Women can’t live without it
They get jealous when their posts don’t measure up
Women can’t live without it
They get jealous when their posts don’t measure up
Posted on 2/1/25 at 8:20 am to StormTiger
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They've also seen both their parents remain supportive to each other and them, so they are fine
Sure they are bud. Sounds like you’re fine but who knows about them. Not one mention about losing half of your time with them, which again is wild to me as a parent.
Posted on 2/1/25 at 8:20 am to Jim Thorpe
1. How long were you married ? 19 years
2. Who filed for the divorce ? She did
3. Why did they file for divorce ? She found out I was cheating. She has bad taste in men.
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