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re: Helping a toddler get over fear of dogs?

Posted on 2/20/26 at 3:05 pm to
Posted by LSUJML
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 3:05 pm to
Would getting her a stuffed puppy help?
Posted by Adajax
Member since Nov 2015
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 3:05 pm to
Find the people that have dogs they bring to old folks homes. These dogs are always calm and friendly.
Posted by caro81
Member since Jul 2017
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 3:09 pm to
i am in no shape or form a child therapist so this is just my BS opinions.

Like other have said, very slow. Start with comforting and showing confidence yourself when she is afraid.

maybe very slow visual stimulation with no audio since audio seems to trigger her already. Dont overload her senses. Muted videos of dogs with positive reinforcement with you. Slowly add other sensory cues.

if she ever get to point where you think she could be ready to interact with an animal (even just being in the same room) maybe considering finding someone with a certified therapy dog. That will be much more controlled event.
Posted by NotChexMix
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 3:30 pm to
Wait til she is old enough to understand the responsibilities that comes with owning a dog before ever buying her one

eta: you could always buy her a turtle
This post was edited on 2/20/26 at 3:32 pm
Posted by hubertcumberdale
Member since Nov 2009
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 3:32 pm to
It’s a 2 year old for fricks sake let the kid be scared of an animal, and probably rightfully so
Posted by armytiger96
Member since Sep 2007
2563 posts
Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:02 pm to
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She has Spina Bifida with co-morbidities of hydrocephalus and Chiari malformation. From research I know that impacts her executive function and also makes her startle reflex more sensitive, so it may be a bit more difficult getting her over it.


I'm assuming she sees an OT and or Speech Therapist regularly. They would probably give you better strategies in this area than a bunch of know it all Baws (myself included)!

I would stick with the professionals on this.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:09 pm to
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Our two year old is deathly afraid of dogs. If we are outside and she hears the neighbors' dog barking there is a better than 50% chance she goes into full meltdown. If she sees a video on YouTube with dogs she pulls away from the screen
same way you teach a kid so swim that’s afraid of the water. You toss them overboard. After a couple of rods they realize they ain’t nothing to be afraid of
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:09 pm to
Get her a mini can of pepper spray and bring her to the pitbull breeding farm for target practice.
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Baw Land
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:20 pm to
Posted by PJinAtl
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:35 pm to
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I'm assuming she sees an OT and or Speech Therapist regularly. They would probably give you better strategies in this area than a bunch of know it all Baws (myself included

Yes, speech once a week, PT twice a week. Amazingly she hits all of her current milestones to not need OT at this time.

I know she is unique but I was curious if anyone had kids if a similar age with the same fear and how y'all handled it.
Posted by TheRealTigerHorn
Member since Jun 2023
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:36 pm to
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My now deceased Border Collie was used to get kids unafraid of dogs. Had a very friendly demeanor and appearance. She was bullet proof with kids. Kids liked her. You need to find someone with a similar dog.


This is a good approach, though actually kind of rare with a Border Collie. Australian Shepherds that don't bark unless actively "herding" (a ball, other dogs running around, etc) that are also very kid-friendly are easy enough to find. You want one of the lower energy ones if possible.
Posted by PJinAtl
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:43 pm to
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Wait til she is old enough to understand the responsibilities that comes with owning a dog before ever buying her one

Oh we are a long way from that. I'm waiting for our 4 year old to start asking, and I'm going to tell him that if he can't pick up his Hot Wheels monster trucks before bed I sure don't see him picking up dog poop during a walk.
Posted by shutterspeed
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Member since May 2007
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 4:53 pm to
Cute dog videos, movies, and cartoons?
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 5:13 pm to
She was very chill with kids.
Posted by Mr Breeze
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Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 7:34 pm to
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Have access to an older golden retriever?

Introduced slowly, starting with a walk, then gradually getting them closer is worth a try. My golden’s were super tolerant of opf children, ear pulling eye gouging, crawling all over them, it seems to be instinctive with the breed. They’re super chill with kids.

Or, find a therapy dog organization and see what might be arranged.

Good luck.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 7:40 pm to
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Find the people that have dogs they bring to old folks homes. These dogs are always calm and friendly.
When I had an Oct.4th-Jan. 6th hospital stay in Dallas Presbyterian, they brought a dog by my room so I cold pet it. It was a big dog that put it's head on the bed. I bet one of her Dr.'s could tell you about someone who would know the best way to introduce her to a trained friendly dog.

Anyone know the best way to get my neighbor's dog to quit barking when I'm in my yard? He barks when he hears anything on the other side of the fence. He's a little French Bulldog.
This post was edited on 2/20/26 at 7:41 pm
Posted by Tree_Fall
Member since Mar 2021
1248 posts
Posted on 2/20/26 at 8:04 pm to
I recently found that a young-adult associate has been deeply terrified of dogs since childhood. So it is important to reduce the toddler's fear. Reasoning might become effective when she is 3.

Until then positive experience may be best. Atlanta area has several therapy dog training programs. Contact a few of them and ask their help in making a list of well-trained dogs close to you. Then every few weeks have short no-pressure visits with dogs of different breeds and sizes. Before the visits show her pictures and tell her the dog's name.

Good luck.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/20/26 at 8:20 pm to
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You should have shot them. The friends I mean.

Because their dogs play fought on the floor for a few seconds?
Posted by calcotron
Member since Nov 2007
10745 posts
Posted on 2/20/26 at 8:44 pm to
Bless you and your daughter. I pray that she'll have great life experiences through your love for her.
Posted by andwesway
Zachary, LA
Member since Jun 2016
3398 posts
Posted on 2/20/26 at 9:08 pm to
Weenie dog puppy. Kids love them and they're funny looking.
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