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re: Have you ever taken a fake "business trip"?

Posted on 7/13/15 at 7:58 am to
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
12171 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 7:58 am to
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He's lying to his wife. That is cheating. Whether he's banging someone else isn't the issue.



What is this shite?
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19410 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:09 am to
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I take 3 to 4 guys' weekend trips a year.


The weekend's all she lets you have?
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
74852 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:09 am to
I always tack at least one (but up to four or five) personal days to business travel. Usually I'll just go explore interesting areas around wherever business takes me. I flew to a work-related convention in Las Vegas, stayed there three days, flown to Barbados from there and then flown home. The multi-stop flight itinerary (MSY-LAS-BGI-MSY) was only $250 more than MSY-LAS-MSY. FTR: It's a long way from LAS to Barbados.

The only exception would be a short business meeting or one day conference in say DFW, ATL or IAH where I leave home early in the morning and come back home that same evening.

You gotta beat the man whenever you can. (The Taxman)
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19410 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:10 am to
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I just feel like most women would instantly assume you're cheating or want to cheat if you told them you want to have a personal weekend.


If a woman trusts you, she should be understanding of you wanting to go an a weekend trip with your guy friends. Or even a personal trip, with no friends.
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:13 am to
Once, got caught. Never did that again
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
61191 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:14 am to
You would think but it doesn't work like that for me.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
11073 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:18 am to
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Brother-in-law law's dad
Your husbands dad? So wouldn't that be your father in-law?
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19410 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:25 am to
I actually know a couple who were married, and the guy said he was going on a business trip across the country for a week to take a class. Well he was dumb and she checked their mint.com account and found out he was actually in another country and was cheating on her.

He was talking to her on the phone every day, making up stuff about how the class was going. I could not morally do that.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108333 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:30 am to
why be married if you have to resort to these adolescent dirty dirt tricks?

seriously. if the guy is on the up and up and needs a couple of sanity days to himself, just talk to the wife.

sounds like he is up to no good
Posted by Rand AlThor
Member since Jan 2014
10432 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:30 am to
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If a woman trusts you, she should be understanding of you wanting to go an a weekend trip with your guy friends. Or even a personal trip, with no friends.


I could just see how even a trustworthy woman would be like "Why? Can't we go together?" .. To a woman, "I need some personal time" sounds like "man, I'm sick of you, let me find some better pussy" ...

Probably doesn't apply to guys who marry their best friends. I'm not married so I wouldn't know.
This post was edited on 7/13/15 at 8:31 am
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19410 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:34 am to
I mean, you see her every day..a little time away can be a good thing. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:34 am to
Both awesome and weird IMO maybe even a bit sad. Funny either way though.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71104 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:36 am to
I take enough real ones as it is. I'm more likely to tell work that I need to stay home rather than go to a client for a week than tell my wife I need to travel when I really don't.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33963 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 8:40 am to
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I just feel like most women would instantly assume you're cheating or want to cheat if you told them you want to have a personal weekend.


It's just going to look that much worse when the wife eventually finds out, and she will.
This post was edited on 7/13/15 at 8:41 am
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
167421 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 9:00 am to
I would bet he takes these fake trips to

a) fudge pack his lover

b) screw his female lover

c) screw a sheep

d) hookers and blow

e) Caitlyn hookers and heroin
Posted by BRIllini07
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2015
3206 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 9:51 am to
I feel it's a good idea in principle, for me I grew up an only kid with both parents working full time after I was about 8 years old, so it feels good every now and then to get some "me time".

That being said, pulling off a whole fake business trip isn't just one lie, it's 50 (who the clients were, the nightly phone calls, talking your way out of your wife bringing up your business trips at the company Christmas party....). You're going to slip up eventually and you'll have no excuse for that level of dishonesty.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
45365 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 9:56 am to
I have never done it. And my younger self might think someone who has is cheating or whatever, but now with three kids, I can see this happening. Heading up a household has a ton of responsibilities, and there are times I just want to be alone and read or fish. No one bothers me while I am working, and I can see using the excuse.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39637 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 10:08 am to
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He claims he's not cheating - that he simply needs "me time" and this is the best opportunity to truly unwind.


He is an abject failure as a husband and father.

Also, he's femmy if he ever actually says "me time".
Posted by LSUAfro
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2005
12775 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 10:09 am to
I've taken the get out of the house trips for a weekend. I usually try to add some kind of work related activity to make it somewhat legitimate, but we aren't lying to each other. We know the point of the trip is to get some fresh air.

I fully encourage her to do the same if she needs a little "me time".

Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33963 posts
Posted on 7/13/15 at 10:10 am to
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Heading up a household has a ton of responsibilities, and there are times I just want to be alone and read or fish.


Well yeah, you and every other married person (aside from the most extroverted of people) just wants to be alone at times.

Seems like something folks should practice before they get married, like hey, maybe we don't have to spend every single minute of our free time together. Then in the marriage when you actually request it it's not some huge surprise. Maybe both will actually live more enriching lives if they're not completely dependent on each other for contentment.

Not married but it'd be a priority for me to let my SO know that I need time to recharge from time to time.
This post was edited on 7/13/15 at 10:12 am
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