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re: Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)

Posted on 1/28/23 at 8:06 am to
Posted by Jameson2954
Member since Mar 2022
655 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 8:06 am to
38, never once thought about the perils of divorce when I decided to get engaged/married.

My opinion is that those people were never going to get married either way.
Posted by Whodat28
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2016
753 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 9:38 am to
It’s unreal now after 7 months of dating around how many women will sit there on a date and talk about their toxic ex. Deep down I want to believe that their ex was some shitty person, maybe they all were. But it seems highly unlikely that every person a modern woman has dated was toxic. I think what really happens is that the person they are dating has flaws. Instead of accepting the flaws, like the man often does for them. Relationships take work. You’re not always going to be happy in one but that’s life. You stick it out for people you love. How dare you have flaws as a human.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67064 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 10:00 am to
Tbh, there’s a lot of toxic people out there. In my opinion, the reason so many women have toxic exes is because they’re all dating the same few toxic guys. Those guys are hot, so they can be toxic as f$&k and cycle through women. 10 hot toxic dudes in a smedium sized dating pool can play the roll of toxic ex-bf to literally 100+ women.

Some flaws are just flaws you deal with. Some flaws are serious boundary issues that cannot be resolved. There is no shame in ending a relationship with someone who does not respect your boundaries.
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 10:01 am
Posted by SantaFe
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
6549 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 12:17 pm to
When making a choice for a wife please choose wisely.

My first wife (no pics) and I dated for 6 years before we were married.
Afterwards I worked while she got here phd .
Over the years she made it important that I knew that her brothers and sisters were more important than I was.
After she got her phd she said I was too boring and that she wanted a divorce and that I had to leave the house.
At that point we had two children.
She told me that she wanted to play the field and have fun.
After the divorce I had my truck and $900.00.
And I had to pay child support.
She also blamed me for the deaths of her parents.

My second wife (no pics) I chose more carefully and is lightyears ahead of my first in every respect.
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
47538 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 12:38 pm to
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10 hot toxic dudes in a smedium sized dating pool can play the roll of toxic ex-bf to literally 100+ women.


Note to young men… be hot and toxic

We get more of what we incentivize
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 12:39 pm
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
13934 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 12:54 pm to
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Because the only things that make women a good partner are cooking and cleaning?


What if a man didn't protect or provide? Would he still be husband material?
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26720 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 1:01 pm to
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I’m 42, have a gf (no pics), and neither one of us want marriage. She’s done it and didn’t like it. I’m at the age where I’ve never been married and it doesn’t interest me, nor does having my own children.


The only reason to get married is for family/kids. If you are older and this is not something you want, then marriage certainly makes no sense.

If you already have kids and are divorced, there’s no reason to get remarried. There is no incentive for a man in that scenario. Have girlfriend, even have a long term relationship. But why make it binding?
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
8141 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 1:05 pm to
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She also blamed me for the deaths of her parents.


Well, were you responsible?
Posted by Methuselah
On da Riva
Member since Jan 2005
23350 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:18 pm to
So, you're saying it's not undefeated after all?

Seriously though. I've said before and I still believe that the atomic/nuclear family is one of the best evolutionary developments ever and makes things better all the way from individuals up through civilizations. The thing with evolutionary developments, though is that some people are not structured to benefit from them.
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
30246 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:23 pm to
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It’s unreal now after 7 months of dating around how many women will sit there on a date and talk about their toxic ex.


This is spot on. I go on a lot of first dates, as sad as that is, and it’s overwhelmingly a miserable experience. 75% of the women I meet are bitter and miserable and claim to have been abused in some fashion, verbally or physically.

That’s their side of the story, at least.

Oh, and 80% of them are overweight. It’s damn near criminal what some of these women do with filters. Somehow they don’t understand that all that does is make your first reaction upon meeting them a feeling of disappointment. It’s hard to catch up after you feel lied to the second they enter the cofffee shop.
This post was edited on 1/29/23 at 10:09 am
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48489 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:34 pm to
ask all the gay people and they will tell you

SO is in the ICU and you can't go in because you are not immediate family

Hopefully your healthcare provider has domestic partner health insurance if either partner wants to carry the other

Make sure that will is airtight

Funeral arrangements are made by next of kin and that is not you

Etc
This post was edited on 1/28/23 at 4:35 pm
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
34805 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:34 pm to
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The only reason to get married is for family/kids. If you are older and this is not something you want, then marriage certainly makes no sense. If you already have kids and are divorced, there’s no reason to get remarried. There is no incentive for a man in that scenario. Have girlfriend, even have a long term relationship. But why make it binding?


Nailed it. She has 2 kids, so I have my little family. No need to make it binding, we’re already extremely happy
Posted by RadThibodeaux
Houston, TX
Member since May 2015
723 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:38 pm to
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Somehow they don’t understand that all that does is make your first reaction upon meeting them is disappointment. It’s hard to catch up after you feel lied to the second they enter the cofffee shop.


Dude, fricking this… and then you have to awkwardly muscle through a conversation and or dinner.

I had one immediately turn into a bitch from the second I saw her she could see the “wtf” in my eyes.

Idk what’s worse, that or the complete plastic chicks. Dallas baby…
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260206 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:40 pm to
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We get more of what we incentivize


What are you trying to get? A quickie or a relationship?
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
34805 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:41 pm to
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Idk what’s worse, that or the complete plastic chicks. Dallas baby…


When I was single, I learned how to dance and would just go to Cowboys Red River Thursday-Saturday. Like shooting fish in a barrel my dude
Posted by RadThibodeaux
Houston, TX
Member since May 2015
723 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:44 pm to
Bro, I live in Houston because if I lived in Dallas I wouldn’t get shite done. That place is slam packed with some fine girls just trying to find a dude that can change a tire instead of getting calf or ab implants.
This post was edited on 5/14/23 at 2:43 am
Posted by Bubb
Member since Mar 2010
3893 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:45 pm to
The government does not want healthy, happy family units. That's bad for business.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61174 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:47 pm to
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The government does not want healthy, happy family units. That's bad for business.


And climate change. I am one of those that believes the promotion of LGBTQ has a lot to do with the climate change fanaticism among big money people (Ted Turner, Bill Gates, Marc Benoiff, etc.).
Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
34805 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 4:49 pm to
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Bro, I live in Houston because if I lived in Dallas I wouldn’t get shite done. That place is slam packed with some fine girls just trying to find a dude that can change a tire instead of getting calf or ab implants.


I lived in Houston for 14 years before Dallas. My old stomping grounds are all gone. And even then, it was rough.
Posted by HippieTiger
Boulder, CO
Member since Oct 2015
2129 posts
Posted on 1/28/23 at 5:08 pm to
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these things happen because they haven't had orgasms in many months/years. Most problems in America could end if the State provided $2,000 min per session to bodybuilders like myself to satisfy hysterical women. This would end all female political participation.

this is all time good right here
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