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Has Anyone Ever Totally Changed Your Opinion of Them?

Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:18 pm
Posted by SaintlyTiger88
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2013
2210 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:18 pm
You know that expression, “You never really know a person”? Has there ever been a person in your life where you liked them, thought highly of them, but they said or did something to totally mess up how you viewed them? Where you lost all the respect you had for them? What is your worst example?
This post was edited on 5/4/26 at 3:23 pm
Posted by DCtiger1
Member since Jul 2009
11784 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:19 pm to
Yes
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
47365 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:19 pm to
I think every person on the planet has multiple examples of this happening.
Posted by lsunutinno
Dome Island
Member since Nov 2004
1383 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:23 pm to
The better question might be the opposite.

Meaning did someone end up being really solid when you first thought they were a scumbag.
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
14043 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:27 pm to
Yes. I am 60 years old. It would be hard to live 60 years and be right about the thousands of people you meet in that length of time. I have had about as many proved to be decent folks as proven to be assholes but that is because my default is to assume everyone is an a-hole....
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
74825 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:33 pm to
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Has Anyone Ever Totally Changed Your Opinion of Them?
Yeah, a colleague showed up with a Yankee pedigree and a Yankee land grant school technical PhD and I misjudged the book by its cover.

Mistakes were made on both sides, eventually both of us figured out how to get along with each other and we’re good now (no homo bro).

Turns out he’s an OK dude at heart. Still talks funny.

This post was edited on 5/4/26 at 3:34 pm
Posted by Bussemer
Heading South
Member since Dec 2007
2594 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:35 pm to
Couple of aggies I work with turned out to not be total weirdos.
Posted by WaltTeevens
Santa Barbara, CA
Member since Dec 2013
11686 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:51 pm to
Yeah. Recently had a girl that I was over the moon for get with someone that was abusive in a previous relationship that we both knew about. I immediately lost all feelings and don't ever care to see her again.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
55255 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:55 pm to
You didn't choke her, Walt. She likes to be choked a little bit.
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
26706 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:56 pm to
There are a lot of people I thought were I thought were good and kind-hearted who turned out to be a piece of shite.

Very seldom is there someone I thought was a piece of shite who turned out to be a good person.
Posted by Eurocat
Member since Apr 2004
17240 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 3:58 pm to
Senator John Fetterman
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
Bat'n Rudge
Member since Oct 2004
63403 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 4:55 pm to
Yes.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
9888 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 5:08 pm to
Yes.

You can’t judge a book by it’s cover but you can damn well do it once you start reading it.
Posted by mauser
Orange Beach
Member since Nov 2008
26904 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 7:27 pm to
This is the sorriest of the sorry. New puppy pissing and shitting in the house. Man takes puppy to the woods and shoots it in the head. Tells his daughter that the puppy ran away. Not just cold hearted, but disconnected and stupid enough to tell coworkers what he did.
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
51813 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 7:31 pm to
Yes. I met someone I worked peripherally with and had, for two years, an opinion of him as someone who was an arrogant elitist. Turned out, he had a very low self opinion of himself and to bolster his ego, he had a number of stories that became old and stale as everyone he met he shared those same stories with. He really wanted everyone to like him and would give you the shirt off his back. Good guy but he needs people to love him or he gets depressed.
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
11684 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 8:12 pm to
I've had someone change my opinion of them for the worse, then years later I gave them a second chance, only for them to eventually change my opinion of them to even worse.
Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
42815 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 8:21 pm to
Just last week...workmate sort of a loose cannon got overly scolded by Boss. Next day he approaches me about it. I tell him he's got to let it go. It ain't fun but it's right. Following day he tells me he appreciated the chit chat we had. Honestly, I didn't think he had it in him to see it that way but he did. Now, we both have sort of bonded and it's better than it could have been had this not occurred.
Posted by Spankum
The Sip
Member since Jan 2007
62186 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 8:32 pm to
quote:

Has Anyone Ever Totally Changed Your Opinion of Them


Yep….I had a couple of cocky SOB’s at work, who I didn’t trust at all. They were just smart asses and generally disagreeable.

One time we had an emergency situation at work, and when the shite hit thr fan, they both got serious and were key in controlling the crisis. I went to bat for them a couple of times each in the years following.
Posted by Obi Wan Ryobi
Member since Feb 2026
79 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 8:35 pm to
Yep. Both ways too.
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
34505 posts
Posted on 5/4/26 at 8:48 pm to
You mean like when I found out my ex was cheatin'? That kind of did it.

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