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re: Guys with kids who don't want anything to do with them while their exwife remarries
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:52 am to gingerkittie
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:52 am to gingerkittie
My BF is one of those good men that you see raising other people's kids or just being there for them. He is the one who will step in and be a pawpaw to the young autistic kid who doesn't have a pawpaw.
I love that about him. He is indeed a very good man. God certainly answered my prayers and sent a damn good man ( and one very bad armadillo too ).
I love that about him. He is indeed a very good man. God certainly answered my prayers and sent a damn good man ( and one very bad armadillo too ).
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Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:55 am to Dam Guide
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Technically it’s pretty much the apex move of an alpha. The goal is to spread your seed to as many mates as possible and create other dominate offspring. Can’t do that if you are stuck like a beta with a family.
Takes more than spreading the seed to do that in the human world. Pathetic excuse to be not involved with your kids life.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:55 am to Hawgnsincebirth55
You raisin somebody else's squirts baw?
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:05 pm to windshieldman
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, the system is set up to where if you want your kids 50/50, you will get them 50/50
maybe on paper, but you can't stop a spiteful, vindictive woman from keeping the kids from the dad, cops won't enforce a civil ruling(unless it is the dad violating the custody agreement,) and the dad will eventually spend tens of thousands of dollars continually going back to court to get relief, none will be given, and before he knows it, the kids are no longer minors and have been deprived of having a father in their lives during their formative years
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:07 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Men who work OT to avoid their families and spend weekends “fixing the camp” are just as shitty. You know, Operators.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:07 pm to Relham10
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My ex wife has very little to do with our kids while running around with any man that would give her time.
Sounds like my ex. She was more worried after we split about finding the next husband to support her worthless arse than she was about making sure the kids adjusted to the breakup of their home and family.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:08 pm to Clark W Griswold
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You know, Operators.
watch it baw!!!
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:30 pm to theunknownknight
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How about a situation where the wife cheats on husband, divorces him, convinces a judge to slap a restraining order on him (because women are insane when “protecting their children during a divorce”) and then does everything in her power to brainwash the kids and keep them away from daddy.
Maybe dad keeps trying but he just isn’t there
I have a friend who went through this exact situation. After 15 years and 3 kids the wife got dick crazy a screwed anything that stayed still long enough. She went after him with a butcher knife when he handed her the divorce papers (she had been warned it was coming, but didn't think he had the balls to go through with it). He bruised her wrist trying to restrain her and she used that to take him to the cleaners in the divorce. She told the judge and her family he was the one cheating on her and that he was physically abusive to her and the kids.
He had to fight and claw for every scrap of time he got with his kids and went above and beyond what was required of him legally to support the kids. All the while she is telling everyone that he is never around and didn't pay child support because he didn't give 2 shites about his children.
It got so bad that 9 years later when his oldest was graduating HS her father and older brother had to be physically restrained from trying to beat his arse at the graduation ceremony. His own kids grew up thinking their father didn't want anything to do with them until they were old enough that she couldn't stop them from seeing or talking to him. None of them want anything to do with her now.
But yes, legitimate deadbeat dads who don't want to adult are pathetic and worthy of our scorn.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:39 pm to Wolf
I’ve got a friend who raised her kid on her own all his life. Daddy went years without any contact. Then the kid turns 16 and daddy comes in town. Now the kid wants to go live with daddy to get to know him which obvious breaks her heart. She asked me to talk to her son and help him understand why it’s a bad idea.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:50 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
He's a shithead and has NO BALLS.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 12:59 pm to 777Tiger
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but you can't stop a spiteful, vindictive woman from keeping the kids from the dad
Um yea you can. And you aren’t gonna spend any more in legal fees than she has to spend herself
Posted on 4/24/18 at 1:04 pm to windshieldman
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he chose not to
it was not something he took lightly. The mother thought it would be better if the child was adopted and had one father rather than splitting time. He was humble enough to agree. The circumstances were pretty shitty for him, he was struggling with school and not making very much money. His future didn't look too bright to him since he was dealing with some major depression issues as well.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 1:15 pm to DemonKA3268
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Takes more than spreading the seed to do that in the human world. Pathetic excuse to be not involved with your kids life.
Not really, idiocracy is doing pretty well for itself last I checked.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 1:19 pm to Dam Guide
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Not really, idiocracy is doing pretty well for itself last I checked.
Trash is going to trash.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 1:22 pm to Relham10
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My ex wife has very little to do with our kids while running around with any man
Pics?
Posted on 4/24/18 at 1:30 pm to geauxbrown
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My soon to be ex just moved 3,000 miles away and left me with our three children. Bitches be crazy.
sounds like there is a hell of story that goes with this post
Posted on 4/24/18 at 3:02 pm to samson73103
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Sounds like my ex. She was more worried after we split about finding the next husband to support her worthless arse than she was about making sure the kids adjusted to the breakup of their home and family.
Same here. Shes just looking for someone to take care of her. She doesn't know love. She also been running around the last few months with Tom dick and harry while receiving the child support for kids she dumped on her mom during her time with them. That's about to end thought. Waiting for a court date to take over sole custody.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 3:03 pm to anewguy
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Pics
you dont want those. Shes a druggie now. But u can probably find her in a bourbon street strip club now. That was her last known place of employment.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 5:16 pm to btnetigers
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the guy is a good person, has a job, maintains a good home, etc., there is no way a crazy mom can convince a judge that he shouldn't have joint custody....especially if dad has a decent attorney.
If I had a dollar for every MRA forum in which the man was in this similar situation in family court, I would be a millionaire at the very least.
The problem is that the laws are extremely gynocentric and family law is completely against the man despite everything.
A good lawyer COULD help you provided they aren't golf buddies with the crony feminist judges.
You guys really aren't seeing the reality of the marriage contract.
Posted on 4/24/18 at 6:17 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Almost as beta as raising another man's kids
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