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re: Guys with kids who don't want anything to do with them while their exwife remarries

Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:17 am to
Posted by novabill
Crossville, TN
Member since Sep 2005
10798 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:17 am to
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As long as the kids grow up in a stable two parent home I really couldn't care less who the parents are.


They care
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19467 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:18 am to
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Guys with kids
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with
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their exwife
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trashy


could've just removed all that other bull shite you posted
This post was edited on 4/24/18 at 9:18 am
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
42151 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 9:37 am to
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I can't imagine having kids and only seeing them every other weekend.

Welcome to a Family Court system dominated and controlled by women. In South Carolina, men usually have to fight for some form of joint custody, all so the women can ask for more child support, which usually goes to fund their lifestyle instead of the child's. Custody cases have made me a cynical curmudgeon.
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:00 am to
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it makes him a dumbass


how?
Posted by lake chuck fan
Vinton
Member since Aug 2011
23818 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:10 am to
I live in a trailer... raised 2 kids.
Daughter has degree, working on masters.
Son is on his way to medical school.

Trailer didn't seem to affect either of them. Neither did the divorce.
You know shite!
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
97031 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:25 am to
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but Hey! No child support amirite.


Since when does child support stop if she remarries? The biological father is still on the hook to raise his kids regardless of who/if she marries.

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To me this is one of the shittiest and most beta moves on the planet, as well as trashy


Agreed.
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
10064 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:31 am to
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How about a situation where the wife cheats on husband, divorces him, convinces a judge to slap a restraining order on him (because women are insane when “protecting their children during a divorce”) and then does everything in her power to brainwash the kids and keep them away from daddy



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This sounds like a very specific circumstance with a batshit crazy bitch


Happens more often than you think & the legal battles to overcome this after the divorce is final are a motherfricker.
Posted by Bustedsack
Member since Dec 2017
4387 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 10:59 am to
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I live in a trailer... raised 2 kids.
Daughter has degree, working on masters.
Son is on his way to medical school.

Trailer didn't seem to affect either of them. Neither did the divorce.
You know shite!


You just admitted to living in a trailer.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:07 am to
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how


I shouldn’t have said dumbass, and I truly do apologize for that since I don’t know him. He was a marine, he was obviously physically able to take care of his child, he chose not to. I don’t know his entire circumstances though, maybe had legal problems or mental issues, drug problem, lazy, hated kids, etc.
Posted by dkreller
Laffy
Member since Jan 2009
34012 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:08 am to
In the context of the OP, my wife’s ex is beta as frick but it’s all for the best since my stepdaughter actually has a father figure now (me) that she looks up to.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16741 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:32 am to
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most beta moves on the planet


Technically it’s pretty much the apex move of an alpha. The goal is to spread your seed to as many mates as possible and create other dominate offspring. Can’t do that if you are stuck like a beta with a family.
This post was edited on 4/24/18 at 11:33 am
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92281 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:33 am to
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Technically it’s pretty much the apex move of an alpha. The goal is to spread your seed to as many mates as possible and create other dominate offspring. Can’t do that if you are stuck like a beta with a family.


that you Mick?
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16741 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:36 am to
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that you Mick?


Nope, just acknowledging what’s the nature of an alpha, nothing to do with the ethics of situations. I don’t meet this by any means as I am in the family situation myself.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92281 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:38 am to
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I don’t meet this by any means as I am in the family situation myself.


then stay off of my cloud, beta!!!









jk
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:40 am to
My bf has raised his ex-wife's 3 kids since they were toddlers till they became teens. The bio dads contributed ZERO. BF gave them everything the kids could possibly want in life. He is that kind of a good man.

But their mom is a ho who can't keep her legs closed and so she began screwing around so he left her. She taught her children to lie for her when she screwed around and disrespect their stepfather. BF caught her, the kids continued to cover for their mom.

Now those step children have declared that they will never talk to my BF again as as long as he is with me. (They would like to continue their relationship with his money and wallet though, lol)

( Understand that she was cheating years and months before he finally left.) He stayed for the kids. We met months after he left her and yet they act like HE was the one who cheated and did them wrong.)





Posted by Murtown
OT Ballerville
Member since Sep 2014
1784 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:41 am to
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How about a situation where the wife cheats on husband, divorces him, convinces a judge to slap a restraining order on him (because women are insane when “protecting their children during a divorce”) and then does everything in her power to brainwash the kids and keep them away from daddy.


Sounds like this person needs a better lawyer.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92281 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:42 am to
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Sounds like this person needs a reformed legal system.

Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25427 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:45 am to
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To me this is one of the shittiest and most beta moves on the plan


You're the one raising some one else's spawn. It doesn't get any more beta than that. If you're the type of simpleton who prescribes to this whole alpha and beta crap.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:45 am to
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Sounds like this person needs a reformed legal system.



Whether ya'll wanna believe it or not, the system is set up to where if you want your kids 50/50, you will get them 50/50.That's up to the dad, or he can not give a shite, and blame the legal system, that's the easy way out. Same with child support, you hear stories on here and social media, irl, it's straightforward on who pays what and how much, it strictly goes off both of ya'll incomes, the male/female part doesn't matter.
This post was edited on 4/24/18 at 11:47 am
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
27333 posts
Posted on 4/24/18 at 11:49 am to
My soon to be ex just moved 3,000 miles away and left me with our three children. Bitches be crazy.
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