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re: Going on a date with a divorced chick (UPDATE page 37)
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:24 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:24 am to VolsOut4Harambe
consider the options here.
She either:
a) invited you, and wanted you to "catch" her making out with this dude
b) invited you, and wanted to finish up and hide having fun with this dude before you showed up
c) completely forgot she invited you
Do any of these sound good ? because its 1 of the three.
She either:
a) invited you, and wanted you to "catch" her making out with this dude
b) invited you, and wanted to finish up and hide having fun with this dude before you showed up
c) completely forgot she invited you
Do any of these sound good ? because its 1 of the three.
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Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:24 am to Half an Enchilada
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I would simply tell you she’s not ready for a relationship
Yep.
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f you can carve something else out of what you have here - say FWB, frick buddies, etc, then so be it.
Not sure going back to that type relationship is possible once the exclusive conversation has happened and agreed on, but I've been out of the dating game for 20+ years.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:25 am to CourtJesster
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A little problem with your fake arse story: you show up to the bar, not saying how, but you have to get an Uber to take you home, but then you DRIVE to meet the Uber to get her phone???
get an uber there because he plans on a night of debauchery and drunken sex. gets pissed off that she had the same plan as him, but with somebody else, doesn't drink, ubers home sober instead, then has car there to retrieve phone from uber?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:25 am to The Spleen
quote:Lucky
I've been out of the dating game for 20+ years.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:26 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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.I get angry as hell and yell at her at the bar, right in front of everyone.
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so I am stuck with her.
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I end up getting us an Uber (on her phone, I ain't paying for that shite!) back to my apartment, and let her sleep on the couch.
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so at 4:30am I had to drive all the way down to Bankhead to fetch her phone from some random arse traphouse.
:casty:
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I was livid with her and was 95% sure that I was going to break up with her, but I gradually experienced a change of heart.
:casty:
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She assured me that she's not a cheater
:casty:
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she is never ever going to put herself in that situation again
:casty:
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Am I making the right decision here?
Good troll. I commend your effort. Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:26 am to fallguy_1978
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Doesn't have any impact on our lives. We've been together almost 20 years now.
This.
As you get older OP, if you find a girl who has no ex? Husband or long term relationship? The crazy factor is definitely ramping up. My buddy has always bitched about this. “That girl has an ex husband frick that.” Or a kid and an ex. fricker is 50 and single now.
Of course if Bumble = Tinder and you’re just looking for a frick buddy you’ve already over thought this.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:26 am to I Bleed Garnet
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How so my baw?
My previous two relationships I ended on my own because I didn’t respect them. Obviously when someone is broken up with, she’s going to be upset and lash out. I definitely said a lot of things in response that I regret. I hate myself for it and I guess with this situation I’m trying to be different.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:27 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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Jesus, didn't expect this
I guess I'm too nice. Fml
Or too desperate for a relationship. You have referred to how "rare" this one is and it's only been going on for how long? A few weeks and 3 dates?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:27 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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emotionally cheated on her
What the frick is this bs kinda talk
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:28 am to VolsOut4Harambe
I don't know what sort of bait you're using... but there are more fish in the sea. Don't settle for one that's going to cheat on you two days in.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:31 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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This is why I think I am going to let this incident slide. I like her way too much, and vice versa, for me to simply give up here.
So 3 dates in and you’re in love? She will bring more pain in the near future as she convinces you to cuck in the corner as she’s getting railed. She will apologize again and you will cave because you’re obviously desperate and weak AF.
ETA: None of this ever happened, but I’ll play along.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:32 am to VolsOut4Harambe
she gonna cheat take pass
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:32 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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because I didn’t respect them.
And what you mean by this? Sounds like you shouldn’t have been there in the first place my baw
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:33 am to Hangit
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She likes to have two guys available for random sex at any time. She moved you in as she moved one out. She will rotate someone else in soon, and replace the other one. Whose turn will be after him?
This
Majority women are whores needing attention
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:33 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Where does she fall on the Batshit crazy/Unicorn scale?
Basically, is she hot with big boobs?
Basically, is she hot with big boobs?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:33 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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She invited me to meet her and some of the other wedding goers out at the bar afterwards. I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy.
So not only did she cheat on you she cheated on you AFTER she invited you to come to the place she was cheating!
If that isn't a reason to bolt I don't know what is.
You are way better than me because if I had walked in a place a woman I was in a relationship had invited me to, only to see her making out with another guy, I wouldn't have said a word and just left and blocked her from contacting me. I wouldn't have given two shits how she got home.
The "I was just drunk" is bullshite anyway. So now every time she drinks a little to much she has the green light to cheat on you?
You should have already run away...
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:35 am to VolsOut4Harambe
My best friend had a similar experience. The reality is that both of you are coming off of the end of marriages. You both need time to play around after having been locked down. I think the only mistake made was when the two of you decided to be “exclusive”. Y’all should date, frick , date other people and frick other people for at least a year. If y’all still have the same feelings, then move to exclusivity. My best friend is getting married to a great girl. Initially , they both thought the other was the one , but struggled bc they were both 12 months out from their respective marriages. After playing for a year or two, they came back to exclusivity and have been together for four years now, with a Fall wedding.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:36 am to KLSU
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So not only did she cheat on you she cheated on you AFTER she invited you to come to the place she was cheating!
If that isn't a reason to bolt I don't know what is.
You are way better than me because if I had walked in a place a woman I was in a relationship had invited me to, only to see her making out with another guy, I wouldn't have said a word and just left and blocked her from contacting me. I wouldn't have given two shits how she got home.
The "I was just drunk" is bullshite anyway. So now every time she drinks a little to much she has the green light to cheat on you?
You should have already run away...
Hence why I asked for advice. Apparently I am out of my mind.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:36 am to michael corleone
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My best friend had a similar experience. The reality is that both of you are coming off of the end of marriages.
I haven’t been married.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:36 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy.
This is behavior I would not want my partner to be associated with. I fail to see how this has anything to do with her ex-husband.
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