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Friend's Wife Wants to Cheat on Him ---- With Me
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:40 am
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:40 am
Dear OT_Abby:
This happened a number of years back but it's always bothered me. My buddy whom I have known since middle school got married when we were I guess late 20's.
Edit: Due to the ADD of this forum, I'm gonna edit this to a few sentences.
One day she starts texting me just asking me random questions about mundane things. Texts progress and before long she's asking me to meet. I found this inappropriate and just made up a reason to say no.
Turns out I was right that she wanted to frick because about a year later he divorced her for banging another friend of his (a more distant friend).
My dilemma is should I have told him when this happened or should I now? I still haven't told him even today. Ijust feel like I coulda saved him some grief by telling him before he caught her with another dude. But I feel that it would wreck our friendship even though I did nothing wrong.
EDIT: I did NOT bang her, just to be clear. I am only asking if I shoulda told him?
This happened a number of years back but it's always bothered me. My buddy whom I have known since middle school got married when we were I guess late 20's.
Edit: Due to the ADD of this forum, I'm gonna edit this to a few sentences.
One day she starts texting me just asking me random questions about mundane things. Texts progress and before long she's asking me to meet. I found this inappropriate and just made up a reason to say no.
Turns out I was right that she wanted to frick because about a year later he divorced her for banging another friend of his (a more distant friend).
My dilemma is should I have told him when this happened or should I now? I still haven't told him even today. Ijust feel like I coulda saved him some grief by telling him before he caught her with another dude. But I feel that it would wreck our friendship even though I did nothing wrong.
EDIT: I did NOT bang her, just to be clear. I am only asking if I shoulda told him?
This post was edited on 6/13/19 at 10:53 am
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Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:41 am to AUstar
the OT has really gone downhill 
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:41 am to AUstar
The pics aren't loading. I've hit refresh several times.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:41 am to AUstar
Need pics in order to give best advice
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:42 am to AUstar
Man’s got to have a code. Part of that code should be don’t frick your friend’s wife
This post was edited on 6/13/19 at 11:15 am
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:43 am to fr33manator
quote:
Part of that code should be don’t frick your friend’s wife
I didn't.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:44 am to AUstar
You should have told him and offered to film the encounter.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:44 am to AUstar
quote:
I didn't.
I wasnt doing anything. You should have tagged me in.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:44 am to AUstar
quote:
My dilemma is should I have told him when this happened or should I now?
If you didn't tell him and he later caught her red handed, just let it go at this point. Nothing good will come from you hiding it all this time if you tell him
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:44 am to AUstar
obviously i.dont know him, but.wasnt there a good chance hed have taken her side and ruined your friendship if you said anything? dont beat yourself up. sounds like this chick was gonna cause him grief no matter what.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:45 am to AUstar
If you want to continue being his friend i'd let it go
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:45 am to fr33manator
quote:
Man’s got to have a code. Part of that code should be don’t frick your friend’s wife
Nothing in the code about an ex-wife though. Go for it baw.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:45 am to AUstar
quote:
I just feel like I coulda saved him some grief
No you couldn't have....this chick was/is a serial cheater. The heartache was gonna happen either way.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:46 am to AUstar
If you didn't and they're not married anymore, why would you bring it up? You shouldn't have anything weighing you down if you didnt do anything. And besides, she fricked another dude. He knows she's a slut so why rub it in his face?
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:46 am to AUstar
You really should have put more effort in when you were making this shite up.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:46 am to AUstar
Not reading all that
Kinda bullshite you broke up your buddy's marriage, do better
Kinda bullshite you broke up your buddy's marriage, do better
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:46 am to AUstar
quote:
He caught her red handed.
At least he didn't catch her white faced.
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:47 am to AUstar
She sounds fat. Is that why you didn’t bang her?
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:47 am to AUstar
This is what I come here for?
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:48 am to dbuchanon
quote:
If you didn't tell him and he later caught her red handed, just let it go at this point. Nothing good will come from you hiding it all this time if you tell him
This is the answer. He already knows she's a cheater. You're not going to tell him anything he doesn't know, and he'll just start thinking you're lying and you actually did it with her.
Just shut up and help him move on with his life if you're actually his friend.
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