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re: Friend gave his daughter $275k when she graduated college.

Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:17 am to
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:17 am to
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$275k is a starter home? Lol. Who is paying over a quarter of a million dollars on a home they’re barely at because they work?


Starter home yes, but a second or third home, I would say 275 is on a low end..
This post was edited on 1/14/22 at 8:18 am
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92255 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:17 am to
that's a nice story but I'm not sure that I'd have given a 22 year old that chunk of change, our daughter(no pics,) never made less, than an A from K-12, valedictorian, blah, blah, we bought her the FL pre-paid for college but she wanted to go to an Ivy league that at the time was between $40-$50k/year just for tuition, I bought her a book of grants, scholarships, etc. to apply for, she worked three jobs during during college that paid her money and contributed towards tuition, when she graduated(some come loud,) she owed $16k, as a graduation present I picked that up and told her that learning how to manage her time and money was as valuable as anything she learned in those classrooms
Posted by GoIrish02
Member since Mar 2012
1491 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:17 am to
UGMA/UTMA from birth avoids any gift tax consequences, y'all are overcomplicating this situation. The account would transfer to the child at the age of majority and the only taxes would be capital gains if/as you sell the investments.

And it sounds like Dad didn't mention it to the daughter for about 20 years, so she's got an account at Fidelity/Vanguard/Schwab she never knew about.

If they're really smart, they won't sell investments (that earn way more than a house), incur capital gains tax and will get a mortgage instead.
This post was edited on 1/14/22 at 8:27 am
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:18 am to
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kids need to build character and earn in themselves like we did! do they not care about being independent anymore?


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He said she got into Metairie Academy when she was 4 and saved him 12 yrs of Catholic school tuition (she progressed through JP's magnet system). Got a full ride to SMU as well. He said he saved what he would have paid for her education in an account in her name. When she graduated SMU, he told her she had this money.


She did earn her own way homie. Her dad just gave her the actual dollar amount of what she earned in a lump sum payment. Pretty standup move by the dad, as some people like yourself would have selfishly spent that money instead of giving it to their kids.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
33638 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:19 am to
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Private highschool is much closer to $10-15k


You may want to add a few more thousands to that, I know Newman and Country Day is around the 30K area.
Posted by LSUShock
Kansas
Member since Jun 2014
5667 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:20 am to
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Catholic schools cost like $7k a yr now.


I live in one of 2 or 3 tithing based tuition dioceses in the country. Very fortunate.
Posted by Antonio Moss
The South
Member since Mar 2006
49403 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:21 am to
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Talk about highlighting the absurd costs of private schools.


Private schools are pretty much all non-profits. All that money is reinvested in the school. The take away should be the abysmal failure of the public school system.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:22 am to
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Private highschool is much closer to $10-15k




You may want to add a few more thousands to that, I know Newman and Country Day is around the 30K area.


The poster was right in line with current catholic school costs. Sure you can spend double for Newman/CD etc, but you don't "have" to
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42270 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:22 am to
My bad. I should have said Catholic schools are closer to $15k.

Privates not associated with Catholic schools are $20k+
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
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Member since Aug 2004
49682 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:24 am to
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At first I was like...


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But now I appreciate this wholesome content on a Friday



Sounds like a good smart Dad and he raised a smart girl also. The education itself is awesome but man a free house on top of it. Talk about a incredible head start in life
Posted by Jack Daniel
Gold member
Member since Feb 2013
29340 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:24 am to
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Now if she blows it on coke and an entourage

Is she taking applications?
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
17577 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:25 am to
Amazing dad right there. Amazing kid as well. Hope her dad gives her some financial lessons so she doesn't blow it all in 1 year.

I also have to wonder if she has any younger siblings. They can't be getting the same prize money, right? Imagine she has a shithead little brother who wasn't nearly as good of a kid as she. He's going to get to age 22 asking dad, "so how much money do I get now after big sis got 275k". And dad's going to be like, "here's $100 gift card to Amazon. Don't spend it all at once"
Posted by Antonio Moss
The South
Member since Mar 2006
49403 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:26 am to
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$275k is a starter home?


Depends on the city and area you live in. If you live in a major metro area, you are probably paying that amount for a townhouse. It’s really not the square footage - you are paying to live in a safer area.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:26 am to
Hopefully in the form of a protective trust of some kind and not a liquid cocaine checking account.
Posted by ItNeverRains
Offugeaux
Member since Oct 2007
28166 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:29 am to
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imagine basing where you live on the quality of government schools


Show me a county with exceptional public schools, high crime and poverty, and below median value real estate. Just one.
Posted by Dissident Aggressor
Member since Aug 2011
5654 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:32 am to
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$7k/yr does not equate to $275k


you missed the part about SMU
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
40341 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:36 am to
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she blows it on coke


She did go to smu
Posted by LB84
Member since May 2016
4526 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:39 am to
Even if I grew up that wealthy I'd at least tell my Dad to keep half of that. Your parents are supposed to help, not do everything.
Posted by Tigris
Cloud Cuckoo Land
Member since Jul 2005
13135 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:41 am to
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The sad part of the story is you all choose to live somewhere you have to pay for private school.


My dad moved us to Baton Rouge from the midwest several decades ago. Two years later we were back in the midwest - precisely because the Baton Rouge schools were awful and he couldn't see paying for three kids to go to private schools. For people born and raised in an area with crappy schools it's a more difficult decision to pull up roots and leave.
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
27775 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 8:42 am to
Is the OT we once knew and loved gone?

5 pages and not one person asked to see pics of a 22 year old college grad with $275K in the bank.

Instead we have had 100 posts debating whether a gift is taxable or not and/or the quality of public schools.


This post was edited on 1/14/22 at 8:45 am
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