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re: For those that thought divorce would be awesome..
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:46 pm to LSUfanNkaty
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:46 pm to LSUfanNkaty
quote:Holy shite, you went to St Louis in LC. I know some peeps that went there
St. Louis CH is better...
Vermilion Catholic myself.
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Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:47 pm to Breesus
quote:
You're a shitty husband.
baw your off base...hes in the right
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:48 pm to cas4t
You are correct about the kids. Best part they figure out real quick who the mentally stable one is after the relationship ends. My ex has more drama than the Kardashians since our divorce 7 years ago. They would live with me if they could but the ex will not allow that. She needs that support check every 2 weeks. Lol
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:51 pm to Tyga Woods
Getting divorced was the shittiest thing I've ever gone through. It was probably exacerbated by not being a mutual thing, so I felt super guilty on top of the normal pain.
That said, I don't regret it at all. It was absolutely the right decision for me.
That said, I don't regret it at all. It was absolutely the right decision for me.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:52 pm to Evil Little Thing
BR'ing much these days?
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:54 pm to Tyga Woods
quote:Yes. Two right here. Both were the right decision.
Any divorce success stories?
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:54 pm to The Torch
quote:
Is this my friend "Mike" ?
Sounds just like him.
You are whipped Jr
I think most people are reading this and narrowing down who has 3 kids in their friend pool and trying to determine if it's their "Mike". Hahaha.
I know I am.
Member for 2 months, complaining about Wife, mind made up for divorce. Seems Legit.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:55 pm to Tyga Woods
Start acting like a Viking and she'll get happy.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:56 pm to uway
I'll tell you this op....if you aren't satisfying her emotional needs...someone else is or will eventually
Fix it now or get out before you are blindsided by an affair
Fix it now or get out before you are blindsided by an affair
This post was edited on 12/15/16 at 1:27 pm
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:57 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
OP- Christmas EVe just get up and say you are going to the Cheesecake factory
she will get the hint
she will get the hint
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:57 pm to Count Chocula
quote:
Holy shite, you went to St Louis in LC. I know some peeps that went there
Vermilion Catholic myself.
I did sir. I was a St. Louis Saint
This post was edited on 12/15/16 at 12:59 pm
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:58 pm to CAD703X
quote:
start by getting rid of cable so she can't sit there and watch the View and O and lifetime and get a head full of ideas that husbands suck.
get her off facebook too. bitches only post stuff they want to brag about. sees all that and gets pissed at you
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:58 pm to FLBooGoTigs1
OP seemed to want to hear from people who are divorced, and hear how it's turned out. Most of the thread has been folks trying to talk him out of it.
None of us are immune from unhappiness. I find it a bit arrogant for someone to think they can give advice on something as significant as marriage based off of a small paragraph on the OT.
No marriage is the same. Sometimes working it out is best. Sometimes amicably parting ways is best. Only he knows.
None of us are immune from unhappiness. I find it a bit arrogant for someone to think they can give advice on something as significant as marriage based off of a small paragraph on the OT.
No marriage is the same. Sometimes working it out is best. Sometimes amicably parting ways is best. Only he knows.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 12:59 pm to Count Chocula
Breesus is mostly right except for one thing. It is not that she doesn't want to sex him up, he has backed away from her.
He wants the 5'6", 112 pound girl he married. She has had three kids and is going about a buck ninety now. She sees all the Oprah shite telling her that he should be attracted to her no matter what.
She decided to look around for some loving and found out that 190 pounds is hard to give away. So she is upset with that. Then, when you ignore her some more her upset goes to anger.
She is going to continue to be mad until you begin tearing it up again.
If you have already decided to roll out, you need to get your advice from an attorney...a good one.
He wants the 5'6", 112 pound girl he married. She has had three kids and is going about a buck ninety now. She sees all the Oprah shite telling her that he should be attracted to her no matter what.
She decided to look around for some loving and found out that 190 pounds is hard to give away. So she is upset with that. Then, when you ignore her some more her upset goes to anger.
She is going to continue to be mad until you begin tearing it up again.
If you have already decided to roll out, you need to get your advice from an attorney...a good one.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:03 pm to Tyga Woods
This is not a story, but I would suggest you put the kids best interest ahead of anything else. When I was in HS there was this girl who lived in my neighborhood. We were friends, but it was her and her younger sister. Soon after her sister graduated high school the parents divorced. The parents told them after the fact, that they actually decided a few years earlier to divorce, but they wanted to wait until both kids were graduated from HS.
Maybe consider something like that, but just don't create a toxic situation for the kids.
Maybe consider something like that, but just don't create a toxic situation for the kids.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:04 pm to LSUfanNkaty
quote:
I did sir. I was a St. Louis Saint
Went out with a couple of chicks at LSU that went there. Members of the St Louis "Blues" marching team. Must have been like some kinda cult, that's all they ever talked about
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:10 pm to OweO
quote:
This is not a story, but I would suggest you put the kids best interest ahead of anything else. When I was in HS there was this girl who lived in my neighborhood. We were friends, but it was her and her younger sister. Soon after her sister graduated high school the parents divorced. The parents told them after the fact, that they actually decided a few years earlier to divorce, but they wanted to wait until both kids were graduated from HS.
this is pretty close to what happened with me, but with a step parent who was basically my parent. It was miserable. I wish they'd have just divorced earlier.
I guess the situation would be different if you managed to not let the kids see you argue and whatnot. My parents (one step parent) tried that, but it was pretty obvious and there was a discernible difference in their overall happiness. I remember wondering if they just didn't give up because of me, and it made me feel bad.
Just my experience.
This post was edited on 12/15/16 at 1:12 pm
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:11 pm to Tyga Woods
Here's my advice from a guy who's been married for 24 years and soon to be an empty nester.
Women are generally unhappy most of the time. They are rarely happy with their husband, kids, career and home. They hate work. It pisses them off and they always think they do more than you.
You have kids who need their father. If you're okay with some other guy raising them, walk away. If you're not then, you had better find a way to deal with this.
Here's my advice
1. Hire a housekeeper
2. Cook or go out more often
3. Use babysitting more often to go out on dates.
4. Buy her shite that pampers her. Spas and stuff like that.
5. Quit having kids. They're a pain in the arse.
6. Go on vacation more often.
7. Arrange for her to spend time with her girlfriends or sister or whatever she wants
Good luck.
Women are generally unhappy most of the time. They are rarely happy with their husband, kids, career and home. They hate work. It pisses them off and they always think they do more than you.
You have kids who need their father. If you're okay with some other guy raising them, walk away. If you're not then, you had better find a way to deal with this.
Here's my advice
1. Hire a housekeeper
2. Cook or go out more often
3. Use babysitting more often to go out on dates.
4. Buy her shite that pampers her. Spas and stuff like that.
5. Quit having kids. They're a pain in the arse.
6. Go on vacation more often.
7. Arrange for her to spend time with her girlfriends or sister or whatever she wants
Good luck.
Posted on 12/15/16 at 1:11 pm to Tyga Woods
Think about what it will be like to see your kids one day a week and every other weekend instead of coming home to them every night. Think about stories from your friends who divorced and ended up in world wars. Think about the finacial cost of the divorce itself, having to maintain 2 houses until yours sells, attorney's fees, etc. include the cost if she fights you.
Ask yourself if the OT 6.5s are worth all of this. Can you got to counseling, find a way to improve things and save your family? That would be the route I recommend. Good luck.
Ask yourself if the OT 6.5s are worth all of this. Can you got to counseling, find a way to improve things and save your family? That would be the route I recommend. Good luck.
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