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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/2/23 at 6:18 pm to TexasTiger08
Posted on 8/2/23 at 6:18 pm to TexasTiger08
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I would love for this to happen, but she’s seemingly leaving me for a coworker who was my friend. That specific sting is getting me right now.
Damn, dude, that sucks. That's a double hit on your psyche, particularly in the trust arena. I would say you should probably find a professional to talk to about that but I saw in another post you already are, keep doing that and give it more than a couple of sessions.
I sincerely hope it was not a close friend and that it is not one of your coworkers but rather hers (I am not clear from what you said).
This post was edited on 8/2/23 at 6:24 pm
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Posted on 8/2/23 at 7:29 pm to mdomingue
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sincerely hope it was not a close friend
Pretty close, but it didn’t go back to my youth or anything
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that it is not one of your coworkers but rather hers
One of hers
Posted on 8/2/23 at 7:35 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:Go screw his ex.
Pretty close, but it didn’t go back to my youth or anything
Posted on 8/3/23 at 9:03 am to TexasTiger08
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I’m embarrassed that this is my life. I wasn’t raised in a family that had madness like this. My parents have been married for decades. My siblings are on their first marriage with multiple kids. Then there’s me in this mess.
Dude, fck that shite. Your life isn't theirs.
You're embarrassed? Then make yourself a man that both you and your family can be proud of. But don't let that ho make you feel ashamed - you made a poor choice choosing her, but that doesn't define who you are - and now she's no longer part of you.
Posted on 8/3/23 at 9:33 am to TexasTiger08
30’s good job and whining you’re lonely. No wonder she left you. Jesus Christ man go live life. Trust me you can love multiple people go find the next one to love and stop being a pussy.
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:33 am to Tigersonfire
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30’s good job and whining you’re lonely. No wonder she left you.
I mean, I’m lonely because she left me
Posted on 8/4/23 at 8:16 am to TexasTiger08
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At some point they have their own lives and I don’t want to impose.
Bro they are there for you. It's not imposing. Go over, sit on the couch, watch Matlock reruns. Bring a pizza or something if you feel like you are imposing. Take their kids to school or practice and help out.
Busy yourself and distract yourself a bit until the worst part blows over.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 8:17 am to TexasTiger08
Hey bruh if you wanna come to br I got a spare bedroom and we could probably get an otgt at Ivar’s
Posted on 8/4/23 at 8:48 am to TexasTiger08
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I mean, I’m lonely because she left me
If you’re whining in your 30’s that a damn woman left you I GUARANTEE you whine about everything. Prime of your life seems you have it together and you’re crying over something that the world is literally full of. Not just full of begging for men like you with security and their shite together. Piss on her go find someone new. How many times have you read a woman that left a man then he found something 100x’s better. Man the F up move on with your life you’re letting her steal days weeks and months of your life. For fricks sake
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 8:50 am
Posted on 8/4/23 at 8:51 am to Tigersonfire
Prime of your life is below 25 dude
Maybe before 8 even
Maybe before 8 even
Posted on 8/4/23 at 8:57 am to The People
quote:JFC how miserable of an existence that the best thing that ever happened to you is a divorce
Getting divorced was the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 8:59 am to TexasTiger08
quote:are you still at the 99% sure mark that the baby is yours? Or has the needle dropped a bit yet?
Confirmed today through new bf’s soon to be ex wife that they live in separate apartments but are seeing each other regularly.
Don't be dumb
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:00 am to TexasTiger08
I know that you have an issue with alcohol but micro dosing with mushrooms will get you through this. check on google
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:02 am to TPK 8
quote:you hippies been coming out the woodworks with you druggie mushrooms lately. Is there anything tripping on shrooms won't cure?
but micro dosing with mushrooms will get you through this. check on google
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:04 am to SuperSaint
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JFC how miserable of an existence that the best thing that ever happened to you is a divorce
I think many of you guys underestimate how, yes, miserable of an existence it is to be married to a difficult woman. and i use the word difficult as a catch all for the various levels of insanity that the wrong woman will bring to your life and marriage.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:07 am to Sam Quint
quote:decisions have consequences
levels of insanity that the wrong woman will bring to your life and marriage.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:12 am to SuperSaint
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decisions have consequences
i agree, but sometimes you dont know you've made the wrong decision until years later when deep emotional issues start truly coming to light. by then your lives are so intertwined, especially if you have kids, that divorce seems like the best thing imaginable even if, for some of us, it also seems impossible. not saying that's right or wrong, but i'm saying i can understand why someone would say that.
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 9:13 am
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:15 am to Tigersonfire
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If you’re whining in your 30’s that a damn woman left you I GUARANTEE you whine about everything. Prime of your life seems you have it together and you’re crying over something that the world is literally full of. Not just full of begging for men like you with security and their shite together. Piss on her go find someone new. How many times have you read a woman that left a man then he found something 100x’s better. Man the F up move on with your life you’re letting her steal days weeks and months of your life. For fricks sake
I get where you are coming from and to some extent you are right, however, if he doesn't process through the grief and the change, it will fester inside of him and he would have much more misery. After some time has passed, everything you said is 100% right. Let the dude grieve a little.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:16 am to Tigersonfire
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If you’re whining in your 30’s that a damn woman left you I GUARANTEE you whine about everything.
Jesus Christ some of yall need to chill out. Dude is going through a major life event. Let him be upset for a little bit.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:21 am to TexasTiger08
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I would love for this to happen, but she’s seemingly leaving me for a coworker who was my friend. That specific sting is getting me right now.
All I can say is to process through the grief. Try to understand what went wrong. I'm not going to lie though, women between the ages of 28 - 38 tend to go batshit crazy. It's their version of the midlife crisis. I will say that after their 30s, they tend to come back to reality.
This is most important though: Do not pick the next mate for the same reasons you picked this one. If she left you, then she is trash. Avoid anybody with those same red flags.
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 9:24 am
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