re: Female Researchers Starting To See The Damage Of Feminism and #MeToo

Personally I think there is hope. The cultural backlash against beta-males is proof that there are women out there who value traditional masculinity.

My own kids all are participating in the traditional dating scene. All three want to marry and have kids. My sons are nervous about making enough money for a home, but they will figure it out and I can afford to help them. My daughter wants to marry a cowboy and spend her days wearing pearls and baking cookies.

I wonder who is behind feminism


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It depends if the advance is wanted or not. If the advance is wanted then it’s ok, if not then it’s sexual harassment. How does the man know neforehand? If you’re ugly or short you are a “creep”, if you are >6 ft and cute then you may approach.

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And that's another problem. The response is all based off the man's attractiveness.

A 6 ft handsome, 6 pack ab man can go up to a woman, grab her in the a** and there's still a good chance she'll hang out with him or even sleep with him.

A non 6 ft, average attractiveness man goes up to the same woman, is very respectful and tries to actually talk to her, we all know what happens next. HOW DARE YOU, HARASSMENT, GET HIM KICKED OUT, I'M PRESSING CHARGES AND DESTROYING HIS LIFE.

If you notice though, we haven't talked about the woman in this scenario. This women is a 6 at best, completely average and $30,000 in student loan debt. The woman will scream "love me and accept me for who I am", yet she absolutely judges men by superficial characteristics.

Even the 4, 5, 6 women with a kid and $30,000 in student loan debt think they deserve the 9 or 10 man who is 6 ft, 6 pack abs, 6 size and has a $200,000/year job in finance.

I think the main issue is that average white women want absolutely nothing to do with an average man.

Speaking of daughters, younger women are being adversely impacted too. I have 2 daughters with the oldest a senior in college, 3.4 gpa in finance, leadership position in her sorority, attractive but shy when it comes to men. She never gets asked out on dates. It’s as if the men have been brow beaten into the woman having to make the first move, something she is too shy to do.

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I think the main issue is that average white women want absolutely nothing to do with an average man.

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100% agree. The average 5 or 6 woman thinks she deserves a 9 or 10 man. And she realistically thinks she can get it because she had a one night stand with a 9 or 10 man two years ago. Ignore the fact that man sleeps with a different woman every night and had forgotten the average 5 or 6 woman's name by 8 a.m. the next morning. That average 5 or 6 woman now thinks she deserves that 9 or 10 man.

The biggest problem is that it's beaten into young women's minds from grade school not to "settle". Women have become obsessed with "not settling". Yet many women have used the excuse of "not settling" to have unrealistic standards.

There's a major difference in not settling and having realistic standards. An average 5 or 6 woman expecting a 9 or 10 man who makes $200,000/year in finance, has six pack abs, is 6 ft tall and is both masculine and manly but also caring and always there is not a realistic standard. Yet many women think if the man is anything less than what I just described above, that they are "settling".

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Speaking of daughters, younger women are being adversely impacted too. I have 2 daughters with the oldest a senior in college, 3.4 gpa in finance, leadership position in her sorority, attractive but shy when it comes to men. She never gets asked out on dates. It’s as if the men have been brow beaten into the woman having to make the first move, something she is too shy to do.

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I agree it's impacting young women as well. I think that's why some young women are starting to wake up. I would say for the young men it's simply too dangerous for them to make the first move at this point. Especially on a college campus, the cradle of Feminism.

I'm being honest when I say this. If I was in college now as a young man, I would be terrified to approach any young woman on campus. It's simply too risky.

Because of that, and the effects of feminism and MeToo, I think the irony is that young women are going to be the one's forced out of their comfort zone.

If I were you, I would tell your daughter that she is going to have to get used to approaching. She is going to have to get used to approaching and possibly being rejected. Something us men have had to deal with for all of eternity. Yes it will hurt her when she's rejected, but she'll get used to it. And honestly, if she doesn't, she might find she never finds a partner.

And if she's one who is okay not being married, that's fine. But if she is a young woman who wants to get married, in this current climate she's going to have to get over her shyness and start to approach.

Feminism was established so as to allow unattractive women easier access to the mainstream of society


Funny scene in last season of white lotus. The scene is on a yacht. Several stunning young Asian women are with their husbands, American men all in late 40's or 50's. Here comes bimbo American wife who is 50 telling them they don't have to settle, they are being exploited, etc. Girls look at her like she is crazy, say why would we do that? We love our husbands. Bimbo was dumbfounded.

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Speaking of daughters, younger women are being adversely impacted too. I have 2 daughters with the oldest a senior in college, 3.4 gpa in finance, leadership position in her sorority, attractive but shy when it comes to men. She never gets asked out on dates. It’s as if the men have been brow beaten into the woman having to make the first move, something she is too shy to do.

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These are the only type of women that, in my opinion, should be selective.

I think guys are just nervous they are going to make a mistake in conversation that then turns things south because of our political environment.

When we were in high school in 2003 we use to slap girls on the arse at school and it wasn’t taken as sexual assault by anyone. I actually had this conversation two months ago with a woman I went to school with and we chuckled about it. Never did she take that as anything other than flirting back in the day.

Let’s be honest, ugly women fricked everything up and should be called out for this so they have to eat a little shite.

normal” girl compete with that?

Make zero mistake about this, top notch men admire purity the most. End of story. Period.