re: Fellow divorcees...did you know that your marriage was over, or were you blindsided?

Thanks for posting. I'm in a similar situation and needed to read this

At least it was guys. One of my wife’s relatives found out when she left him for a woman.

Damn, there are some horrific stories posted in this thread.

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Thirty seven?!?

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“Hey try not to suck any dick on the way to the parking lot!”

“Hey get back here!”

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One of my wife’s relatives found out when she left him for a woman.

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This happened with one of my wife’s best friends. She just admitted to her husband she was having an affair with a female CrossFit training partner. He said he forgave her, but she divorced him and got engaged to the other woman like 2 months later

30+ years and still going w/ Mrs. udtiger.

But if for whatever reason we divorced, there ain't no way I am getting married again.

This thread is what nightmares are made of.

Thankfully, ive been with my wife for 18 years, and we have an incredible relationship and are still incredibly infatuated with each other.

I do have a fun betrayal story with my first “ real” girlfriend.

Apologize in advance: I don’t know how to tell a short story.


Dated a girl in highschool for about a year and a half. We were both virgins when we had sex. Thought she was the one, of course.

She was a legit softball player, and played with a bunch of select summer teams.

She was out of town at a tournament.
One evening, I get a text from a girl I was friends with on the same team as my gf. She says “ hey, it’s not my business, but ( gf’s name) has done some things this weekend that I think you need to know about.

I of course tried to get the details over text and she wouldn’t tell me.

Me still being a bit in the dark about what happened- ( I thought she was drinking alcohol- I didn’t drink until I got married, and used to be very anti alcohol)


gently confronted my gf and said,
“ did you have a fun weekend? Heard you had some fun”

She responds with - “ um what did you hear?”

I said “ did you do some drinking”

She says “ who told you?”

I blow up on her thinking that’s her admission.


We proceed to fight a bit for a few days and I reach out to the girl that originally texted me.

We met up at a mutual friends house.
I start telling her we are on the rocks, but I know what she did and while I am disappointed, I think we will work it out.

Her face was shocked. She was like
“ so what did she tell you she did?”

I explained she told me that a couple girls in her room took a bottle of vodka from their parents and they drank it”

And my friend responded with
“ is that all she told you?”

I said “ is there something else?”

After a bunch of pleading, she told me that my gf had let the girl she was sharing the hotel room with eat her out. I can confirm this girl was an open lesbo.

It was like I got shot in the gut.

I of course ended the relationship that day.



So, the beautiful ending here, is that my friend who shared what happened, is now my wife.

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SuperNatural

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So you broke it off the day you learned that your girlfriend was bi-sexual?

Am I reading this correctly?

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So, the beautiful ending here, is that my friend who shared what happened, is now my wife.

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Also, you are aware that your now wife made up the story to steal you away.... Rihht???

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One of the golden rules I have learned in my life is if a woman tells you not worry about a guy, you should really, really fricking worry.

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If it even gets to the point where you have to ask, it’s probably too late.

She got the goldmine and I got the shaft.