re: Fellas, would you feel comfortable with your wife/gf going to a male stripper party?

If I were in an exclusive, committed relationship, probably not. I’d like to think any girl with whom I’d be in such a relationship would respect me enough not to go. They’ll claim it’s not about anything sexual (just see the comment a few down from OP), and maybe it isn’t. But it sure looks like it. It’s objectively reasonable to suspect that there’s a sexual draw to it. Even if she genuinely believes there’s no sexual draw to it when she’s thinking about it hypothetically beforehand, who really knows what’s going to happen when she’s got jacked naked dudes and other women around to egg her on. shite happens. So why even put your SO in that spot where they have to worry about it?

And if she went anyway, well, that’s her right as a grown woman. She just might not be in a relationship much longer.

Likewise, since my wife/exclusive gf here is hypothetical, I can’t really say for sure how “she” might feel, since “she” doesn’t exist. But I feel like I would have to decline an invite like that because I committed to exclusivity. I did it for some reason or another, and that reason really should matter more than going to some silly stripper party. And all the same concerns apply… I could genuinely believe I’m going to stay on the straight and narrow all I want, but you surround me with hot naked chicks and my boys egging me on and who the frick knows

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As it stands, I’m just dating casually and non-exclusively, so I don’t give a shite if one of the girls I’m seeing at the time goes to one of those. It’s a different dynamic. But to me commitment includes not putting your SO in a position where they’re reasonably mistrustful that you’ll cheat on them, and not putting them in a position to be hurt and embarrassed by the appearance of infidelity, let alone the real deal.

I wouldn’t care.

Here’s a hint for some you. Your insecurities and worry are why she bangs Jody. Women want confidence. If she knows you can take it or leave it, she won’t stray. Desperation is unbecoming regardless of sex, but especially for a guy.

ETA: strip clubs are terrible, I’ve been to exactly 1.

I would be fine with it and she would be fine with it. There are 2 things in life I am certain of, I can trust my wife and if I can't there ain't shite I can do about it...why get bent out of shape over it? If she want's some strange there ain't shite can be done about it. I am not going to get worked up about it and act a fool because she is at a strip club. There is a whole lot of shite in the world I have no control over. I do very little thinking about any of it.

Sure. Why not

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As long as she showers after. Besides she gives a terrible handjob.

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I went to a strip club last Saturday night with some friends from my deer camp.

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What happens in Tallulah stays in Tallulah

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Question... will there be a dancing bear? If so don't let her go.

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My wife went to one in Vegas with that dude. She hasn't been the same since then

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Is this real? Your really that insecure? Then why did you marry her! If the men get to aggressive a good wife with shut that shite down.

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Why are you asking me this question?