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Family Staying With Us For Christmas Are Mad I Don't Want Dog on Furniture

Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:27 am
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3135 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:27 am
My wife's little brother and his wife are planning on staying with us in our home for Christmas. They're bringing their dog, which is fine. I do not allow pets on my furniture however and the sister-in-law is apparently pretty upset about this. She feels like I'm some kind of monster since I don't want dog hair all over my sofa, chairs etc. Not to mention dirty paws if it's raining.

I told my wife they are free to go to a hotel if they think I'm a monster, but she's hesitant to tell them that.

Has anyone had this issue before?
Posted by DirtyDawg
President of the East Cobb Snobs
Member since Aug 2013
15539 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:28 am to
Sounds pretty rude from the little brother and his wife. It's your house and your rules, they can suck it.
Posted by Tiguar
Montana
Member since Mar 2012
33131 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:29 am to
these kind of people are the worst

tell them "its just a dog" in a nonchalant manner next time they get an attitude for maximum troll
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35115 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:29 am to
quote:

I do not allow pets on my furniture however and the sister-in-law is apparently pretty upset about this.


Tell her you’ll make an exception for her but not the dog.
This post was edited on 12/10/19 at 9:33 am
Posted by AndyWoods
Middle
Member since Oct 2018
1131 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:29 am to
quote:

Has anyone had this issue before?
Conflicted discussion without the parties able to reach unanimous terms? Yes, but it's all YOUR house. If they can't respect YOUR requests, you will never get through to them, I fear.
Posted by Radiojones
The Twilight Zone
Member since Feb 2007
10728 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:29 am to
They can always stay at the Holiday Inn
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
29293 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:30 am to
Email them your preferred pet friendly local hotel accommodations
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113947 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:30 am to
Bottom line, when you go to someone's home you play by their rules. You don't like it then don't go. It really is that simple.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13916 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:30 am to
Tell them to go frick themselves if they can't follow the rules.

It's your house.
Posted by LSURussian
Member since Feb 2005
126962 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:30 am to
Just put an old sheet on your sofa and only allow Fideaux on the sofa and not on any other furniture.
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
18440 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:31 am to
If they can’t respect your house rules, tell them to go somewhere else. I allow dogs on my couches, but it’s my house. And we actually use covers. Everyone has their own rules. If visitors can’t respect it, they can GTFO.
Posted by Harry Caray
Denial
Member since Aug 2009
18648 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:31 am to
quote:

Tell them to go frick themselves if they can't follow the rules.

It's your house.
Yeahhh I never really understood why this concept is so hard to follow. They should be gracious you're allowing the dog in the house in the first place.
Posted by BuckeyeFan87
Columbus
Member since Dec 2007
25239 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:32 am to
Tell the wife to leave the dog at home or head to a hotel. I’m a dog owner/lover, but I have no right to tell you what my dog will and will not do at your place.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3135 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:33 am to
quote:

Sounds pretty rude from the little brother and his wife. It's your house and your rules, they can suck it.


I think so too. I love dogs, but have never been a fan of them on my furniture or sleeping in my bed. I'll readily admit I'm slightly OCD.

I think their dog will be fine for 5 days if it can't jump up on the sofa. This is a 40+lb chocolate lab mix btw.

Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79202 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:34 am to
I know there are just ridiculous people out there, but for stories like this I wonder if things get lost in translation.

Either she's just a terrible person or there is a disconnect and she's not actually mad about the furniture thing. Maybe they just got defensive when told about it ahead of time? If I were bringing my dog to someone's home and they told me he couldn't get on furniture, I might bristle a little because that would go without saying and I'm not the type to let kids/dogs run roughshod over someone else's house.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:34 am to
three day rule, baw
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:35 am to
I like my dog more than i like most people... that said, if it’s your house, then they need to abide by your rules.
Posted by jmon
Mandeville, LA
Member since Oct 2010
8415 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:36 am to
Why don't YOU man up and tell your bro in law the rules. Stop using your wife as the bearer of bad news.
Posted by dukee7
Louisiana
Member since May 2019
2270 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:36 am to
It’s your house, your rules. But the dog isn’t messing up your furniture by just sleeping/sitting on it. Put a sheet down and relax nancy
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32494 posts
Posted on 12/10/19 at 9:38 am to
Sounds like the sister n law is looking for an excuse to get out of spending Christmas at your house.
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