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Etiquette of GoFundMe discussion
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:16 am
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:16 am
Threads in recent weeks/months really get me thinking of the line(s) that separate helping your fellow person and charity that some may consider superfluous.
I think we can mostly agree on the following:
Person is sick with high medical bills....nice to help
Child is sick and family need some help with a temporary move to be near the child....nice to help
House fire and family needs help with clothing and "temporary" place to stay....nice to help
I think that the lines are getting blurred when people go to GoFundMe at the drop of a hat with any emergency or large life event. Some people are too quick to ask for "help" when it is not necessarily warranted.
I'm not sure that I even want to go down that road of giving examples of what may be considered superfluous as charity. Too many people will get their feelings hurt.
I think we can mostly agree on the following:
Person is sick with high medical bills....nice to help
Child is sick and family need some help with a temporary move to be near the child....nice to help
House fire and family needs help with clothing and "temporary" place to stay....nice to help
I think that the lines are getting blurred when people go to GoFundMe at the drop of a hat with any emergency or large life event. Some people are too quick to ask for "help" when it is not necessarily warranted.
I'm not sure that I even want to go down that road of giving examples of what may be considered superfluous as charity. Too many people will get their feelings hurt.
This post was edited on 7/27/20 at 7:27 am
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:17 am to Rouge
It’s very easy to just ignore GFM entirely. Problem solved.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:21 am to Rouge
quote:
Too many people will get there feelings hurt.
*their
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:25 am to Rouge
“Here’s our GFM link to our dream honeymoon !”
These folks can frick off and pay for it themselves or don’t go
These folks can frick off and pay for it themselves or don’t go
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:27 am to LSUBoo
quote:
their
Yep. Autoincorrect and my lack of editing strikes again
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:28 am to Rouge
I'll just say this. One of the easiest things a man can do is spend 25 bucks or so a month on a 20K death benefit policy. Add an accident and a catastrophic illness policy for even less and protect your family without having to ask for others to give that same 20 bucks via GFM. Blows my mind.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:34 am to Rouge
This is a thing in the karate world - parents starting GFMs to raise money for their kids to travel to karate tournaments. Drives me crazy.
Do people do this in travel ball as well?
Do people do this in travel ball as well?
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:34 am to Rouge
quote:
I think that the lines are getting blurred when people go to GoFundMe at the drop of a hat with any emergency or large life event. Some people are too quick to ask for "help" when it is not necessarily warranted.
There’s a whole entitled and selfish generation that don’t understand sacrifice, so that shouldn’t surprise you.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:38 am to Rouge
Just seems selfish that people can’t sacrifice 20-40 a month for life insurance, but they have no problem asking others to sacrifice that amount or more when tragedy strikes
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:45 am to Rouge
I am going to start a bunch of GFM's in a few years. I am going to be honest and straightforward.
"I have been working forever and am tired. I am retired and want to buy some toys. I am going to need aboot $25k for the toys. If you send me your email, I will send you pics of the toys once I purchase them."
"I have been working forever and am tired. I am retired and want to buy some toys. I am going to need aboot $25k for the toys. If you send me your email, I will send you pics of the toys once I purchase them."
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:47 am to TigrrrDad
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Do people do this in travel ball as well?
Nah. They shake cans.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:49 am to Hangit
quote:You moving to Canada?
I am going to need aboot $25k for the toys
Posted on 7/27/20 at 7:53 am to WDE24
If you don’t like GFM, don’t donate. Times have changed. There is also less door to door selling of cookies these days. Trade offs.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 8:21 am to Rouge
Had some friends start a go-fund me for something where they live in a van and travel the world and try and save the planet from pollution & post about it on their Instagram page. The whole thing was an obvious cash grab & no one donated to their cause. They ended up cutting out all their friends and family over it. Their instagram page is now dedicated to educating the world on the victimhood of black Americans.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 8:33 am to Indefatigable
quote:This is the truth.
It’s very easy to just ignore GFM entirely. Problem solved.
BUT, that doesn't mean discourse isn't still warranted.
I agree with the the observation of the OPer and his dissent. (OP'er if you're an "it" then please excuse my prejudices.)
I would like to think that the overwhelming majority of the GFM accounts are warranted and funding is needed, but sometimes somebody ought to mention (from a clandestine, cancelable Twitter account, no less) to Connie that she ought not water down the GFM roux by wanting $13,000 to pay for her diabetic, geriatric cat's colostomy bag procedure.
I would like to believe that it (GFM, etc.) isn't being used and abused as a way to get 15 minutes of social media fame, but I would also like to believe that ignorance is not bliss.
The increasing quantity of people with their hands out for a problem that might not require funding (Or else!) is hard to ignore if you've stumbled upon the platform and realized that with so many faux needs, it's bound to have an effect on spreading the money too thin. I wonder how many times a day does a potential donor see a more pressing, noble and needful matter but who can't donate because they've just given their last bit of expendable donations to Carl Perkin's terminally ill and well-off grandmother's Stair Chair Lift account that Carl started when he saw the resale value on those bad boys?
BUT, as Indefatigable said, the solution is to ignore it and so that is what I shall do, but that doesn't mean I still don't walk the floor with worry over precious little McKennileigh and Konnhor's immediate need for a spiritual journey of growth to Disney World with Mommy and Daddy after the new Escalade they had to have stifled all hope of seeing it come to fruition.
Alas, that is life, and life is unfair, but dammit, that doesn't mean it's right or okay. I digress.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 8:41 am to WDE24
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You moving to Canada?
Their taxes are taxed. They have a social program for everything so there are new taxes by the minute. Plus, a bucket of chicken is $50-60. No thanks.
Posted on 7/27/20 at 8:53 am to Hangit
It was just a quip on your use of "aboot"
Posted on 7/27/20 at 8:54 am to Rouge
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