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Does discrimination based on marital status happen frequently?

Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:28 am
Posted by volod
Leesville, LA
Member since Jun 2014
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:28 am

If a single man and married man work the same job with similar experience and abilities, will the married man always get the better assignments or promotions.

Likewise, do employers screen younger women candidates for fear that a young wife will abuse maternity leave.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:33 am to
I'm single and I've never been treated worse in terms of employment.

For young women, the average fertility rate is only 2 and companies don't have to offer paid leave. Hiring someone is supposed to be a relatively long term deal, so it won't be a major issue. If you have high turnover you're always training new people or getting current people to pick up extra work anyway. If you have low turnover you make up maternity leave with that employee taking fewer vacations.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:35 am to
Our HR guy screens all women applicants
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18419 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:35 am to
Only place I’ve seen this happen is in the military. Single soldier baws who live in the barracks are discriminated against as frick, they get all the extra duties
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 8:38 am
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:37 am to
Posted by Jcorye1
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:38 am to
quote:

If a single man and married man work the same job with similar experience and abilities, will the married man always get the better assignments or promotions.



I've generally seen it go the other way. I know a lot of the married women/guys I worked with sometimes had to do some last minute PTO because their kid was sick at school or something else.

quote:

Likewise, do employers screen younger women candidates for fear that a young wife will abuse maternity leave.



Small sample size and anecdotal evidence, but the people I've heard bitching the most about maternity leave "abusers" (for lack of a better term) is the older women who never had kids.
Posted by Averytiger
Member since Dec 2017
1366 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:41 am to
No, but employers will discriminate against crappy grammar.

You asked two questions, and you ended both with periods.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27875 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:43 am to
I can see how marriage and children can show roots and stability. Make an employer more apt to invest in a person.

That’s kind of an old school attitude though. Moving isn’t that hard really in this day and age.
Posted by TDcline
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Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 8:48 am to
quote:

in the military


Not only do they get all the extra duties, field days, frick-frick games, etc

Some of those barracks at Lejeune are damn near ready to fall down. 3/4 single Corporals in a 12x15 room with asbestos coming through the ceiling, while the married pfc boot gets a house in town with his fat wife.
Posted by Napoleon
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 10:00 am to
I remember hearing it's hard to rank higher than major in the army without being married.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 10:01 am to
It happened to me. I was shocked when it happened, actually. He told me to my face.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 10:12 am to
quote:

If a single man and married man work the same job with similar experience and abilities, will the married man always get the better assignments or promotions.


yes, because the married guy is 10x less likely to:

-just quit or up and leave for another job without giving notice

-come into work "less then ready to work" because he was out late partying or hound dogging

-not be thinking long term as far as working there and advancing with the company

-causing harassment issues by hitting on coworkers

-being involved in drugs or alcohol issues or be caught up in situations with people who do


bottom line is, the married guy has a more mature outlook on life because he has a family to think about and that does change a mans thinking on "everything" in life.

this means in a coin flip situation the married guy is "always" the safer bet to invest time and trust in advancing in the company
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 10:13 am
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 10:19 am to
quote:

volod wrote:

Does discrimination based on....

Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
28272 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 10:22 am to
quote:

Likewise, do employers screen younger women candidates for fear that a young wife will abuse maternity leave.

screen, yes.... it's something, as an employer, that i have to consider, the fact that they may get pregnant, and i'll have to figure out how to cover their time off and deal with a lack of production during the 3rd trimester...

but you can't discriminate vs. them....
Posted by MBclass83
Member since Oct 2010
10394 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 10:42 am to
It has happened to me years ago. I wasn't married and got the shite shifts. Frick that guy.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Member since Jan 2005
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Posted on 2/4/18 at 11:32 am to
quote:

yes, because the married guy is 10x less likely to:

-just quit or up and leave for another job without giving notice

-come into work "less then ready to work" because he was out late partying or hound dogging

-not be thinking long term as far as working there and advancing with the company

-causing harassment issues by hitting on coworkers

-being involved in drugs or alcohol issues or be caught up in situations with people who do


bottom line is, the married guy has a more mature outlook on life because he has a family to think about and that does change a mans thinking on "everything" in life.

this means in a coin flip situation the married guy is "always" the safer bet to invest time and trust in advancing in the company


True, but the single guy doesn't have a nagging wife at home who will be mad if he works late, and the married guy will at least occasionally have a doctor's visit or parent teacher conference his wife can't cover. So if he avoids frat boy behavior, he can earn points with both management and his fellow employees by covering for anyone who needs it.

This post was edited on 1/12/21 at 8:57 am
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 11:35 am to
It's the only reason I got married so hopefully
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
46425 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 11:46 am to
quote:

I remember hearing it's hard to rank higher than major in the army without being married.


Apparently, not in the Marines
Posted by SamuelClemens
Earth
Member since Feb 2015
11727 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 11:58 am to
Join the military. Of you need a wife they will assign you one.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26341 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 12:07 pm to
volod makes a thread about discrimination. I am shocked
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