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Do you travel for work?

Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:52 am
Posted by TheDeathValley
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2010
20798 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:52 am
I will be starting a new job in a month or so, and I will basically be gone 3-4 weeks at a time with a week of R&R at the end of each trip. My father-in-law is gone probably 330 days a year, so my fiance' is used to it.

My question is, does it take a toll on you. What is the shelf life for someone traveling so much? It is usually 2-3 years before this position moves to an office.
Posted by Brageous
Member since Jul 2008
107724 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:55 am to
330 days is insane. How much are you potentially traveling? And what kinds of places?

It definitely takes a toll. Longer stints make it tougher, too. Planning on kids quickly or what?
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:55 am to
I travel 4 days a week a couple times a month. It's difficult to leave a crying wife, but you just stay tough. Going to sleep in hotels isn't always easy.
Posted by TheAlmightySmash
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2014
5493 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:55 am to
quote:

so my fiance' is used to it

I hope so because she'll 100% get lonely
Posted by theronswanson
House built with my hands
Member since Feb 2012
3271 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:55 am to
Your fiance is used to it but did you ever ask her how she feels about it? That is a lot to be away.
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:55 am to
quote:

It is usually 2-3 years before this position moves to an office.


Sucks for you, dude. Burnout is high for road warriors of that level.

quote:

My father-in-law is gone probably 330 days a year, so my fiance' is used to it.


I wouldn't bet her fidelity on that. She wasn't married to her father.
Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
9256 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:56 am to
For me, two years was plenty. It sounds like fun to some people, and can actually be, but it certainly takes a toll.

What kind of travel and to what locations means a ton.

For me, the challenge of finding decent, somewhat healthy food and getting quality sleep took a toll. Airport food.

Get this out of your way before kids, if that's in the cards for you.

Best of Luck!
Posted by AnonymousTiger
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2012
4863 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:57 am to
You know the routine, we're gonna need to see the fiance.
Posted by trom83
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2013
4724 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:57 am to
quote:

I wouldn't bet her fidelity on that. She wasn't married to her father.


Posted by JAXTiger16
TBD
Member since Apr 2013
2519 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:58 am to
Yea. I leave for 7 months straight every year and a half.
Posted by Gr8t8s
Member since Oct 2009
2585 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:58 am to
I travel MAYBE one week a month and it is tough on the wife and kids. Nothing more heartbreaking than your kid telling you that they cried last night because you weren't there to tuck them in. But, I make more money in a week of travel than I do in two months working close to home.....so, it has to be done.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
175706 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 9:59 am to
I spent 9 months in a hotel room one year

To answer your question it all depends on where you're traveling to

If you're traveling to California you'll probably like it. If you're traveling to North Dakota I'd look for a suicide hotline to call
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
26751 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:00 am to
quote:

My father-in-law is gone probably 330 days a year


That is some serious travel. Is this a military deployment or something?

Most people don't even work close to 330 days a year.

Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40406 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:00 am to
Once a quarter, a day trip by plane.

Once a quarter, a car trip for 3 days.

Any more than that is too much, IMO.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62214 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:01 am to
Yes. About 4 miles each way.
Posted by LSUballs
P.A.I.G
Member since Feb 2008
40412 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:02 am to
All the time, but it's usually a fly in and out deal the same day or spend one night in a hotel. Don't mind it at all
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:06 am to
She's gonna get BBC from Craigslist while your gone. Just sayin'


Posted by Slinky
Member since Dec 2013
3118 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:07 am to
quote:

Do you travel for work?

Yes

quote:

does it take a toll on you

Yes

quote:

What is the shelf life for someone traveling so much?

I did it for 5 years, then got promoted and now I don't travel as much. Before I was living the bachelor life with few friends and all that bullshite. One year I traveled at least 300 days.

Posted by Agforlife
Somewhere in the Brazos Valley
Member since Nov 2012
20102 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:08 am to
Yes but not like you're talking about, I spend months on jobsite away from home living in hotels, been doing it all my working life. I sleep better in a motel than at home been lucky so far this year and have only been away for 3 or 4 months. I love it but it takes a toll on most people.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 10/7/15 at 10:13 am to
Another victim of Jody.
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