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Do you think it is a good idea to teach your children to drink responsibly?
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:45 pm
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:45 pm
Or do you think you should keep them from trying alcohol until they are of the legal age?
If you think it is your responsibility to teach them to drink responsibly, then at what age should you introduce alcohol to them?
How did your parents approach this subject with you?
If you think it is your responsibility to teach them to drink responsibly, then at what age should you introduce alcohol to them?
How did your parents approach this subject with you?
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:47 pm to rebeloke
teach them before they start to leave the house in their friends cars
so around 15
so around 15
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:48 pm to rebeloke
Don't make alcohol taboo to them. Most of the people that I went to college with that partied the hardest were the people with overly strict parents.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:48 pm to rebeloke
If you live in South Louisiana and have a child, your answer will probably be different pre child versus their high school years.
Also
“In a private home—it is not illegal for a person aged under 18 years to drink alcohol in a private residence.
Also
“In a private home—it is not illegal for a person aged under 18 years to drink alcohol in a private residence.
This post was edited on 6/10/18 at 2:51 pm
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:48 pm to rebeloke
Absolutely.
Always have a koozie on hand, and dab your lips with a napkin after each sip.
Always have a koozie on hand, and dab your lips with a napkin after each sip.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:50 pm to rebeloke
You have to give them choices and inform them of the effects and how to drink responsibly
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:53 pm to rebeloke
my parents took a hands off approach as long as I wasn't drinking and driving. worked out well for me. I intend to take a similar approach with my daughters, but to add that they must always have an eye on their drink.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:54 pm to rebeloke
I think drinking responsibly comes with age. When I was 18 no amount of teaching would have kept me from going through about 12 Coors Lights anytime the baws got together.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:58 pm to OysterPoBoy
It's different for each kid. I handled it the same way with both of my boys and got very different outcomes. The rebellious youngest is beginning to reel it in, though.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 2:58 pm to OysterPoBoy
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I think drinking responsibly comes with age. When I was 18 no amount of teaching would have kept me from going through about 12 Coors Lights anytime the baws got together
We used to pound cases of the beast in HS. 24 beers for like $8 back then
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:03 pm to rebeloke
Good idea to teach responsibility. 17 and 20 year old. They’re going to drink so you might as well be open with them about it. Now, they are both open with me and they generally don’t hide shite. Hard and fast rule is NO driving with even a drop of alcohol and for my daughter, get your own drinks. Don’t let people buy you drinks and keep a close eye on your drink. Worked ok so far.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:08 pm to rebeloke
It's a good idea to make drinking not as taboo imo
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:27 pm to rebeloke
I was 12 or 13 when I first got drunk. Tell them if they are around alcohol and they decide to drink, dont be a dumbass. Don’t drink too much & don’t be an idiot and guzzle a bunch of alcohol, don’t drink & drive & be the responsible one.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:31 pm to rebeloke
My mother grew up in Europe where drinking is more acceptable and generally not abused and my dad didn’t really care and I was well behaved so they didn’t care if I drank as long as I acted responsibly.
This post was edited on 6/10/18 at 3:35 pm
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:47 pm to rebeloke
A swallow or two at home is not an issue, but I think there is a fine line between being permissive and encouraging excess...which is totally unacceptable.
I think the most important aspect of it all is that they see you being totally responsible when drinking...i.e., never driving if you have had even a sip, always being respectful to those around you, etc.
I think the most important aspect of it all is that they see you being totally responsible when drinking...i.e., never driving if you have had even a sip, always being respectful to those around you, etc.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:47 pm to athenslife101
My daughter is 7 and I let her smell my scotch and bourbon to see what she thinks it smells like. I never get totally wasted in front of my kids. I let them know it is for enjoyment and not to get trashed.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:48 pm to athenslife101
quote:Ummm, pics?
My mother grew up in Europe
(Of her, not Europe, I’ve got my own of Europe, thank you)
This post was edited on 6/10/18 at 3:49 pm
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:50 pm to golfntiger32
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I never get totally wasted in front of my kids
Me either. I drink sparingly now after 4 years of sobriety. Unfortunately this wasn't always my policy.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 3:52 pm to fallguy_1978
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Don't make alcohol taboo to them. Most of the people that I went to college with that partied the hardest were the people with overly strict parents.
ME. I agree, teach them responsibility and that it's not taboo. I quit drinking and luckily never got into any trouble, but when I was drinking it was always way too much.
Posted on 6/10/18 at 4:10 pm to rebeloke
I have a framed picture of myself at 6 months old wearing blue jean overalls and a caterpillar trucker hat sitting in my dads lap drinking a Budweiser
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