re: Do you know anyone who is a cuck in real life?

Not a cuck but have been approached by a co-worker and another time by an old friend about swinging. I never talked to either again.

To each their own, but I didn’t see ever coming back from that conversation.

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Not a cuck but have been approached by a co-worker and another time by an old friend about swinging.

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Did they want to do it to you while the wife watched?

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There are four kinds of cuckoldry, I think.

First you have the man whose wife cheats without his knowledge.

Then you have the man whose wife cheats with his knowledge, and he tolerates it.

Third you have the guy who's had these fantasies, but (like a lot of shite, probably) he keeps it to himself out of respect for his wife and his marriage.

Finally you've got the guy who's actively shopping his so-called wife around on Reddit.

I'm not sure if any of these are better / worse, though I guess if you keep it to yourself and try to minimize it you're just dealing with the fallout from some weird abuse or humiliation you suffered.

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Not that I know from first hand experience any of your alleged definitions but to post this as a definition

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First you have the man whose wife cheats without his knowledge.

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is dumb.

Got approached by a cuck while drinking at The Cottage Inn. Wife was filipino and decent enough to consider but the husband was weird as frick. I mean like serial killer type vibes. Definitely noped out of that one

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is dumb.

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You're at least the third person who's tried to make this claim here, that "cuckoldry" is purely a fetish and does not refer to men whose wives cheat.

If your wife has sex with another man, you are a cuckold. The term is littered throughout literature and predates Modern English.

With all possible respect, when you use the term to mean purely a fetish, you come off like someone who takes Reddit too seriously.

There was a dude that used to post on TD all the time about loaning out his wife’s coot. He was from Arizona I’m sure someone will remember him. Weird as frick

I have a good friend who's a swinger. He's not into the cuckold stuff, but people in his circle of friends are. I've heard, "makes me happy to see the wife fully satisfied." "Makes our relationship better." Stuff like that.

I've have figured it out. Johnny Jones was railing your wife and you liked it.

Are we talking full blown cuck as in lets other dudes bang his wife, or a cuck in the sense they have given up all masculinity?

If the latter, yes, I know many of these unfortunately, thru work and such, but none make the cut for our social circle. I like fart jokes and drinking American beer without guilt.

Our excellent neighbors moved a couple years ago, and we got some California by way of Texas neighbors.

The dad stays home with the kids. The kids ARE NEVER OUTSIDE. Even if they are doing yardwork, the kids never come outside. If kids are playing, they don't come out. The only time we have ever seen them is on Halloween, and they will come over for the firepit, etc. They are nice people, but it's so odd. He picks them up from school (all the other kids ride the bus), and drives directly into the garage with them.

And they use an electric lawn mower, so it takes them a couple days to mow the grass. They don't use weed killer, they put down newspapers or tarps to kill the weeds naturally. It's just...interesting, I guess.

Connotation & denotation much brah?

Example: The word "scheme" in American English means something quite different from Modern English English.

But technically they both mean the same thing to everyone?

No. So how about just be smart enough to not use them incorrectly to the wrong person.

Let it go, in American English, we have much more concise modern terms to describe a woman who cheats on her husband than some archaic Middle English term.