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re: Do women really like bad boys?

Posted on 10/23/23 at 5:47 pm to
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 10/23/23 at 5:47 pm to
Depends on the woman and where she is in her life just like you.
Posted by AZBadgerFan
Scottsdale, AZ
Member since May 2013
1599 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 5:55 pm to
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That’s a bad boy. Steve McQueen being the archetype .

That’s a real bad boy that is also a good man.


Your posts on women are so cringy I am assuming you're a shtick. Also, Steve McQueen was well-known to be a woman-hater and abuser so your example of a "good man" is a poor one.

Steve McQueen article

This post was edited on 10/23/23 at 5:57 pm
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
81299 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 6:23 pm to
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Your posts on women are so cringy I am assuming you're a shtick


Yes, I am aware that highly feminized men and the women who rule them have trouble with anybody who writes about masculinity and femininity, evolutionary biology, the innate differences of the two genders, etc. I am perfectly happy with you being unnerved (I expect it to be the reaction) and I am glad to know that someday many have reflected on things I write and see the non-ideological value (as opposed to being buried under 30 layers of highly-feminized social conditioning) of acknowledging our nature.

Now back to the actual topic at hand...

As for Steve McQueen, yeah he was a mess. I'm talking about the ACTOR, the archetype. The man who is a free spirit, takes orders from no man, and is irresistible to women because of his risk-taking bad boy masculinity. That's infinitely more sexually attractive to a woman that say Jimmy Stewart or Tom Hanks archetypes, who are very GOOD MEN, but not necessarily the bad boy men that women crave sexually. Maybe Paul Newman was a man who split the difference well and actually embodied it in real life? Plus, he had the soul of a poet, which women also love.

Point being, a man can be a bad boy and a good man, if he pursues the truth of any given thing, has integrity, is willing to sacrifice for others, stands like a rock for good and virtuous causes, and also happens to have that innate danger that women find appealing. Most men aspire to be good men and not bad boys and that seems perfectly logical and moral to me. But the guy who brings adventure and a hint of danger and takes charge in the bedroom is who she thinks about when she closes her eyes.


Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
69800 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 6:51 pm to
To a certain degree. They like confidence more than anything. And what a lot of men lose as time goes on is the confidence to speak up and not just “go with the flow”. Anyone that subscribes to that “happy wife, happy life” bullshite is the first one to get cheated on and divorced.

The most successful marriages are the ones where partners communicate, take care of themselves physically and mentally, and put their marriage above everything else. Including their kids.
Just going to work and providing a paycheck and a roof over the family's head is never going to be what makes your spouse stick around, respect and get wet when they see you. Have your own hobbies and don't be a push over. At the same time, you have to treat your spouse the same way you did when you started dating.
This post was edited on 10/23/23 at 6:53 pm
Posted by iHEARTcorndogs
Island of Misfit Corndogs
Member since Oct 2023
1034 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:05 pm to
They don’t like nice guys, despite what they say
Posted by ManWithNoNsme
Member since Feb 2022
518 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:18 pm to
Yeah, a woman would never lie.
Posted by JackieTreehorn
Malibu
Member since Sep 2013
30165 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:19 pm to
Women like whatever their friends and the internet says is ok.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9984 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:28 pm to
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Women like whatever their friends and the internet says is ok.

Like president Van Buren used to say, he who controls the internet controls the hoes.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
81299 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:31 pm to
Our culture approaches gender issues and relationship issues ideologically. And that ideology is a combination of traditional conservative ideas about being “ a good man” and the ever- growing feminized ideas about toxic masculinity and gender equality. It all serves an ideological purpose but it has no real relation to what we actually find attractive in the other sex.

Women in particular are told that they are supposed to find a certain kind of man attractive and it just doesn’t work for them. Women are the sexual gatekeeper, they are infinitely more picky about what they find attractive and appealing than men are. There are a myriad of evolutionary biological reasons for that. It serves them very very well from a selection perspective. They HAVE to choose correctly in a way men don’t have to. So they find iconoclastic bad boy men who have at least the potential of rising to the top of the social hierarchy WAY more appealing than a choir boy who follows rules and other men. They want the astronaut, not the engineer.
Posted by AURulz1
Member since May 2022
222 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:33 pm to
If a woman does hook up with a bad boy, does she ever wonder what she is going to do?
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
67285 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:36 pm to
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Like president Van Buren used to say, he who controls the internet controls the hoes.
That was Coolidge you moran.
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
67023 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:37 pm to
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It has been my observation that after marriage it is said that men can be changed but rarely are and that women won't change but usually do.


Age ole whys tail:

Women marry a guy hoping he’ll change, but he doesn’t.

Men marry a woman hoping she won’t change, but she does.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9984 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 7:41 pm to
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That was Coolidge you moran.

Absolute ignorance to think Calvin “boys on the side” Coolidge knew anything about pulling hoes. Read a book for once nincompoop.
Posted by 6R12
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2005
9243 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 9:16 pm to
And that's why they like bad boys.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
17677 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 10:00 pm to
Some women do. Unfortunately they often wind up having kids with the bad boys. The kids wind up neglected, abused, or abandoned.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15892 posts
Posted on 10/23/23 at 10:17 pm to
I am sad Jenna Marbles privated her Nice Guys Finish Last videos. It made excellent points.

Basically women want to date people with similar looks, interests, and such.

If you aren’t having success because you are a “nice guy” you need to look at yourself. Are you a fricking ogre that isn’t interested in how you look and not vain as frick? Guess what, that woman that is conceited and cares immensely about how she looks and dresses wants to date someone that feels the same. Lower your standards to your fricking level and date there or get a shitload of money.

As Jenna Marbles said in the video, nice guys finish first at being fricking idiots, so there you go, you don’t finish last, you finish first.
This post was edited on 10/23/23 at 10:25 pm
Posted by TrimTab
North County Coastal San Diego
Member since Mar 2019
7777 posts
Posted on 10/24/23 at 3:34 am to
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somebody talking about me?

Yes.

And yes, we do like the bad boys. Danger is a thrill and a risk I'm always willing to take. At least once.

Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
32898 posts
Posted on 10/24/23 at 4:43 am to
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And yes, we do like the bad boys. Danger is a thrill and a risk I'm always willing to take. At least once.


that's damn near perfect sig quote material right there.
This post was edited on 10/24/23 at 4:51 am
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 10/24/23 at 6:12 am to
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As a lifelong bassist and keyboardist, my dick stayed drier than the Sahara (and STD-free)


Hahahaa...

Posted by tommy2tone1999
St. George, LA
Member since Sep 2008
7037 posts
Posted on 10/27/23 at 3:54 pm to
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