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re: Divorced members of the OT

Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:12 pm to
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18315 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:12 pm to
If you are willing to research there are some crazy stories about it
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:12 pm to
Time flies. Seems like just last month I fricked up and told her she could move in.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:12 pm to
i'm sorry bro. I know what you're going through.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:13 pm to
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She's entitled to his retirement if she endured the 20 year stretch as a dependent


50% and only a year of marriage entitles her to that
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
60085 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:14 pm to
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I've been divorced for over 7 years and still deal with it. Just recently had Support more than double.




Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68191 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:14 pm to
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:14 pm to
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That's my thing. She's remarried now. All I can think about is how she wants to act like the perfect wife for him but was a lying, cheating, pill popping whore with me. Not to mention how she gets pissed having to spend time with her children.

And I met a great girl that I was crazy about, and she was crazy about me. But she's younger, and she let people talk her out of being with me. Then it pisses me off that why I couldn't have met her when I was 20 instead of my ex.



You really shouldnt spend much time thinking about a pill popping whore. Doesn't deserve your time. You should probably be happy that you arent with that person as she sounds like a miserable person.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
60085 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:14 pm to
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If you are willing to research there are some crazy stories about it


I don't want to. It's too scary.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:15 pm to
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I'm still paying money to her for the rest of my life from my military retirement




Why?


Retirement earned or funded during the marriage falls under community property. If she goes after it and it ends up in the divorce settlement, she gets paid every time you get paid.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17442 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:15 pm to
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That's my thing. She's remarried now. All I can think about is how she wants to act like the perfect wife for him but was a lying, cheating, pill popping whore with me. Not to mention how she gets pissed having to spend time with her children.

And I met a great girl that I was crazy about, and she was crazy about me. But she's younger, and she let people talk her out of being with me. Then it pisses me off that why I couldn't have met her when I was 20 instead of my ex.


My ex married a jobless douche and they both live their lives as unproductive leaches.

At first, I had to make a concerted effort not to compare myself to them but now weeks go by without giving them a moment of thought. The only reason I do think it is because we have kids and I am constantly shouldering the entire cost of their upbringing because "mom says she can't afford it"

That's OK because my kids will grow up happy, healthy, and knowing what their dad (and stepmom) did to raise them right

Posted by BabySam
FL
Member since Oct 2010
1528 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:15 pm to
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I'm still paying money to her for the rest of my life from my military retirement



Why?


She's entitled to it if she was married to you for 10yrs or more...
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
44450 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:16 pm to
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She's remarried now. All I can think about is how she wants to act like the perfect wife for him but was a lying, cheating, pill popping whore with me.


Guarantee she is still just as crazy.

quote:

And I met a great girl that I was crazy about, and she was crazy about me. But she's younger, and she let people talk her out of being with me. Then it pisses me off that why I couldn't have met her when I was 20 instead of my ex.


Happens. Went through the same thing with another ex. Just be thankful you were able to get out of that relationship if she was so concerned with what other people thought about your relationship.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
17168 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:16 pm to
I got lucky and we split up about a year after the wedding. We were young and still lived in an apartment...she went her way and I went mine. I met my wife of 13 years about a month after the split. That was 20 years ago.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:16 pm to
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pill popping whore


Way to bury the lead, bud.

Pics?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32920 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:16 pm to
Is this the thread where all you divorcees talk shite about your ex wives and pretend that she was the only crazy one while you were the perfect husband? I love these threads
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
60085 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:17 pm to
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Just be thankful you were able to get out of that relationship if she was so concerned with what other people thought about your relationship.


Agreed. If she was so easily swayed by others, that would have just been asking for trouble down the road.
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
11321 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:18 pm to
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Divorce rates for second marriages are close to 70%. I'm too old and have too much to lose to play those odds.


This guy gets it.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:18 pm to
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Is this the thread where all you divorcees talk shite about your ex wives and pretend that she was the only crazy one while you were the perfect husband? I love these threads


Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
46000 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:19 pm to
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how many women at the age of 28-32 get married and settle down because its what society dictates they do

A metric frick ton. I get shite all the time because I've never been married. Everything from "are you gay?" no, I'm not, to "what's wrong with you?" nothing. I'm just not married. And people, regardless of what they say, will judge both men and women who have never been married.
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29454 posts
Posted on 5/19/16 at 1:20 pm to
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All I can think about is how she wants to act like the perfect wife for him but was a lying, cheating, pill popping whore with me. Not to mention how she gets pissed having to spend time with her children.

The facade will eventually wear off. If anything, feel bad for the clueless bastard she's with now.

And kids pick up on things. If she doesn't want to spend time with them, they'll figure it out and rather spend time with you as time goes on. Hang in there
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