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re: Divoced baws of the OT. How did it go down?
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:47 am to SuperSaint
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:47 am to SuperSaint
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And obviously wasn't dicking her down properly
I had the same thought
she was just being nice, didn't want to have to tell him the dick game was whack
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Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:48 am to CP3LSU25
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Women will do whatever it takes to have financial stability.
That's their only care in life.
I can feel the bitter resentment seeping out of the monitor on this one lol
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:48 am to Cosmo
I know a guy who got divorced a few months after the wedding. He had surgery, and his wife never picked him up from the hospital. He got a ride home, and opened the door to find the house cleaned out.
She was fricking the wedding photographer.
She was fricking the wedding photographer.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:49 am to lsunurse
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I love my husband so very much and the thought of losing my marriage and him shatters me to my soul.
As a divorced guy, tell him that. It'll help.
As a poster on the OT, tell him that while blowing him. It'll help more.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:50 am to boxcarbarney
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I know a guy who got divorced a few months after the wedding. He had surgery, and his wife never picked him up from the hospital. He got a ride home, and opened the door to find the house cleaned out.
She was fricking the wedding photographer.
Oof. Mega yikes.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:50 am to SuperSaint
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you dodged a bullet
Called me about 3 years later on my birthday, i didnt answer, voicemail said “hey you, Happy birthday! how have you been? We should catch up sometime.”
Would have been easy secks i suppose but didnt call back.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:50 am to GreatLakesTiger24
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I’ wonder how delaying marriage into your 30s and whatnot plays into this
I think it's a mixed bag. Very imprecise, sure to offend thoughts:
Good hearted, family and faith oriented people (SEC kids) get married younger. They do so because they're attracted to that lifestyle (a good thing per most of us). But they're often immature and don't have life experience or realistic life expectations, so these early marriages will often face a lot of trouble. To be even more blunt, I'm guessing there is a sliding scale of success (better to worse) that can be summed up in OT/SECR speak as going from Alabama grad (good hearted, reasonably smart, forward looking) to Alabama sidewalk fan (good hearted, not smart, nearsighted, townie).
On the other hand, jaded, overly educated, urbane types get married older. They're more mature, may be in more secure spots professionally and probably know what they can handle/not handle in relationships. They're also probably less likely to produce the type of loving, warm, 2.5 kid families the OT likely favors. So societally, there is something of a "what's the point in caring about their marriage success" component.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:51 am to Cosmo
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Divoced baws of the OT. How did it go down?
If she loses 15 pounds and wants a boob job...divorce papers will follow in 6-8 months.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:52 am to jchamil
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Please tell us you know what this girl is up to these days
Per facebook she is married to a guy that looks like a good ole baw who took over his daddy’s Chevy dealership.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:53 am to lsu777
We've had a handful of so of divorces in our circle of friends, and none of the stories are like the ones shared in this thread. There was infidelity in a couple of them, but mostly it was just a growing apart and a refusal by one partner to acknowledge the issues.
In one, the guy made good money and the wife stayed home. He worked until 6 or 7 most nights, then went out for drinks and dinner a night or two a week, played golf every Saturday and Sunday morning, went hunting every weekend in during hunting season. All while wife was home caring for their two small children. He claims he was blindsided when she asked him to go to marriage counseling. I mean, I had been around them when they'd get into an argument over his never being around. He refused counseling because he thought she was being "crazy" and she filed for divorce a few months later. She and her attorney raked him over the coals during the divorce. Child support, alimony, limited visitation, etc. The saddest part for him is she is an incredible catch. Gorgeous, caring, kind, and not entitled in the least. He is miserable now, as he should be.
In one, the guy made good money and the wife stayed home. He worked until 6 or 7 most nights, then went out for drinks and dinner a night or two a week, played golf every Saturday and Sunday morning, went hunting every weekend in during hunting season. All while wife was home caring for their two small children. He claims he was blindsided when she asked him to go to marriage counseling. I mean, I had been around them when they'd get into an argument over his never being around. He refused counseling because he thought she was being "crazy" and she filed for divorce a few months later. She and her attorney raked him over the coals during the divorce. Child support, alimony, limited visitation, etc. The saddest part for him is she is an incredible catch. Gorgeous, caring, kind, and not entitled in the least. He is miserable now, as he should be.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:53 am to Cosmo
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In med school dated one of the nurses for almost a year, i was 24, she was 22. I shite you not she ended it by saying “I love you and could see myself marrying you but Ive been watching sex and the city lately and feel like i need to explore myself and my sexuality more before settling down.”
That bitch watching a tv show probably saved your life...
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:56 am to fightin tigers
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Um, exactly. Monogamy is all the time. You will never have a donut again.
Correct, because some people want monogamy. They want trust. They want to be reliable and committed. They want family...love...commitment.
You seem unable to see beyond your immediate physical desires. That's fine for you, but you totally miss the mark if you think people aren't choosing monogamy because that's what they want.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:57 am to The Spleen
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The saddest part for him is she is an incredible catch. Gorgeous, caring, kind, and not entitled in the least. He is miserable now, as he should be.
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and her attorney raked him over the coals during the divorce. Child support, alimony, limited visitation, etc.
Yeah... What a catch.
She's a barrel full of crazy who's good at hiding it from others.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:57 am to boxcarbarney
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He had surgery, and his wife never picked him up from the hospital
Wow, talk about a count move...
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:59 am to Hangover Haven
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In med school dated one of the nurses for almost a year, i was 24, she was 22. I shite you not she ended it by saying “I love you and could see myself marrying you but Ive been watching sex and the city lately and feel like i need to explore myself and my sexuality more before settling down.”
Got her number? Asking for a friend...
Posted on 2/17/20 at 10:59 am to boxcarbarney
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I know a guy who got divorced a few months after the wedding. He had surgery, and his wife never picked him up from the hospital. He got a ride home, and opened the door to find the house cleaned out.
She was fricking the wedding photographer.
Man that's all kinds of fricked up.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:01 am to moneyg
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You seem unable to see beyond your immediate physical desires. That's fine for you, but you totally miss the mark if you think people aren't choosing monogamy because that's what they want.
I'm simply stating that monogamy goes against human nature. Monogamy is something we force ourselves into.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:01 am to X123F45
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She's a barrel full of crazy who's good at hiding it from others.
Maybe it reads that way, but she paused her career, at his insistence, to birth and raise their kids. The alimony was just until the kids reached school age, then she'd go back to work. I think the dynamics of their marriage gave her favor with the judge who basically granted her everything she asked for in the divorce. He was practically never there.
He did get to keep the house and her car.
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:04 am to X123F45
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as a divorced guy, tell him that
Seems like a bad idea to be hashing out your real life current day marriage issues on here. But that's just me
Posted on 2/17/20 at 11:06 am to fightin tigers
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Marriage is a covenant before god and made in front of your family and friends. Maybe people should understand what marriage really is before moving forward. If you’re not willing to work through hard times, sickness and in health, rich or poor, then don’t get married. You’re miserable and not happy, work it out and honor your covenant.
Oh wow, it's that easy? Well frick, you should let everyone know this info.
If both took time to be with a Godly person, then it would work that easily. At a minimum, more work would be out into saving the marriage by BOTH partners. And that's what it takes.
You make a commitment and do it in Gods eyes. If you follow Gods rules, divorce shouldnt be an option.
It's an issue when God and marriage are done together, yet God isnt first in their lives.
So, is it easy..no...but, if God is 1st in both of their lives, then the mutual decision making is easier and more successful comes from that.
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