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re: Did you ask your girlfriends dad for permission to marry her?

Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:22 pm to
Posted by pivey14
In Your Head
Member since Mar 2012
15445 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:22 pm to
This thread would be better served as a check in thread to see who was rejected by their potential father-in-law
Posted by Tigris
Mexican Home
Member since Jul 2005
12358 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:22 pm to
No, she'd been divorced so I figured he'd already given it.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
150762 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:22 pm to
I'm not sure any of my married friends didn't ask the father/parents. I know I certainly plan to when it comes time to cross that bridge for me.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67101 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:22 pm to
I would, she'd be pissed if I didn't
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
9206 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:22 pm to
quote:

I sure hope no guy asks me that shite to marry my daughter. My feelings on the marriage will be known if I decide to pay for a wedding.

It's called respect for my adult daughters(one day) to marry who the hell they choose to.


Staying classy there mikelbr.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32712 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
quote:

Just be sure to preface whatever you say with, "Not that I give a shite what you say, but..."


that is why i asked for his blessing because, let's be honest, Even if he says no, you are still gonna ask her.
Posted by HubbaBubba
F_uck Joe Biden, TX
Member since Oct 2010
45774 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
Are you 18? 19? What?

My wife and I were both in our 30's. After she proved to me she'd pretty much do anything in the sack and wanted to have my babies, you think I'm running off to Mormon dad in Utah, "Uh, sir... I don't think I can live another day without your daughter sitting on my face. How about it? Mind if I fornicate with her the rest of my life?"
Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28082 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
i did. as a matter of fact i am the only one that asked out of the three daughters my father in law has
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47507 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
quote:


Has anyone ever been turned down by the father and NOT married the girl in the end


Exactly why I don't want to be bothered with this old fashioned nonsense. If I don't approve of the relationship it'll be well known before any proposal.
Posted by skullhawk
My house
Member since Nov 2007
23052 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
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Like any girl I date would have a relationship with their father!


Posted by SeauxWhat
Metairie
Member since Dec 2009
275 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
Yup, still one of the most awkward things I've done in my life, even though I was with her 8+ yrs
Posted by DawgCountry
Great State of GA
Member since Sep 2012
30556 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
Yes, I'm not a heathen
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:24 pm to
This guy

What a stupid frick.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 1:24 pm
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
22903 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:24 pm to
quote:

I sure hope no guy asks me that shite to marry my daughter. My feelings on the marriage will be known if I decide to pay for a wedding.


Get over yourself you grumpy dick.
Posted by Thurber
NWLA
Member since Aug 2013
15402 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:24 pm to
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83583 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:25 pm to
traditions are cool and all, but I'm kinda glad I didn't have to ask her Dad

she only talks to her Dad about once a year, so I wasn't going to call the guy up out of the blue and ask for his blessing

plus we were both adults, I always felt like this tradition was when people married at like 16 and still lived at home
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47507 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:25 pm to
quote:


Staying classy there mikelbr

Because I feel that it's disrespectful to the woman to have to ask her dad's permission to marry her?
This is one of the few things I believe I'm quite progressive and rational about.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:25 pm to
We were both in our 30s when we got engaged. I told him it wasn't necessary. Why waste money on airfare to BR for that???
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
22903 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:25 pm to
quote:

traditions are cool and all, but I'm kinda glad I didn't have to ask her Dad

she only talks to her Dad about once a year, so I wasn't going to call the guy up out of the blue and ask for his blessing


This is a legit reason to make an exception.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67101 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 1:25 pm to
quote:

How is it a sign of respect when it doesn't matter what the old man says, you're going to married the chick anyway?





Has anyone ever been turned down by the father and NOT married the girl in the end?


I know of a few instances where the father said know, but after some time had passed he changed his mind and they got married. Usually, the father's objections are temporary and based on money or maturity. If the suitor asks him again later after becoming more financially stable or more emotionally mature (or once his daughter has become more emotionally mature), he'll generally relent. After all, he's only looking after his daughter. He's just trying to make sure she doesn't marry a loser.
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