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re: Desi Vega apologizes to Black couple who had tip auto added to bill at restaurant

Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:48 am to
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:48 am to
Did the guy really make a scene at the restaurant by calling the restaurant from his table, called his friends to ask them if this was normal, and polled a white couple sitting at a table near them?

That’s what I’m skeptical about.
Posted by red sox fan 13
Valley Park
Member since Aug 2018
15352 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:49 am to
Just another reason to do away with the dumb tipping system.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37112 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:49 am to
quote:

Having said that, there are exceptions to every stereotype and, if what you are saying about Mr. Washington is true, he is THE EXCEPTION.


I think this is correct.

Also, this is Desi Vega's in Metairie. This isn't some local French Quarter place on Bayou Classic weekend, where maybe those local stereotypes may have more meaning.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58818 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:50 am to
quote:

However, whenever someone adds the tip, that is EXACTLY what they will get to the EXACT F*CKING PENNY. I'll then add a little note saying that they F*CKED UP because had the tip not been automatically added, they would have gotten a much larger tip.



Do you tell them that you're a douche verbally too?
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
41150 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:52 am to
quote:

Despite the everything is racist today, how in the frick is this racist unless the restaurant ONLY does this to black people?



Or maybe the server and the customer had a previous experience together? Maybe the customer was a dick the entire time? Maybe the guy was fricking the server's mom on the side? There are possibly a million non-racism reasons for this server to have done what they did. The media and the public NEVER wait for these things to play out and find out exactly what happened. If people had just waited for all the facts to come out in the George Floyd case for instance, perhaps we wouldn't have spent all summer burning shite and blocking roads?
Posted by sparkinator
Lake Claiborne
Member since Dec 2007
4460 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:52 am to
A public apology because the Washington’s made it public. I don’t blame either party for making it public, but I bet they both wish it wasn’t now. In hindsight. But that’s beside point.

I was skeptical but glad both parties have sorted it out.
This post was edited on 3/1/21 at 8:54 am
Posted by doubleb
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2006
36054 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:53 am to
quote:


Or because a significant number of these high profile events turn out to not true. That too.


No doubt, but why rush and jump to a conclusion before you have all the facts?
These people want everything to fit their predetermined agenda. The fact is sometimes it doesn’t and you look like an arse when you are shown to be FOS.

Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
14596 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:53 am to
This should no more be in the news than me getting up to pee in the middle of the night. Apologize...accept it and move on with your life.
Posted by MMauler
Member since Jun 2013
19216 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:54 am to
quote:

Do you tell them that you're a douche verbally too?



No. I tell them that we are all going to back to your mom's house to run a train on her. If they are black, I invite them to join the train because everyone knows that how much your mom loves a train full of BBC. Of course, that would be part of their tip.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
59531 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:55 am to
Exactly what year did the tip go from standard 15% to 20%?
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110896 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:56 am to
quote:

When a server adds an automatic gratuity, I take that as a sign that he/she has looked at my group, sized us up, and determined that we are likely to stiff him/her.
quote:

However, whenever someone adds the tip, that is EXACTLY what they will get to the EXACT F*CKING PENNY. I'll then add a little note saying that they F*CKED UP because had the tip not been automatically added, they would have gotten a much larger tip.
The sooner you realize that at some places tips are auto-added for groups over a certain amount, the sooner people will stop thinking you're a huge arse hole.

Imagine leaving that kind of note for a server...
Posted by Lincoln Dawson
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Feb 2019
783 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:56 am to
the owner really had no choice. his employees who represent the restaurant put him in a very bad light. what they did was wrong and deceitful. and ultimately he has to answer for it.

it takes years and years to build up a reputation and only seconds to destroy it. he's doing damage control and it is the right thing to do.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:57 am to
Not surprising, but the woke crowd isn't satisfied with the firings or apology.

Never are.
This post was edited on 3/1/21 at 8:58 am
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110896 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:58 am to
quote:

No doubt, but why rush and jump to a conclusion before you have all the facts?
These people want everything to fit their predetermined agenda. The fact is sometimes it doesn’t and you look like an arse when you are shown to be FOS.
Right

When these things happen, one side jumps to the conclusion of it being true and runs with it. The other side automatically assumes it's false and runs with it. One side ends up looking foolish. The next time the other side ends up looking foolish.

And the rest of us are just shaking our heads at both sides and how they simply refuse to learn their lesson when they're wrong. That lesson being, just wait for the story to play out, it's not that difficult.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110896 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:58 am to
quote:

This should no more be in the news than me getting up to pee in the middle of the night. Apologize...accept it and move on with your life.

Why are you apologizing for peeing in the middle of the night!!!
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37112 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:59 am to
quote:

Or maybe the server and the customer had a previous experience together? Maybe the customer was a dick the entire time? Maybe the guy was fricking the server's mom on the side? There are possibly a million non-racism reasons for this server to have done what they did. The media and the public NEVER wait for these things to play out and find out exactly what happened.


Did you read the story? The server and the manager admitted that this is EXACTLY what happened.

If you have the facts, that's it, case closed.

Trying to compare this to other situations is intellectually weak. All situations stand on their own.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58818 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 8:59 am to
quote:

No. I tell them that we are all going to back to your mom's house to run a train on her. If they are black, I invite them to join the train because everyone knows that how much your mom loves a train full of BBC. Of course, that would be part of their tip.


Sick burn, bro! fricking awesome! Bet your bros can't wait to hear about what you did on the internet today!

Now let's hear more about your big tipping on your $65 check at Parrain's, big guy.
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
14596 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 9:00 am to
quote:

Why are you apologizing for peeing in the middle of the night!!!



Because I accidentally woke up your mom.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166323 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 9:01 am to
*Parties of 1 or more will automatically have 18% tip added to their bill for convenience*

problem solved.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58818 posts
Posted on 3/1/21 at 9:02 am to
quote:

The sooner you realize that at some places tips are auto-added for groups over a certain amount, the sooner people will stop thinking you're a huge arse hole.


Let's face, Mauler's dining experiences are pretty limited. He probably expects the bartender to obsequiously thank him for the $2 tip he leaves on a round of bud lights.
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