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re: Couples who decide not to have kids.

Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:09 am to
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19150 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:09 am to
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Well you picked the wrong women if thats the case


Try having a kid, you will rethink that statement
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85508 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:10 am to
I don't want kids right now at almost 28. Will that change in a few years? Probably

But not now
Posted by Meatball
Member since Sep 2009
5136 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:14 am to
Can't argue with that. There are many people in this world that have no business reproducing.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:17 am to
Kids aren't for everyone.




It really is that simple.


I seriously thought about not having them and realized I did want them. But I'm so glad I actually let myself seriously consider both paths instead of just having that mentality of "well you are supposed to have kids...that's just what you do" like so many have.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
39012 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:23 am to
Everyone I know who decided to not have kids, change their minds once they got married. I would expect people who make that decision too early would regret it.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71028 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:24 am to
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Why complicate the marriage with kids.


Even though you use complicate with a negative connotation, some people enjoy the complexity kids bring to a relationship. I don't think a healthy marriage is complicated by kids, at least not in the way you are thinking.

It's sort of ridiculous to try and convince people not to have kids. What purpose would that serve? It's nearly as ridiculous to convince people who don't want kids that they should have them. It's of no consequence to you as a third party, and having parents that don't want you sounds like a shitty life.

To answer the OP, I'd say barely more than half of people eventually regret not having kids, but for the most part, it's not some debilitating regret.
Posted by LSUTygerFan
Homerun Village
Member since Jun 2008
33232 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:25 am to
someone will have to choose your nursing home.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21847 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:25 am to
My neighbors opted for this. They both retired early, moved to a beach area, have lots of stuff and act like they love it. They post lots of pics of beach an other selfies. He once told me he was too selfish to share $ and time on others. The wife was a bonus because she had a great job and this was right up his alley because of the extra cash scenario.
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
61832 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:32 am to
quote:

Couples who decide not to have kids.


Is pretty much nobody's business but their own.

Posted by thesoccerfanjax
Member since Nov 2013
6128 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:32 am to
Kids are fricking annoying and I can't figure out why anybody would want them. Yes, ALL kids. YOUR kids. They're annoying.
Posted by TigerHam85
59-024 Kamehameha Highway
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:32 am to
Mike bringing logic to the table like he always does
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:34 am to
Yes
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
22741 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:34 am to
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How would someone who chose not to have kids ever know if they made the right choice?


Think about how retarded this statement is.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:36 am to
quote:

Before birth control (and legalization of it), infidelity and divorce were much less common.




Birth control has been around since ancient times. The Romans used tied-off lamb intestines for condoms.
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16868 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:38 am to


Here's what I'm saying. What ab people who look at other peoples kids and think "damn, that's awful. I'm never doing that".

How can you ever know for sure that that is the right choice for yourself if you cannot compare it to the other option.

And I'm not saying have kids just for the hell of it. I saying how are you ever 100% sure?
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
22741 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:41 am to
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How can you ever know for sure that that is the right choice for yourself if you cannot compare it to the other option.


How does this not equally apply to the inverse? I know plenty of miserable people with kids. How can you know 100% that you wouldn't have enjoyed life more without them? Oh, that's right, you can't know 100% about any path you don't take.

It's a ridiculous opinion.
This post was edited on 8/4/14 at 7:43 am
Posted by RadTiger
Member since Oct 2013
1121 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:44 am to
quote:

Kids are fricking annoying and I can't figure out why anybody would want them. Yes, ALL kids. YOUR kids. They're annoying.


I bet people told YOUR parents that all the time.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:47 am to
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We are in our early 40's and married with no kids. I have taken 5 vacations this summer including Vegas. Wtf we need kids for. #lovinglifewithnoworries


Yeah, we are in our late 30s and married and have taken 3 vacations this summer with our kids.
All kinds of fun, couldn't imagine doing it without them.
I truly feel sorry for people that can't share their life's joy with their children.
It's gotta suck.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19150 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:48 am to
Her womb is so polluted
This post was edited on 8/4/14 at 7:52 am
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16868 posts
Posted on 8/4/14 at 7:49 am to
There isn't a doubt in my mind

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