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"Comparison is the thief of joy"

Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:21 pm
Posted by Violent Hip Swivel
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:21 pm
I'm way late to the game and was not familiar with this quote until a few weeks ago, but I'm thinking that it may be one of the key ingredients in finding more happiness and contentedness in life.

"Comparison is the thief of joy" is applicable in so many different ways. All 5s on the survey.
Posted by NIH
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:22 pm to
Did you find your why
Posted by Violent Hip Swivel
Member since Aug 2023
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:23 pm to
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Did you find your why



I recently have found enlightenment, and now I am here to educate others!
Posted by JetsetNuggs
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:23 pm to
Toby is a thief of joy
Posted by Honest Tune
Louisiana
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:25 pm to
It is one of the most practical and helpful pieces of advice to remind oneself of. That and “think that you might be wrong.”

Posted by LittleJerrySeinfield
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:26 pm to
Necessity is the mother of invention, but laziness is its father.
Posted by scott8811
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:26 pm to
100000% and it's why so many people in the age of social media are depressed
Posted by cdhorn28
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:27 pm to
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:28 pm to
Your Mother is like a Carnival ride.

Made and altered by shifty people and willing to give anyone a quick ride for tuppence.
Posted by Tiger Ugly
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Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:31 pm to
quote:

“think that you might be wrong.”



This is a gem, almost everyone - myself included - should think on this one a while and consider it.

Passion is the true enemy of reason is also a favorite of mine.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:32 pm to
Sure but I don't think comparison is a bad thing in itself. When used in moderation it serves as a good motivator for improvement. When there are professional milestones I want to achieve, for example, I look at someone and say well if they did it so can I.

Obsession with comparing yourself to others is when it becomes unhealthy.
Posted by Honest Tune
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:33 pm to
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This is a gem, almost everyone - myself included - should think on this one a while and consider it.


For sure. It helps facilitate a healthy level of humility and ego check. For intelligent folk with a nice competitive streak, it doesn’t hurt to self govern with some friendly reminders.
Posted by boosiebadazz
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:35 pm to
My dad was not an educated or worldly man but he always told me how lucky we were to be born in the United States of America. I didn’t really know what he meant until I grew up and saw the news out of Africa, China, the Middle East, etc.
This post was edited on 12/10/24 at 12:54 pm
Posted by BottomlandBrew
Member since Aug 2010
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:37 pm to
This is something I have stressed to my kids since day 1. My kids aren't quite old enough to really understand it, but I hope it clicks with them some day. I learned it much later in life than I wish I had. Life is so much easier when you don't worry about what others have. Once I started focusing on my journey and not worrying about what others were doing or had, it sort of set me free.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:37 pm to
If you compare yourself to shitty people, then comparison can bring joy.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
281843 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:37 pm to
quote:

"Comparison is the thief of joy"


Depends. If youre a competitive person its necessary.

If youre not, then it most likely traumatizes you.
Posted by GumboPot
Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:44 pm to
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"Comparison is the thief of joy"



Falls under the 10th Commandment. "Thou shall not covet."
Posted by SquatchDawg
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Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:46 pm to
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Did you find your why


No but I found my when.

Unfortunately it is about 10 years ago.
Posted by NC_Tigah
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Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:47 pm to
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"Comparison is the thief of joy"


Posted by Alt26
Member since Mar 2010
32022 posts
Posted on 12/10/24 at 12:52 pm to
I agree with that quote. But I think happiness in life is really a matter of perspective.

I know people who are very well off, with great, healthy, loving families, who are constantly living in a state of "woe is me" even though MANY people would gladly trade lives with them.

I also know people who have had some financial struggles, aren't living a life of luxury, and have experienced much more personal tragedy than the aforementioned group. Yet, they feel very blessed and grateful for what they have and don't take a "life hates me approach". They have many more reasons to be down, but they have much better perspective on life.

Like everyone, there are things I don't like about myself or my situation. Things I wish were better. But when I get down I try to immediately tell myself to "STFU!!! You have it really, really good. Be thankful." That quickly changes my perspective.
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