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Changing views on mental health
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:18 pm
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:18 pm
I'm pretty sure I have the same response to stressful or other adverse stimuli as a lot of people who talk about their anxiety, and possibly also depression, but I was raised and taught to persevere and overcome. That hasn't hurt me. It's helped me. I'm sure I could have been taught more and better coping skills earlier, which would have also helped, but I still feel like people seem more attached to their mental illnesses in some way now. I see people embracing it as part of their identity. That's cool in terms of working toward reducing stigma, but it seems like people are letting it define them more.
Anybody agree with this crazy shite I'm saying?
Anybody agree with this crazy shite I'm saying?
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:20 pm to baybeefeetz
quote:
Anybody agree with this crazy shite I'm saying?
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:20 pm to baybeefeetz
Everyone wants to be a victim
And why not in this age of special handouts?
And why not in this age of special handouts?
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:22 pm to baybeefeetz
Yes, I agree. There is an overall trend of naval gazing in general. People are too self-obsessed. It’s cause is social media in the formative years.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:22 pm to baybeefeetz
Snowflake meltdowns are a mental issue?
Who knew?
Who knew?
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:22 pm to baybeefeetz
I think it started when the game genie came out for NES. Games were excruciatingly hard before that. Then you just put in a code and it was the same effect as if you had spent days getting good at it.
All Game Genie's fault.
All Game Genie's fault.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:22 pm to baybeefeetz
The Mental Illness culture in the Olympics began with Bruce Jenner in 1976 and now 45 years later nothing has been done about it
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:23 pm to baybeefeetz
Everyone has challenges and struggles, but the world is a hard, cruel place. Better to understand that and develop ways to approach life than try to avoid it… because you can’t avoid it forever, and it’s just gonna get more difficult.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:24 pm to baybeefeetz
Mental health needs to be addressed and less stigmatized...but social media has made people act like you're not cool unless you have mental health issues
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:26 pm to baybeefeetz
Having worked with mentally ill teenagers for 25 years I appreciate the fact that mental health services are more accessible and concerns tend to be taken seriously. Having said that I have always tried to teach kids to understand their condition but not to use it as an excuse for bad behavior.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:26 pm to tgrbaitn08
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The Mental Illness culture in the Olympics began with Bruce Jenner in 1976
Ridiculous point. Seriously. Jenner was a very humble guy and iconic to everyone for years before, during and after 76.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:27 pm to baybeefeetz
As a country we have become weak. Every generation has wanted their kids to deal with less and less disappointment and rejection....and this is what you get.
If things get too hard you know longer need to deal with them. You say it has hurt my feelings, it is bullying, I am being singled out and so forth.
If things get too hard you know longer need to deal with them. You say it has hurt my feelings, it is bullying, I am being singled out and so forth.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:28 pm to baybeefeetz
quote:Validation via social media
I still feel like people seem more attached to their mental illnesses in some way now. I see people embracing it as part of their identity. That's cool in terms of working toward reducing stigma, but it seems like people are letting it define them more.
It makes them feel special and unique in a society where the majority are a variation of average.
That’s it.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:28 pm to baybeefeetz
I feel ya', OP. I couldn't help but think this past week that while Simone Biles is under a lot of pressure to perform at a high level, I'm all but certain she doesn't have many worries aside from delivering on the mat. She's more than financially secure from endorsements, and her meals and travel are organized for her.
Many in the real world are faced with just as much pressure, but don't get the glory and the fame that athletes do. If I just shut things down tomorrow because I'm stressed out, we lose our home and the kids are booted from school/go hungry. Real people have to keep chugging away and do so every day because there is no alternative.
Many in the real world are faced with just as much pressure, but don't get the glory and the fame that athletes do. If I just shut things down tomorrow because I'm stressed out, we lose our home and the kids are booted from school/go hungry. Real people have to keep chugging away and do so every day because there is no alternative.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:28 pm to baybeefeetz
I was taught from a young age that "words will never hurt you" now we have a world full of kids and young adults that need everything from psycological counsling to a "safe place" to help them copee with "harmful speech".
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:28 pm to baybeefeetz
We don’t teach or encourage perseverance anymore. Kids are taught that as soon as they encounter adversity, they should fold bc “it’s ok to not be ok.”
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:31 pm to Sao
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Ridiculous point. Seriously. Jenner was a very humble guy and iconic to everyone for years before, during and after 76.
He still had a mental illness...he just did a better job at hiding it and still competed and won a Gold medal.....he persevered. I was years later that he admitted that he had a mental illness and never blamed anyone and owned it.
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:32 pm to baybeefeetz
In some ways yes I agree. People can become institutionalized in their own heads and think or use their mental illness as an excuse not to function or act like assholes. I have a sibling like this who can function fine at work but once she returns home she acts like she cant take care of herself. She is a severe bi-polar. My parents are partially to blame because they instilled this helplessness in her.
There is still stigma though and lot of it comes from not understanding mental illness. You mentioned anxiety. I had panic disorder that was brought on by who knows what, that debilitated my life for about a year before I got treatment. I didnt want to admit I had something malfunctioning in my brain so I just stayed home and avoided situations that seemed to trigger it. I finally went to the doctor and was prescribed paxil which solved the problem. Took it for a while and my brain chemistry went back to normal and I stopped taking it. Just like any other medication.
There is still stigma though and lot of it comes from not understanding mental illness. You mentioned anxiety. I had panic disorder that was brought on by who knows what, that debilitated my life for about a year before I got treatment. I didnt want to admit I had something malfunctioning in my brain so I just stayed home and avoided situations that seemed to trigger it. I finally went to the doctor and was prescribed paxil which solved the problem. Took it for a while and my brain chemistry went back to normal and I stopped taking it. Just like any other medication.
This post was edited on 7/29/21 at 12:36 pm
Posted on 7/29/21 at 12:34 pm to Scruffy
Thinking back to the 70s and 80s, people - adults and kids - pretty much lived in a 'suck it up' world. Meaning, internalizing depression and the like was what most did.
Rx wasn't prevalent and coping instead of verbalizing every last obstacle was just the way it was. Now, it created a lot of mean assholish people but they didn't wear why on their sleeve. People today spew sorrow and woe to anyone who have eyes or ears.
Rx wasn't prevalent and coping instead of verbalizing every last obstacle was just the way it was. Now, it created a lot of mean assholish people but they didn't wear why on their sleeve. People today spew sorrow and woe to anyone who have eyes or ears.
This post was edited on 7/29/21 at 12:35 pm
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