re: Brother, this is why so many women leave during menopause…

Great, a facebook post created by a selfish woman.

My ex left during menopause.....after she befriended a miserable feminist that destroyed two marriages. I moved on, found a hotter, younger woman, and couldn't be happier.

Thanks "menopause".

More lack of accountability.

Okay Bot.

The great news is my husband is fantastic so ai don’t have to deal with the nonsense as before …

One of the BEST things about menopause and a great man is the mind-blowing, toe-curling, insane sex!

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For decades, many women have been holding the emotional load of the relationship.
Regulating for both people.
Softening everything.
Making it work.

Menopause doesn’t create dissatisfaction.
It removes the buffer that was hiding it.

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I knew this would somehow find a way to blame men. Women have zero accountability for anything these days, they're like children.

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Might be worthwhile to take the hit, embrace gray-divorce get out ahead of it.

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A lot of younger men are buying into it. It's better to marry a foreign woman or to completely avoid it. We shouldn't have to take a "hit" after working hard our whole lives because women need to "find" themeselves. They can get a job and "find" themeselves with their own money.

with a bump stock

This is worse than AI slop; this is AI faggotry.

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I am the wife who left in the throws of menopause. Result? I am happier now than I have ever been. I met an incredible man, remarried, and life is great for not only us but our blended family also.

My days of tolerating, justifying, overlooking, or excusing the disrespect, dismissive attitudes, and at times mental and emotional abuse are DONE.

Wish I left long before I did. Staying for the children was the worst thing I ever did for me and the children.

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that's a lot of "I"s in there. We were not put on earth to serve self. We were put here to serve God Almighty. You chose the wrong path whether you understand or not.

My assessment is that whoever wrote this is one bitter, cold bitch that will lose their partner if they haven't lost them already. Marriage takes work and patience. It takes recognition that your partner is working their arse off just like you are, even if they are focused on different things. Just because you don't see it actively in front of you at all times doesn't mean it isn't happening. It takes trust that the friends texting your wife or husband won't end up in bed with them - not because those urges would never exist, but because your spouse would never do that to their family and that nobody else would know your partner like you do. It takes recognition that we all have shortcomings, internal demons, and those very normal biological urges that have to be controlled.

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Many marriages don’t survive menopause because the woman finally runs out of hormones that were compensating for a man who never learned how to regulate.

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And no, it’s not because they “lost their minds”

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So whatever you want to call it.....it results in a shift in sexual preferences and a sudden lack of patience for other people, including their partners. In this period the woman changes so completely that she is now incapable of making a marriage work?

This is not the fault of the men in their lives. Both partners have committed to a relationship. Both are expected to remain committed. Period.

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It’s biology.

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So we are going to ignore behavior and urges for men that are driven by thousands of years of evolution and biology? Because they are asked to ignore that to make marriages work. It's fair to expect that a women do the same when she goes through menopause.

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The men who survive this chapter don’t get louder.

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WOW...so it's entirely up to the men to make the marriage "survive"?

Suggest that someone going through any major change (menopause or anything else) consult a doctor and remain committed to their partner. Neither men nor women should throw things away because of hormones. Recognize the reality and address it together.

This whole thread made me extremely grateful for my wife. We share our life with each other and fully trust each other. We work very hard to make everything work. If she found herself having these kinds of radical opinions posted in the OP; she'd recognize it and work on it. I owe it to her to recognize the challenges faced by men and work on those too.