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re: BOTOT - Do you actually enjoy being around women you don't want to sleep with?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:00 am to GeauxxxTigers23
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:00 am to GeauxxxTigers23
In that case few of my relationships have been platonic
Although I don't see how you can't keep it platonic if you know what I mean

Although I don't see how you can't keep it platonic if you know what I mean
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:02 am to Jimbeaux
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I was comparing myself to all the posters in This thread who claim no ability or see no value in friendships with unattractive women..
What do you have in common with these friends that would make you want to hang out?
Most men and women do not share the same hobbies and interests. You would and have gone out with a group of unattractive women just because y'all are friends? No alterior motives such as maybe they have some hot friends?
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:04 am to jimbeam
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Although I don't see how you can't keep it platonic if you know what I mean
I know exactly what you mean. That's why, as a married man, I don't allow myself to be friends with women. Sure, I'm friendly with lots of women. Don't go out of my way to avoid them, but I don't go out of my way to see them or hang out either. Even with mom's of kids on my son's baseball team or my kids friends, many of whom I've known longer than my wife has and that's how our kids met, I always give them my wife's # to set up play dates or make plans and shite like that.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:04 am to I Love Bama
Not really. If I enjoy hanging out with her, at some level in my mind I'm trying to get in them drawers.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:05 am to I Love Bama
I can't say I have any friends that are girls besides my gf. Sure I have friends from high school and college that are girls, but it's not like we talk on the phone or hangout exclusively, only in groups.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:08 am to GeauxxxTigers23
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I know exactly what you mean. That's why, as a married man, I don't allow myself to be friends with women. Sure, I'm friendly with lots of women. Don't go out of my way to avoid them, but I don't go out of my way to see them or hang out either. Even with mom's of kids on my son's baseball team or my kids friends, many of whom I've known longer than my wife has and that's how our kids met, I always give them my wife's # to set up play dates or make plans and shite like that.
^
^ all of that shite up there, I agree with it.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:10 am to jimbeam
I think this is related to age more than anything. I had friends that were girls in hs and college, but much fewer now. I couldn't imagine a married guy having much use for one. They're more of a conduit to hooking up with their friends or eventually them, if you don't get FZed.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:12 am to Chris Farley
Yea I'm still in college so...
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:28 am to jimbeam
Yes. I have a few female friends that I'm not sexually attracted to but that I enjoy hanging out with. But they mostly act and talk like men, so that's probably the key. The stereotypical female personality is a real drag - too much drama and dwelling on inconsequential nonsense.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:37 am to Pax Regis
Y'all must be around a lot of shitty women if you can't be friends with any of them.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:41 am to Draconian Sanctions
I know plenty who I enjoy hanging out with. I still think it's because somewhere deep down I want to sleep with them.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:43 am to DownshiftAndFloorIt
I kind of feel sorry for some of you who can't be friends with someone who happens to be a woman. Like I said before you either are only exposed to shitty women or you're just extremely immature.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:43 am to tketaco
I'm friendly with all my female coworkers and the wives of all my buddies. I wouldn't hang out with them alone thou, a lot of them are very attractive and I'd be lying if I said i've never thought about banging them 

Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:47 am to I Love Bama
I honestly don't like hanging around women. Sure, I have met a handful that are pretty cool to be around, but I would never hangout with them just to do it, because even though I wasn't pursuing it, to some extent I would always want to sleep with them. There is just no way to change that.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:50 am to I Love Bama
quote:Are you really asking for the Betas OTOT to share their feelings.
re: BOTOT - Do you actually enjoy being around women you don't want to sleep with?

Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:51 am to Draconian Sanctions
You have some female friends that you do things exclusively with that are unattractive? I am not talking about coworkers. I am talking about outside of work on your own time just getting together without any other people around.
Posted on 6/28/14 at 9:52 am to Topwater Trout
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You have some female friends that you do things exclusively with that are unattractive? I am not talking about coworkers. I am talking about outside of work on your own time just getting together without any other people around.
sure, why not? I don't believe in treating people as a means to some other end.
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