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re: Best way to combat heartbreak
Posted on 5/8/20 at 1:32 am to fr33manator
Posted on 5/8/20 at 1:32 am to fr33manator
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Posted on 5/8/20 at 1:37 am to fr33manator
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fr33manator
Great post. Thank you
Posted on 5/8/20 at 1:41 am to VolsOut4Harambe
1. Get OFF of Facebook, Instagram, Twitter for a while, especially if you use this shite to see what she’s up to.
2. Get ON tinder. A recently divorced friend of mine slays left and right on there and has chicks wanting him to go over even during the quarantine. He’s in his 40’s, fat, and balding. He’s damn near George Constanza. He’s got some decent chicks on a string now. They send him nudes. They suck dick when they’re on their period. He even fricked one in a cemetery because it was her fantasy. You are in the greatest era ever to be single.
3. Find a hobby
2. Get ON tinder. A recently divorced friend of mine slays left and right on there and has chicks wanting him to go over even during the quarantine. He’s in his 40’s, fat, and balding. He’s damn near George Constanza. He’s got some decent chicks on a string now. They send him nudes. They suck dick when they’re on their period. He even fricked one in a cemetery because it was her fantasy. You are in the greatest era ever to be single.
3. Find a hobby
Posted on 5/8/20 at 1:43 am to elcid
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All women are counts and wil cheat on you - and frick the naysers, your wife/GF will split her legs wide open for just about anyone who shows her attention - even if you are giving her attention and treating her like a queen.
I’ve been in that stage too. It’s bitter and angry and resentful. But it’s poison. Because it isn’t the whole truth.
People are human. We all have wants and needs, and entropy is unbeaten, things change. People change. Relationships change.
You can’t control people. The only thing you can control is YOU.
This poem has gotten me through some hard times when I had to chin up.
Stop trying to master others and learn to master yourself. And once you have your self in order you’ll find people are drawn to that. Don’t count on anything, or at least staying in the state it is, because, sure as the sun will rise, things change.
And you can accept it, adapt, or move on. It’s not that “all women are cünts and will cheat”
It’s that circumstances change and some people can’t adapt to that, and eventually they go looking somewhere else instead of trying to fix what isn’t working or leaving it behind.
Sure, some people are just unfaithful. But it’s your job to learn the signs and suss it out. And to not put all your eggs in a basket you don’t think will hold.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 1:55 am to VolsOut4Harambe
shite Baw, it ain’t nothing but a thing. My boots have been in shite neck deep. Any lessons I learned I paid for dearly. And as dark a hole as I’ve climbed out of, this baby ain’t nothing but a puddle even if it feels like a whirlpool.
The key is to not give up. Don’t listen to the dark and twisties that will try to drag you down. They ain’t shite. Just keep repeating I will survive
Because you will. And you’ll find joy and happiness and fulfillment. The darkness is like fog, it won’t last forever if you keep on trucking.
Because I didn’t listen to the dark and twisties, I’ve gotten to experience wonderful things.
Watching my children grow.
Making new friends.
Finding love again.
Hell, I got to watch LSU win the whole damn thing in the best season ever.
Might not ever top that last one, but it gets better. Trust me. Just hang in there
The key is to not give up. Don’t listen to the dark and twisties that will try to drag you down. They ain’t shite. Just keep repeating I will survive
Because you will. And you’ll find joy and happiness and fulfillment. The darkness is like fog, it won’t last forever if you keep on trucking.
Because I didn’t listen to the dark and twisties, I’ve gotten to experience wonderful things.
Watching my children grow.
Making new friends.
Finding love again.
Hell, I got to watch LSU win the whole damn thing in the best season ever.
Might not ever top that last one, but it gets better. Trust me. Just hang in there
Posted on 5/8/20 at 2:18 am to elcid
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even if you are giving her attention and treating her like a queen.
When I was younger I was always chasing women. Trying to figure out what made a girl happy.
Eventually, I stopped. And that’s when women started pursuing me. It was strange at first.
I’m not suggesting that anyone should be cruel, or that you should try and manipulate the women in your life. But do less, and just focus on being a good version of yourself.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 2:36 am to Lima Whiskey
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When I was younger I was always chasing women. Trying to figure out what made a girl happy.
I tell these younger guys, when you pursue a woman it’s like a scared deer. They run away.
Stop chasing and start being the energy in the room that EVERYONE is drawn to. Because you are fun and confident and happy go lucky and aren’t chasing anything. Do that, and when she sees the crowd around you, she’ll come to you. Women desire men that other women want.
This post was edited on 5/8/20 at 2:38 am
Posted on 5/8/20 at 2:44 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Well I ain’t reading the previous 6 pages of advice, so maybe the answer is in there.
But the world changed for my sorry-arse heartbroken self the minute her roommate came on to me.
But the world changed for my sorry-arse heartbroken self the minute her roommate came on to me.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 2:44 am to fr33manator
A friend tried to teach me that lesson in college.
We were at bars, and there were these two blonde grad students in sundresses. They had just come up from South Carolina. They were enrolling in the architecture school in the fall.
They were something else, and pretty much every man in bar made a pass at them.
I was no different, I walked over to their booth and we started talking, but I wasn’t there for more than two minutes before a friend came over, insisting there was just something I had to see.
I wasn’t exactly lightning the world on fire, and he had noticed.
He bought me a beer, and sat me back down in our booth.
The night progressed, we traded stories, the bar filled up, till it passed standing room. You couldn’t squeeze through the crowd if you tried.
That’s when someone tapped me on the shoulder.
I turned my head, it was her.
She had crawled over eight booths to come and find me.
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My brother gave me an art print for my 21st birthday. It’s a wood block print of a nearly naked girl, on a stage, with a menacing wolf behind her.
It was somewhat unusual.
He got around to explaining it a few months later. A friend of his, a girl, had made it. It was part of a series she was doing, and it was actually about dating, from a girls perspective.
The wolf, that was the guy she wanted to date.
She, she was the vulnerable girl on the stage, looking over her shoulder with fear.
As you said, like a scared deer.
We were at bars, and there were these two blonde grad students in sundresses. They had just come up from South Carolina. They were enrolling in the architecture school in the fall.
They were something else, and pretty much every man in bar made a pass at them.
I was no different, I walked over to their booth and we started talking, but I wasn’t there for more than two minutes before a friend came over, insisting there was just something I had to see.
I wasn’t exactly lightning the world on fire, and he had noticed.
He bought me a beer, and sat me back down in our booth.
The night progressed, we traded stories, the bar filled up, till it passed standing room. You couldn’t squeeze through the crowd if you tried.
That’s when someone tapped me on the shoulder.
I turned my head, it was her.
She had crawled over eight booths to come and find me.
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My brother gave me an art print for my 21st birthday. It’s a wood block print of a nearly naked girl, on a stage, with a menacing wolf behind her.
It was somewhat unusual.
He got around to explaining it a few months later. A friend of his, a girl, had made it. It was part of a series she was doing, and it was actually about dating, from a girls perspective.
The wolf, that was the guy she wanted to date.
She, she was the vulnerable girl on the stage, looking over her shoulder with fear.
As you said, like a scared deer.
This post was edited on 5/8/20 at 3:05 am
Posted on 5/8/20 at 3:05 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 5/8/20 at 3:48 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Get a really cute and irresistible pup like a Pomeranian. Take it to the park and everywhere as much as possible. An incredible number of people and especially females will want to coo over the pup and a lot of them will want to talk . It will take your mind off your misery and you will have a loyal pup friend.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 4:20 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Does she have a sister or friend that is somewhat attractive?
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:22 am to Lima Whiskey
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When I was younger I was always chasing women. Trying to figure out what made a girl happy.
I think this was the issue. I did too much to try to make her happy. I can’t help it; I’m just that caring of a guy.
The scared deer analogy is a great one. Once they feel like they’ve fully got you on the chase, they lose interest. This is probably what happened here.
I’m pretty crushed right now and I’m gonna enjoy my pizza and Netflix for this weekend at least, but I’ll come out of this better.
Gonna use the rest of quarantine to run and get into better shape. Since gyms are still closed here I’m just gonna do push-ups and sit ups every morning to build some tone. With better body shape comes better confidence.
Glad to know that I am not alone in this feeling. It’s truly the worst in the world.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:23 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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Just got dumped by a girl I really liked
get a new one.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:24 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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Best way to combat heartbreak
Get balls deep into Peej's trailer trash daughter. Double bag it. I hear she loves onion rings and TV.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:44 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Go find a slut and rail it.
Alcohol and drugs help too
Alcohol and drugs help too
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:49 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Getting dumped is a bad time, getting dumped during the quarantine is even worse because your chances of rebound drops........However, them pornhub premiums i think may still be free, so get to it
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:51 am to elcid
VolsOut4Harambe, think of it as one of life's great experiences. Painful, but now's the time to learn and grow. You've probably been saved and do not realize it yet. If you sit there and wallow, feel sorry for yourself, it will keep you angry and bitter and it will only make you a worse person and posts something like this:
All women are countz and will cheat on you - and frick the naysers, your wife/GF will split her legs wide open for just about anyone who shows her attention - even if you are giving her attention and treating her like a queen. If you can find a horny bitch who loves the secks and like for you to PIIHB, then keep her but do not marry her. Your welcome.
All women are countz and will cheat on you - and frick the naysers, your wife/GF will split her legs wide open for just about anyone who shows her attention - even if you are giving her attention and treating her like a queen. If you can find a horny bitch who loves the secks and like for you to PIIHB, then keep her but do not marry her. Your welcome.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:52 am to VolsOut4Harambe
From my father: "If you knew she would want to dump you, would you actually want to make a life with her and find out after you were married and had kids"
It didn't click right away from me, but soon enough it did, and I began thinking I dodged a bullet.
Posted on 5/8/20 at 8:55 am to PrimetimeDaBoss
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Hookers. Blow.
/endthread
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