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re: As a Dad, do you feel like your actually raising your kid?

Posted on 10/6/17 at 10:52 pm to
Posted by LoveThatMoney
Who knows where?
Member since Jan 2008
12787 posts
Posted on 10/6/17 at 10:52 pm to
I have twins. I have to raise my kids. My wife can't do it alone
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 10/6/17 at 11:19 pm to
I thank god for my father. Best man and best friend I know. Dads don't get enough praise these days. I don't have kids yet, but I know that I've had a great role model to fatherhood with my dad.
Posted by GetBackToWork
Member since Dec 2007
6607 posts
Posted on 10/6/17 at 11:25 pm to
No lie, I worry they'll do well in school, move far away, create lives elsewhere, and we won't see each all together except the odd holiday. Wish the best for them and would never stand in the way, but damn if I don't enjoy them being around all the time.
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59352 posts
Posted on 10/6/17 at 11:29 pm to
I don’t have kids but something I heard that always stuck with me

If you are worried That you are doing enough for your kid, then you are doing enough for your kid
This post was edited on 10/7/17 at 12:45 am
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
6165 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 12:17 am to
I raised my son to know the difference between your and you're.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5494 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 12:30 am to
quote:

my 22 month old said “oh shite” the other day


My little one's get a mulligan for a day or two after an embarrassing LSU loss. I try real hard to watch my mouth, but...it was TROY for god's sake.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5494 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 12:41 am to
I have 4; 17,13,4, and 2. I consider myself real lucky, in that, just as my two older ones were becoming older and more self sufficient, I had two younger ones to stem off the remorse of seeing my older two getting older.

I firmly believe I'm actually raising my children. Even my older two that live 40 miles away.(divorced) I'm at most volleyball games, baseball games, softball games, ballet, gymnastics, school functions, etc. I take them fishing and hunting, teach them life lessons, bust their arse when they do bad and praise them when they do good. My oldest is graduating this year, and, hands down, he's 10 x's the person I was at his age and his 13 y.o. sister is following that path as well.

Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39572 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 12:43 am to
No, because we talk about things silly and instructive every day or moreso, but I can see someone feeling that way.
Posted by ugastreaker
South Ga
Member since Jun 2015
4664 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 12:52 am to
My girlfriend swears I'm ruining her son. He's 5 and calls me dad and would swears I'm super man. His sperm donor is a POS and has no interest in him. Pretty sure between the burping/ farting to hey mom watch this.... he is being raised by me. He may not be a doctor but he understands respect, everyone is yes/no ma'am/sir, thank you, and is understanding nothing is free. He's a damn good kid and is gonna make a damn good man.
This post was edited on 10/7/17 at 12:53 am
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20261 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 12:56 am to
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my 22 month old


You mean your two year old?
Posted by Cajun367
S. Louisiana
Member since Oct 2017
1943 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 4:13 am to
A 2 year old is 24 months. I get what you're saying, but if you found the time to make a post about it, I felt the need to be sarcastic too. Try not to be THAT GUY in the future, mkay?
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3414 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 5:20 am to
quote:

No lie, I worry they'll do well in school, move far away, create lives elsewhere, and we won't see each all together except the odd holiday.


Well damn. Now I feel like an a-hole
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3414 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 5:20 am to
quote:

No lie, I worry they'll do well in school, move far away, create lives elsewhere, and we won't see each all together except the odd holiday.


Well damn. Now I feel like an a-hole
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 5:57 am to
quote:

I have to raise my kids.




Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 5:57 am to
It's great sharing in their dreams. Makes me happy to know that my boy feels confident enough to dream big. Will he ever be a world class athlete driving a McLaren like he dreams...probably not...but being wide eyed and happy can't hurt.

I love hearing him go through the "one second left...down by two.." or "Dybala gets the ball..." I took him out to the high school stadium last weekend LINK and I'll always cherish being with him in moments like that.

I took him to the game yesterday and he didn't even want me to drive into the parking lot...let me off here. 11, and already too cool for me.
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 6:05 am to
Men don't raise kids, women do. A man's job is to provide the necessary needs to do so.
Posted by TurkeysAndBees
Member since Jan 2017
651 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 6:35 am to
As a Dad, I don't feel like doing anything else but raising my four kids.

We have weekly/daily projects,
We get building plans and they learn to use hand tools and power tools on a weekly basis,
We play baseball, archery, ride bicycles, swim, hike, ping pong, pool, at least one on a daily basis.
We cook, learn to use various kitchen utensils, etc.
We read books, tell stories, play campfire type guessing games at night.
We shoot BB guns, slingshots, and sometimes the .22's.
We travel, take vacations, go to sporting events.
We study together, review homework, and all cross check and help the next youngest.
We watch movies, play musical instruments, experiment with art work and hand crafts
We go shopping, attend church, and do yardwork.
We take nets, jars, binoculars etc. to the lakes, canals, woods and catch frogs, lizards, bugs.
We use microscopes, make slides, and use chemistry sets.
We built a slot car track w/130' of track and race cars. Have an electric train set up we run. Build models.
We collect rocks, old coins, and each has a "collection" display of old memorabilia, trophies, medals, misc. curio, fossils, shells, and souvenirs from trips, etc.
We start savings accounts, learn to invest and prepare for the future.

Yes, I feel like I'm actually raising my kids.
This post was edited on 10/7/17 at 6:36 am
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 7:05 am to
Did you ever figure out what was wrong with you? You were sick a few days ago.
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 7:07 am to
To be honest, I feel very involved with my two girls (3 & 1 yr old, so no pics)
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
27561 posts
Posted on 10/7/17 at 7:09 am to
My 8ur old asks me everything about life. He doesn't like learning things from other sources, just school or his parents.

Sounds like you need to be more involved with teaching your kids about the world around them.
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