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re: Are you able to freely speak at family gatherings?

Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:32 pm to
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52493 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:32 pm to
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Are you able to freely speak at family gatherings?
after raising my hand and being acknowledged
Posted by lowhound
Effie
Member since Aug 2014
9502 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:33 pm to
We don't talk politics at holiday family functions or we wouldn't get to gather together at all. I throw shade throughout the year, but we all put up a white flag, so that we can at least come together the few days of the year that we're able to.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
72729 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:34 pm to
For the most part, yes. But there are a few family members I refuse to engage with when they try to drag me into political conversations. I already know where they stand based on their facebook feed, and there’s zero value in whatever argument would follow. I’d prefer to talk weather, kids, sports, vacations, etc
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17231 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:35 pm to
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people for their behavior. My family is generally accepting with a few “wow can’t believe he said that” but we all know they agree… however my family is relatively homogenous so our opinions don’t vary much. How about baws with diverse families? (social/economic/ etc.)


I broke up extended family Christmas about 3 years ago. I told my father either we start doing our own thing or I’ll abstain from going to my aunts house or whosever turn it is. Various reasons but the main one is I don’t agree with their behavior and lifestyle so I don’t want my kids around them. Family or not.

Posted by Solo Cam
Member since Sep 2015
34634 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:40 pm to
I have a couple of liberal family members but I say whatever tf I want. I honestly don't have a lot for them but if they start talking shite I pipe up or shut it down. I think it's important for the kids to see that some of those insane opinions aren't playcated
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
12869 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:51 pm to
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I don’t agree with their behavior and lifestyle so I don’t want my kids around them.


Yeah, the Woodlands crew I referred to caused my kids (sub 10 at the time) to have to ask my why it's OK for boys to wear girls' swimsuits after a weekend up there. They had gone to the local pool and saw a 6 or 7 year old kid with a penis was getting changed into a girl's swimsuit, and their auntie explained to them in the typical liberal fashion that normalized tranny behavior.

My response to any question that her daughter would ask when staying with us that was borderline was, "you'll need to ask your mom when we take you home on Sunday." While I really wanted to give her the proper answer, I also knew that it wasn't my job to parent her kid. That courtesy was never returned.
Posted by bad93ex
Walnut Cove
Member since Sep 2018
33638 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 2:56 pm to
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Are you able to freely speak at family gatherings?



The juice ain't worth the squeeze, just smile and wave.

Just glad that we have rented a hall this year for Xmas since space is very limited and everyone has to bring their dog for whatever reason.
This post was edited on 9/15/25 at 3:00 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
12869 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 3:01 pm to
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bring their dog for whatever reason.


These fricking people.
Posted by pbro62
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
15165 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 3:02 pm to
Does your family continue to shove your gayness in your face?
Posted by StrikeIndicator
inside the capital city loop.
Member since May 2019
921 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 3:10 pm to
Hahaha, I can but so can everyone else. Rather talk about kids and sports. Parents getting old.
Posted by bad93ex
Walnut Cove
Member since Sep 2018
33638 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 3:10 pm to
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bring their dog for whatever reason.


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These fricking people.



EVERY.frickING.TIME.

Always happens when I am wearing something lightly-colored that the dog will jump up on me with its dirty paws to which they reply "teehee, he's just being friendly"
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
69371 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 3:51 pm to
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generally stay out of political/religious discussions in general, whether family or public.


I pick the opposite stance of anything anyone says no matter how ridiculous and argue it fervently just for fun. My family loves me.
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
Member since Jun 2013
21996 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:24 pm to
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
68742 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:30 pm to
Yes, of course. At least until one of my wife's special relatives goes full lefty and she gives me the "please just leave it" eyes. I usually stop at that point, unless the booze had been flowing.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
293101 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:34 pm to
I went to decades of family gatherings from my moms side, my dads side, my ex wifes side...

We never had an issue talking. No politics were ever discussed. Never were any disagreements or fights.

It was always fun and anxiety free because 30+ years ago most of us knew how to act in public without causing a scene.
This post was edited on 9/15/25 at 5:35 pm
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
70217 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:40 pm to
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Are you able to freely speak at family gatherings?


Yes. We just have to voice the request, "Permission to speak freely, sir?" before doing so.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27106 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:43 pm to
My sister hosted Thanksgiving last year but stated her husband didn’t want any Trump talk.

Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
29920 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:43 pm to
Both our families are from the gentile South. Outside the blessing of the meal, our family get-togethers are no politics and no religion zones. It is about love and caring for family, and everyone should feel comfortable and included. It is incumbent on a family member bringing someone into the fold to make sure they understand this from the start. If you don't show up you might get some folks speaking your name in a sentence with "bless their heart" included.
Posted by RazorBroncs
Possesses the largest
Member since Sep 2013
15748 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:47 pm to
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I’m pretty conservative, but my dad is so conservative that we don’t bring up politics at family gatherings
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Unless of course we all are just dying to see what new borderline or outright offensive tshirts he’s screen printed recently.



You have my attention

Your dad sounds cool as shite. Gotta love someone that doesn't give a single shite what anyone else thinks about them. Screen printing his own shirts is like Dad Level: 10

My dad just wears old solid white New Balances and talks about the food he's eaten lately

ETA - he's also worn the exact same Snake Eyes Golf hat to every family gathering for the last 20 years. It started out solid white but is now a mix of brown, beige, and white. I'm pretty sure it's the only hat he owns
This post was edited on 9/15/25 at 5:52 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
12869 posts
Posted on 9/15/25 at 5:51 pm to
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’m pretty conservative, but my dad is so conservative that we don’t bring up politics at family gatherings

My ex in laws are also very conservative, but goddamnit I don't want to listen to a Latina version of Rush Limbaugh every meatloaf Monday they came over.
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