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re: Are there really no marriageable men in New Orleans?

Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:06 am to
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
19122 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:06 am to
Women who say this kind of shite aren’t marriage material. I’m sure this has already been said, though.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
29453 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:23 am to
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far from emotional or crazy.

I keep telling her she's damn near a unicorn



Unicorns aren't real.

She either has a dick or she's a fricking head case.

Been there. Done that. Bought the t-shirt that the crazy bitch shredded into t-shirt confetti.
Posted by Kaybaby82
Member since Jun 2019
625 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:26 am to
I guarantee these 3 brothers have a micro penis. I know of 3 brothers in their 30s and 40s that could slay pussy with their clothes on but when the pants come off it’s smaller than a thumb. Guess what? All are single and never been married and make excuses like they’re happy. I woman doesn’t want to be married to that forever.
This post was edited on 1/21/20 at 7:27 am
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
288206 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:34 am to
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My friend is only single because she's just a bit shy and doesn't really put herself out there, which is surprising she's still single because she's cute, never been married, no kids, educated, has a good job, owns a home, has a great family, has tons of friends, she's athletic and also loves watching sports, cool as hell and far from emotional or crazy.


She’s a closet lesbian
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
58890 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:35 am to
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Well then introduce her to me and she won’t be single much longer. The only reason I am single is because I neglected my ex-wife while I was working 14 hr shifts in a plant and during law school until she started getting her emotional support from someone else.
You should lead with this
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
7883 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:37 am to
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One of them went to Dallas on a girls trip and came back overwhelmed with the number of single men she encountered


So a group of women, dressed up I’m sure, partying and whatever were able to attract a lot of attention? Sounds like your coworker hangs out with attractive friends or she cleans up really well.
Posted by G2160
houston
Member since May 2013
2061 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 7:53 am to
These women want men that are out of their league.

The list of nice guys that might be an inch too short, don’t live in the right neighborhood, aren’t built like an athlete, or don’t make quite enough money who would walk over broken glass to support them is a mile long.

Everything else is an excuse. Simple as that.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:18 am to
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So what’s going on here? Is this real?


Sort of.

One of a woman’s main criteria is finding a guy that is her equal or better in terms of educational, economic and social status. Women’s levels of attainment in those regards have been increasing for a while now while men’s have stayed roughly the same.

What that means is that the average woman’s pool of “marriageable” men is shrinking because it’s size is dependent on her own levels of attainment. A female investment banker isn’t marrying ol baw who works at Lowe’s. Switch the sexes and this isn’t necessarily a problem.

TL;DR version: No clue about these two women or NOLA specifically, but yes, on average it’s getting a little harder for women to find men based on existing social norms.
This post was edited on 1/21/20 at 8:23 am
Posted by Bullseyeblitz
Madisonville
Member since Jul 2019
57 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:20 am to
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
100494 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:21 am to
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But real talk, when I’m Dallas they went outside their element. In New Orleans they likely stayed in their same circles. Same circles = same people = typically what people associate with all people in a city.




Yah NO is very cliquey
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40197 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:24 am to
What makes her think the Dallas baws hitting on her aren't Peter Pans either?

But... this lady might not be too far off. Think of who NOLA attracts.

1) Guys who want to party for a few years after college

2) Gays because we are the most gay-friendly city in the south

3) Neckbeards and hipsters from up north who want to save us from ourselves

4) Locals who marry their high school sweetheart.

I would imagine the population of single guys who immediately want to settle down and have babies, is pretty low.
Posted by OutDamSpot
Member since May 2019
336 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:34 am to
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I guarantee these 3 brothers have a micro penis. I know of 3 brothers in their 30s and 40s that could slay pussy with their clothes on but when the pants come off it’s smaller than a thumb. Guess what? All are single and never been married and make excuses like they’re happy. I woman doesn’t want to be married to that forever.


You are wrong in many of your assumptions. They are not brothers. Micropenis is diagnosed at birth because it is obvious. I have changed their diapers and and such so i know it is not the issue.

They went thru their teenage years and had their fun with girls. They have had relationships with women. Sex is not an all consuming priority with them.

Too many men do the stupidest shite in the pursuit of sex. They destroy their lives and others by cheating or chasing the wrong kind of women just to satisfy their momentary urges. Women may try to trap them with unwanted kids because they are too stupid to wear condoms. Some women will use sex to get a guys money.

There is nothing wrong with a man who decides not to let his dick or his sex drive run his life. There is also nothing wrong with guys who refuse to put pussy on a pedestal. Some people just have different priorities in life.

Posted by sacrathetic
Member since May 2019
618 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 8:56 am to
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Posted by Boring
Member since Feb 2019
3792 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:33 am to














Posted by Kujo
225-911-5736
Member since Dec 2015
6044 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:47 am to
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Unemployed or underemployed (i.e., poor).


How are they meeting these guys? Unemployed guys hit on them in public places, or the type of guys profile's they are attracted to tend to be unemployed?

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2. Peter Pan (don’t want to grow up, don’t want to commit, just want to party and get laid).



These are guys that could do better than you, so they will just use you for convenience. If you were hotter/better than what they feel they can pull, you get commitment.

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Gay or weirdly non-binary


mind dead guys who try to cater to what they think women want. i.e. women love gays guys.
Fad lifestyles. They aren't real people, they are only trend personifiers/caricatures of something they saw someone else do.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
37890 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 9:50 am to
There is truth to this. Men with sense recognize which women are for relationships and which are for sex
Posted by Boring
Member since Feb 2019
3792 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 10:03 am to
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Men with sense recognize which women are for relationships and which are for sex


Never thought about that before, but you're right. A lot of desperate guys go around painting red flags green, but guys with options know how to make a distinction.

Women frick who they want, men frick who they can. But men marry who they want, women marry who they can.
Posted by abitabrewed4LSU
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2009
1078 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 10:10 am to
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Tell her to move to Denver, aka Menver


This is not true at all. Plenty hot, fit girls here already.
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
37890 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 10:27 am to
Good way to put it. I am 37 single, never married, and no kids. I am reasonably attractive, six figure a year job with more ahead of me, nice house and car, vacation property, and travel for fun a good bit. Single mothers in Houma are like shooting fish in a barrel
Posted by HT713
Galations 4:16
Member since Jan 2011
10028 posts
Posted on 1/21/20 at 10:46 am to
I'm not from nola but I've lived here a few years now, and it seems like most of the people down here just love to complain about this place.

fat? single? sexually confused? broke? miserable? lonely? yeah it's all somehow a byproduct of the city and in no way something any person could be considered personally responsible for

if these chicks think they can do better in DTown then more power to em'. traffic has been shitty lately anywasy
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