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re: Anybody have trouble with family members not staying away?

Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:44 pm to
Posted by Soup Sammich
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:44 pm to
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I thought this was a story of a good-natured grandfather who is too easy going and wearing on your nerves But maybe your dad just sucks and you should tell him to frick off?


I wish it was. I try to have a good relationship with him but it’s impossible for me to tolerate him more than an hour or 2 a week. He is usually gone for most of the year with my mother traveling. But now they are home and he can’t act right.
I am shocked he hasn’t caught the virus with his habits, age and traveling. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was patient 0 but asymptomatic.
But the man refuses to respect people’s boundaries. Driving me crazy. I’ve tried the nice thing. Didn’t work.
Posted by Soup Sammich
Member since Aug 2015
3301 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:46 pm to
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Did you win?


No. I explained earlier this week in another thread about those circumstances. Not something I’m proud of.
This post was edited on 4/15/20 at 1:48 pm
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
11229 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:47 pm to
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No. I explained earlier this week those circumstances. Not something I’m proud of.


That brings back some old memories. There used to be some wild fights on the short bus
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
19084 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:49 pm to
No problem before, no problem now.
Posted by Soup Sammich
Member since Aug 2015
3301 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:50 pm to
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You're a total POS for even saying this, true or not. If I would've seen this happen, you would've been spittin chiclets.


No you wouldn’t. In fact, if you were a nice kid at the time, you would’ve probably jumped in to help me.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
141254 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:51 pm to
My FIL is living with us and he's afraid to even go outside most days, but still decides in the middle of the day to go outside.
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:52 pm to
But what if she was being SUUUUPER uppity?
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
61883 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:54 pm to
If nothing else, it’s a lack of respect for you and your family as well as your wishes, and that in and of itself is what’s intolerable, not to mention it puts all of you as risk.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
22573 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:54 pm to
Daddy issues
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76784 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:55 pm to
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Think it's time to pay the piper. Beat your nasty fathers arse.



Posted by SSpaniel
Germantown
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:57 pm to
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Soup Sammich
Posted by Soup Sammich
Member since Aug 2015
3301 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 1:59 pm to
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But what if she was being SUUUUPER uppity?


Me and my family are super close to a girl with Downs’ Syndrome. My kids call her Aunt. Before this corona thing, we saw her at a minimum of once a week. Either here or at her parents house.

But this girl when I was a kid was not your typical case. My favorite documentary is Up Syndrome. If she had a documentary, it would be called Mean or Evil Syndrome.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
22348 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 2:28 pm to
My family loves each other so we don't have that problem. We know it is better for everyone to still see each other face-to-face regularly.

Mental health is a bigger issue than COVID.
Posted by YeahYeah
Member since Jun 2016
2248 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 2:36 pm to
You catch a beatdown from a girl with downs but yet you think you can take the old man? Tread lightly soy-boy.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83171 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 2:40 pm to
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Which is odd because before all this they would never venture over to where we live. Always wanted us to come there for dinner. Since then they have been by 3 times, two of those unannounced.


The retired old people are going absolutely insane not being able to run a bunch of pointless errands.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41925 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 2:50 pm to
My mom floats between melting about people not practicing social distancing at the grocery store or people making unnecessary trips to wherever and showing up randomly at my house to chat and getting pissy when I decline to come over for dinner 3 times a week.

It's classic.
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
27565 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 2:53 pm to
Stop watching so much news media. You’ll be fine.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56592 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 3:17 pm to
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My family loves each other so we don't have that problem.



My (grown) kids are awesome. They realize I have asthma and would not want to risk coming over. Some of our friends whine constantly because they are used to dropping by our house. They are mad because I say no and they are married to people who work in healthcare with positive patients in the facility. But don't understand why I don't want them on my patio while the SO is at work.....
This post was edited on 4/15/20 at 3:18 pm
Posted by gthog61
Irving, TX
Member since Nov 2009
71001 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 3:19 pm to
Is this some kind of troll?

You sound entirely too concerned.
Posted by Soup Sammich
Member since Aug 2015
3301 posts
Posted on 4/15/20 at 3:48 pm to
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Is this some kind of troll? You sound entirely too concerned.


It’s more about boundaries. The one person that is the most unhygienic, was in Asia in March and takes the least amount of precautions should be the one person exempt from my own personal boundaries for my family? Not only was he in Asia but he initially lied to us saying they were only going to Europe. My mom refuses to tell a lie so that didn’t work out for him. Not sure why he would lie because they constantly post on FB while traveling. They had hell flying home.

I love my dad but he is very similar to the small weasel politician type bad guy you see on movies. Reminds me of the bad guy on Billy Madison.
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