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Any of you fellas on the dating sites

Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:41 am
Posted by RoosterCogburn585
Member since Aug 2011
1532 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:41 am
Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166138 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:41 am to
nobody wants the too available uglies.
Posted by makinskrilla
Lafayette, LA
Member since Jun 2009
9727 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:42 am to
Find a woman who knows how dating sites work and have her coach you. There is a learning curve
Posted by GuidoVestieri
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2021
733 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:42 am to
When you get that it's usually some ones wife. Don't be Jody
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
13851 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:43 am to

Those sites are loaded with women with no desire to date. They only want the attention and self-esteem boost.
Posted by WonPercent
BATON ROUGE
Member since Aug 2023
420 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:43 am to
Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack.

Happy hunting.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
14397 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:44 am to
According to the dating sites' own reports, women swipe left on 95% of the men.
Posted by Lawyered
The Sip
Member since Oct 2016
29247 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:44 am to
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Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?


Sad to admit I’ve been on them a long time and aside from hookups, never really found anything sustainable mainly bc I’m pretty picky

And here recently I’ve started dating a doctor from one. She’s very picky as well. She’s great and I’m mesmerized at how smart she is. She’s busy through the day saving lives and doing important shite and texts me when she can .

Was getting ready to give up on them but it only takes one. I really like where this is headed with this one .

This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164077 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am to
Bumble was the only one worth a shite. Seemed like classier broads on there. Girls have to talk first, making them feel in control and safer, thus vulnerable

This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:50 am
Posted by sqerty
AP
Member since May 2022
4875 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am to
I would but I like lying to women in person.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13887 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:45 am to
Years ago it was awesome

Now it's devolved into getting likes to boost esteem with no intention of meeting.

You gotta love the 5'3" fatty with 2 kids saying "If you voted for Trump, swipe right immediately"
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
77947 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:46 am to
quote:

Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack.

tried it once upon a time in 2010 when i was divorced and looking to get back into dating scene.

got turned down by at least a dozen 'ok i guess i could make this one work OT3.5' women

asked my OT10 hair dresser out IRL and we were married within 2 years and i've never been happier.

screw the dating sites. try talking to women IRL instead.
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:47 am
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
50741 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:46 am to
tell em to cut the BS, and that you make 925k and you're swinging a 7.5 incher, soft, do you want to be Tue or Thur and depending how that goes you might be able to get moved into the weekend rotation
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 11:33 am
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
77947 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:48 am to
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that you make 325k


you're no OT baw
This post was edited on 3/5/24 at 10:48 am
Posted by RoosterCogburn585
Member since Aug 2011
1532 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:48 am to
Im talking about once you get off the app phase and the texting phase. So interested enough to give me their number, but not interested enough to actually converse once they do. Makes no sense.
Posted by Yellerhammer5
Member since Oct 2012
10851 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:49 am to
quote:

Run into women who are "too busy" to text back? Where you only get a message every few days?


Unfortunately, that just means they’re too busy texting the guys they are interested in. Women will drop everything and go anywhere for the man they really want.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:49 am to
I had one 18 month relationship from a dating app with a successful and pretty woman. But most of the rest have been smash and dashes.

I don't really use them anymore and just pick up bar skanks for meaningless sex now. It's just as easy.
Posted by Forever
Member since Dec 2019
5721 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:49 am to
quote:

Any attractive girl on those sites is waking up to 100 new messages a day. Don't get offended at the slow responses but, if you find one you like.......better say something to make you stand out from the pack

I just couldn’t ever bring myself to do this. The girls who are on dating sites are either slutty, weird, screwed up, or a combination of the 3 and usually soft 7’s at best who are looking for a self esteem boost. The whole “impress me with your best line or I’m not responding” thing is so degrading and lame over the quality of women that hang out on dating sites and the quality of conversation you’d have with them IRL.

I’m in the camp that it’s way more fun to pick up a hobby that both men and women can do and hope to organically connect with someone that way. Bars and dating app girls are a waste of time and energy
Posted by Hoops
LA
Member since Jan 2013
6515 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:51 am to
They are only too busy for YOU lol
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
7463 posts
Posted on 3/5/24 at 10:52 am to
quote:

only get a message every few days
She is either in a relationship, or into you, but not wanting you. When she messages you, do you reply within a few minutes or hour or two tops? She is either hiding you, or stringing you along. Women have the advantage on these apps and sites. You have to know going in that she has options, you might as well, but she has more options than she can respond too. If you can capture more than just her eye, but her attention as well, you should try and move off the site and to SMS/Facetime/etc before she gets pings with a guy who also caught her eye and might be more engaging with her.

Two options, she is already boo'd up and keeping options or looking for some side action. Or you aren't very engaging. If it's the former get out. If it's the latter then I'd probably start to open up my options because you might be able to get her into a conversation and back engaged, but chances are some else already has.
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