re: Any of you baws ever hooked up with or dated a coworker?

You are young

If you work at a restaurant and you want to bang the hostess, have at it.

If you work in an office setting I would strongly advise against it unless you feel pretty strongly that she could be the one.

A lot of people end up meeting their spouse at work. More people end up with a miserable situation because they wanted to sleep with the coworker that they've been flirting with.

I've had a couple of examples at two different companies and they both created miserable situations that I spent a lot of time regretting.

I'm a proponent of office dating... talking singles of course.

You've gotten a chance to see her behavior for a long period of time, in both good and stressful situations.

Cuts down on a lot of the BS of dating where someone just puts on a happy face for a few hours.

First job out of college while I was getting a masters was at a real estate law firm. Handled title searches, abstracts, closings etc. Was there about a year and hired a hot little secretary who sat right outside my office. Flirted here and there which led to “drinks after work” and nailed her in the parking lot of the local chili’s ha.

After that it was nonstop for about a year. She would wear sundresses to work almost every day with nothing underneath and since it was a small office only the lawyer, me, and 2 secretaries we would stay at the office while everyone else went to lunch and bang all over the office. On the boss’s desk, on the couch in the front, just all over the place. Just flip the dress up and get after it.

All that time never once saw a ring or heard any mention of her being married...but she was and her husband was working out of the country the whole time. When he came home finally and I found out she was married I started regretting it but couldn’t stop nailing her in the office every day it was just to good. After another 3 months or so I finally couldn’t do it any more and broke it off and luckily about a month after that she quit bc he got a job in another state where he could stay home and they moved.

Always felt bad for that guy I mean she never gave any hint that she was married to anyone in the office. No desk pictures to tip it off nothing. But damn it was fun for that year and almost getting caught multiple time by the boss getting after it with her on his desk was fun as hell since it was just a temporary job anyways.

When I was a DJ at the Gold Club, not a good deal.... after a while :)

Had one of the minor owners of the first engineering firm I worked at tell me "You should never get your meat where you get your bread". While sage advice, the irony was he was a notorious poon hound and I'm fairly certain he dove in at least once while I was there.

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we weren't working together when we got married though.

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I'm glad y'all are able to work things out and get back together.

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If it's service industry, part-time/side job type situation, get after it, especially if you're a young stud. In a corporate situation, not a good idea. Yeah, those sexy MILF's and divorcees would ride you on a short lope all you want, but never shite where you eat.

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receptionist and i were hired the same day..we went across the street for drinks afterward and yada yada yada, i drove her to work the next morning for our orientation.

so technically we weren't 'coworkers' at the time.

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Any of you baws ever hooked up with or dated a coworker?

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Yes, the first one.

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If so what’s your story?

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We had sex. Then it was awkward at work. End story.

#metoo leads to #yourefired

Don’t do it, it’s a trap.