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re: Anxiety Leaving the State of Louisiana

Posted on 8/20/18 at 1:29 am to
Posted by Collegedropout
Where Northern Mexico meets Dixie
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Posted on 8/20/18 at 1:29 am to
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Posted by Collegedropout
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Posted on 8/20/18 at 1:41 am to
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Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
31030 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 5:07 am to
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My Grandmother passed suddenly and while I was home for the funeral I really began to wonder why I was willing to be away from all I knew and loved. I used that road running in the other direction and came home.


Tough decision when you have a lot of family in La. You will only have one family and when they are gone you will realize you spend a lot of your free time hanging out with strangers and coworkers instead of being there for them. Once you start your grind with a job, wife, kids, and home upkeep you really don’t have much free time anyways. You can always visit California, NYC, Chicago, and Miami. That is what vacations are for.
This post was edited on 8/20/18 at 5:11 am
Posted by TigerBait1971
PTC GA
Member since Oct 2014
16382 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 6:12 am to
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leaving Louisiana


Good for you. Louisiana is a shite hole.

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Northeastern Ohio


Yikes
This post was edited on 8/20/18 at 6:12 am
Posted by JawjaTigah
On the Bandwagon
Member since Sep 2003
22934 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 6:19 am to
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Give it 2 years and you will never move back. It took 3 trips home before the roads and general ignorance became too obvious to ignore. You can’t unsee it once you realize the difference.

Lifelong NOLA people, my wife, 3 toddler kids and I moved away to the Midwest in 1984. Career decision. This was pre-email, FB, Skype and FaceTime days, when long distance calls were pricey. Snail mail was mostly it. So... first two years racked with homesick blues and culture shock. One funny thing - we had no idea that public restrooms, even in gas stations, could be nearly spotlessly clean all the time.

Then during one of our semi annual trips home, we started to realize how dirty our home city is, how much complacency and militant ignorance was rooted there, how corrupt and ineffective the govt was, how god awful bad the schools were, how expensive real estate was, how crime was rising, and how glad we weren’t raising our family there.

We’ve since moved back into the Southeast, but as retirement approaches have made the mutual decision to not move back and get restuck in that rut we broke out of. Besides we can still come home for visits, anytime we need a family fix, or crave the place for foodie or other nostalgic reasons.
This post was edited on 8/20/18 at 6:22 am
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16769 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 6:24 am to
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I always pictured clean cut families wearing big smiles snowsledding in the street with faint Christmas music playing in the background



You’re thinking of Vermont.

Ohio is the white trash version of Vermont. So you’re spot on, just add meth and some pills to your scene.
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
22394 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 7:42 am to
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Northeastern Ohio
girls can suck a golf ball thru a garden hose
Posted by ZeekFreak
Member since Jun 2017
616 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 8:52 am to
look up Teets Food Store out of Ville Platte, LA. They'll deliver all the smoked meats you want(you won't be disappointed) and go ahead and enjoy your time away from home.

Sounds like you landed a great job, you can just fly back occasionally and it gives your family a reason to travel/visit.


Grats
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76275 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 8:54 am to
try to frick an Amish chick
Posted by Stingy
TN
Member since Mar 2014
1907 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 9:04 am to
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In a couple weeks I’ll be moving to Northeastern Ohio.


That sounds terrible...no matter how money is involed.
Posted by cwarr14
up da bayou
Member since Oct 2013
386 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 9:09 am to
Do it! Colorado is awesome
Posted by BottomlandBrew
Member since Aug 2010
29898 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 9:32 am to
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Everywhere else sucks




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The people aren't as friendly




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The food isn't as good




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There isn't nearly as much to do as far as celebrations and festivals




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And fishing isn't as good




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And in most places, the housing stock is shite( nothing of any architectural significance, just track housing, mcmansions and strip malls as far as the eye can see)




It's okay if you're a homer. Love where you live, but to say every other place sucks, then you have some serious blinders on.

There are tons of friendly people in other parts of the country. Cajun/Creole isn't the only type of food in this world. Every place has celebrations and festivals unique to their background. Fishing might not be as good in Nebraska, but there are tons of places in the country where one can fish with ease. And the housing, let's see. I just picked a random street. You can do the same and find similar: Such character

Posted by redfishfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2015
5545 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 9:44 am to
I moved to Indiana straight out of college and couldn't wait to get back to LA. I have a big family that I love dearly and want to be close too. I made it about a year with the new job in Indiana and decided to come back. LA has it flaws but it's about making the best out of what you have. I love to fish and be in the outdoors and LA is world class in that aspect.
Posted by DallasTiger
THE Capital City
Member since Jan 2004
4559 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 9:45 am to
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What was your transition like?


Like immigrating to the USA from a third-world country. It was fantastic - professionally and personally.

Left nearly 23 years ago and have had a wonderful life I couldn't have created or even imagined had I stayed in Louisiana.

There are many fine people in Louisiana but the state has been and still is at or near the bottom of the barrel in terms of places in the United States to build a career and a life.

Your family and friends are only a plane ride away to visit.

Good luck to you!
Posted by m57
Flyover Country
Member since May 2017
2595 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 10:52 am to
I grew up a couple cities over from Mayfield Heights/Village area, in Cleveland Heights. The eastern suburbs are very nice, especially in terms of housing costs and amenities. There is tons of good shopping/restaurants, etc nearby especially at Beachwood Place/Legacy Village, you are close to the Metro Parks and tons of good public golf if you are into it (Way better golf than Louisiana could dream of). Only about 20 minutes from downtown Cleveland too. Cleveland doesn't have anywhere near the traffic issues that Nola/BTR have.

Be glad you are going to the east side, much more of a neighborhood feel than the cookie cutter west side.

But yes, the winters do suck.
This post was edited on 8/20/18 at 10:58 am
Posted by BlackPawnMartyr
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2010
16312 posts
Posted on 8/20/18 at 10:58 am to
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I always pictured clean cut families wearing big smiles snowsledding in the street with faint Christmas music playing in the background


I was in Hammond, IN 2 weeks ago. Thats the town that A Christmas Story was based off. It made southern white trash look classy.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70485 posts
Posted on 8/22/18 at 10:36 am to
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Do it! Colorado is awesome


Didn't get the job
Posted by LSUChamp06
Kansas City
Member since Nov 2007
2860 posts
Posted on 8/22/18 at 11:20 am to
Cajun grocer.com. This makes things easier for us.
Posted by tigbob
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2009
287 posts
Posted on 8/22/18 at 12:11 pm to
Moved to Houston about 6 years ago. Miss family, friends and the food. Love to visit LA but the quality of life here so much better. Tons of concerts to pick from which I go to many and much better golfing courses. Plus it's hot as hell here but rains so much less the LA. Have been rained on three times while playing golf! Still go back to LA to fish in the marsh with friends and visit but won't be going back after I retire!
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 8/22/18 at 12:14 pm to
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It's okay if you're a homer. Love where you live, but to say every other place sucks, then you have some serious blinders on.


Agreed. If you love Louisiana, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. More power to you.

But to say everywhere else in the country sucks is just asinine.
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